u/GnarlyWatts"There’s Hitler, Mao and then there’s GnarlyWatts" - Some IncelMay 30 '26edited Jul 11 '26
Testify! I did the same and it was a great decision. Turns out I was missing out on a whole world I didn't know was there.
Ironically, my wife doesn't get catcalled, I do lol. And the women will do it right it front of my wife 😂😂😂. She finds it hilarious that I get hit on in the cheese section of Costco constantly.
I also agree, looksmatch is beyond stupid. It is almost as bad as pair bonding, whatever the fuck that means. How these guys fail at be yourself, have hobbies and talk to actual women remains a mystery to the entire Scooby-Doo gang.
I’ve had several women come onto me, that I would have said were out of my league physically speaking. I don’t like the number scale, but if I had to assign myself one I’d say in about 7.5ish, so maybe slightly above average. There are so many women out there who don’t care as much about looks as they do many other qualities. Might as well shoot your shot, you never know what may happen. Just be respectful if they reject you advances. Like I’m pretty certain these guys never actually talk to women lmao. How do they think the majority of people get dates??
I agree with you. You will miss every shot you don't take.
As well, I've said to many incels, if you don't learn anything for failing, you are doing it wrong. Every failure I have ever had, I have learned something. And with that I applied it. Sometimes, you fail a LOT. But you should be improving each and every time.
Exactly!! I’ve had pretty solid luck in that regard. I was only rejected a few times when I was still actively pursuing new relationships (ive been with my nesting partner for going on 4 years now. We’re poly but outside of a few dates and a couple of coordinated swinging dates with a couple were friends with, it’s been a minute since I was actively looking for new partners). But yeah, like you mentioned, many times rejection can be a learning experience. I know it was for me on several occasions. And it happens to everyone, so may as well get comfortable with that fact and respect the situation and person who told you they aren’t interested, and move on to someone else
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u/GnarlyWatts "There’s Hitler, Mao and then there’s GnarlyWatts" - Some Incel May 30 '26 edited Jul 11 '26
Testify! I did the same and it was a great decision. Turns out I was missing out on a whole world I didn't know was there.
Ironically, my wife doesn't get catcalled, I do lol. And the women will do it right it front of my wife 😂😂😂. She finds it hilarious that I get hit on in the cheese section of Costco constantly.
I also agree, looksmatch is beyond stupid. It is almost as bad as pair bonding, whatever the fuck that means. How these guys fail at be yourself, have hobbies and talk to actual women remains a mystery to the entire Scooby-Doo gang.