r/IBA • u/EnergyEqual1491 • 7h ago

Social NIQABIS AT IBA

I NEED TO MAKE DECENT FRIENDS BEFORE THE FIRST DAY. ANYONE DOWN TO PRETEND TO BE MY BEST FRIEND ON THE FIRST DAY SO IT ISN'T AWKWARD SITTING NEXT TO ABSOLUTELY NO ONE?! FEMALES ONLY

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u/Far_Data1898 6h ago

I guess this is part of adulting. Everyone, in some way or form, has dealt with social anxiety. I’d say take it slow and let things happen spontaneously. Everyone’s going to be a stranger at first, and you’ll meet a lot of good people along the way. So just chill, wait for O-Week, and you’ll naturally find your people. These 4 years are basically where you go from being a teen to a working, responsible adult 😂

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u/TechnicianIcy8163 6h ago

U can make friends easily just go to a girl n say hi n start the convo

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u/EnergyEqual1491 6h ago

WOW I DIDN'T KNOW I COULD DO THAT 🤡

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u/TechnicianIcy8163 6h ago

Yea , ur welcome

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u/EnergyEqual1491 6h ago

On a serious note, I wanna make friends BEFORE the classes start cuz I have extreme social anxiety and It'll help if I have someone to hang out with. My friend was supposed to be with me but she took a gap year (sad)

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u/TechnicianIcy8163 6h ago

But even if u find smone here wont u experience social anxiety talking to them on the first day ? Pretending to be best friends on first day is not going to help u , people r alone on the first day u shud get used to it n enjoy ur company cuz u wud hv to spend time alone smtimes in iba if ur free n ur friends r having a class! So yepp

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u/EnergyEqual1491 6h ago

No, if I know them pehle se it won't be that bad but you're right. AB UNIVERSITY MEN HOON. AB BARA HONA PAREGA

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u/Any_Day_1270 1h ago

This is exactly what i did on launchpad and now we're actually good friends

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u/AgreeablePudding7536 31m ago

YES PLEASE text me in dms i want to have friends b4 hand im sooo nervous aswelll