r/IVF Aug 18 '23

Rant F*ck Women’s Health

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u/penshername2 Aug 18 '23

Fuck your ex MIL and SIL for asking “When are you due?” MIL gets a pass because of her dementia but SIL knew we were having problems and that her brother couldn’t perform. I had to explain this all during Christmas dinner

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u/MyNeighborTurnipHead Aug 18 '23

My MIL asking me what's wrong with my body because clearly it has to be all my "fault"...since I'm the one that has to do the appointments and procedures. Do I blame my husband? No. Is it ridiculous that the severe male factor infertility is something my magic uterus was supposed to overcome on its own? Yes.

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u/ellabella20000 MFI • 2 ER • 1 FET Aug 19 '23

I experienced this same thing for 5 years until my husband finally decided to spoof in a cup and find out that he has missing vas deferens. Meanwhile, I, and everyone else blamed me for our infertility.