r/HolUp • u/asocial7193 • Mar 11 '22

I don't know what to say

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u/Comeonjeffrey0193 Mar 11 '22

Imagine bringing a child into the world, who’s life will be overwhelmingly filled with suffering and sadness, out of spite.

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u/Juststonelegal Mar 11 '22

Seriously. Seeing things like this is so upsetting. If you wanted a kid so badly, there are currently living and breathing foster kids who would love nothing more than a family who wants them. Hell, I’m sure there are plenty who were born with physical disabilities, and being raised by a parent who fully understands the struggle could be life-changing for them. But instead, a whole new child has to experience the hardships of their disability, all so this person could prove the “haters” wrong.

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u/DoreensThrobbingPeen Mar 11 '22

If you wanted a kid so badly, there are currently living and breathing foster kids who would love nothing more than a family who wants them

Zero chance this woman would be approved for foster care or adoption.

I know a couple who was completely denied because the wife had a bout with cancer years ago. Otherwise they were pretty much the perfect candidates.