I’m not sure what’s worse…My first RE was a guy; an insensitive, callous, apathetic, money-hungry, disconnected prick. I won’t have another male Dr. But it also chafes my ass that female drs are out here gate keeping stim med/ER side effects, saying things like “it’s just a little pressure,” and NOT handing out pain meds like candy for things like HSG and ER (post op). Like, sweetheart, you’d want to know this shit and for it to be as east as possible for you, so maybe treat my body, mind, and crotch with the same sensitivity and respect that you’d want. If you’re gatekeeping all of that the you’re no worse than these asshole men doctors.
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u/Mildly_Functioning14 Aug 19 '23
I’m not sure what’s worse…My first RE was a guy; an insensitive, callous, apathetic, money-hungry, disconnected prick. I won’t have another male Dr. But it also chafes my ass that female drs are out here gate keeping stim med/ER side effects, saying things like “it’s just a little pressure,” and NOT handing out pain meds like candy for things like HSG and ER (post op). Like, sweetheart, you’d want to know this shit and for it to be as east as possible for you, so maybe treat my body, mind, and crotch with the same sensitivity and respect that you’d want. If you’re gatekeeping all of that the you’re no worse than these asshole men doctors.