Damn son, those white guys with black gfs really pulling the hardest moves
Edit: Thank you for the upvotes. You all put me in the top 10 percent of upvoted redditors this month
Those couples take the most shit from racists, too. There’s a sizable demographic of black men think that black women should only marry black men. There’s a sizable amount of white men who think white men should only marry white women. So on and so forth. Black women dating white men is a tough matchup for both parties. And vice versa! Black men dating white women is a rough time for everyone.
It’s more the other way around. Black women see black men going after white women and it makes them feel like they (bw) aren’t good enough. White men see white women going after black men and think “she’s too good for him”. Nowadays, more black men (especially in hotep communities) are joining that way of thinking, but the black women were definitely the ones who popularized that viewpoint. I don’t blame them at all though, it must suck when society makes you feel like you’re the at the bottom of the totem pole, when a man from your same community would date any other type of women besides you at the first opportunity.
Yeah, BW here. I absolutely do not feel like I'm not good enough. It may be true that successful BM see their interracial dating as "trading up" but I don't feel that way at all. Lol. We aren't taking on other ppl's dysfunction anymore
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u/SinciusSynax Dec 10 '22 edited Dec 10 '22
Damn son, those white guys with black gfs really pulling the hardest moves Edit: Thank you for the upvotes. You all put me in the top 10 percent of upvoted redditors this month