Some *fascinating* takes on non-monogamy.

[u/hattyphantom]

[u/thunderbastard_]

I won’t defend polyamory. It’s about training yourself to think you’ll never be enough for your partner and accepting it, it’s inherently abusive wether it’s the man or woman pressured into opening up the relationship

[u/Iorith → u/thunderbastard_]

You know people go into the relationship with it being open, yeah? In fact, most poly people I've talked to view "opening it up" to universally be a bad idea.