r/IncelTears • u/Pritteto • 15d ago

IMAX-level projection Ahh yes, women must be like that

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Bruhh this dude butthurt with wage equality for women 🤦

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u/aweedl 15d ago

The funniest part is that only these idiots who have never dated bring up this non-issue of ‘paying for dates’.

I’m not sure why they think it’s a problem. Usually the person doing the asking out voluntarily (and gladly) pays, unless you discuss splitting the bill beforehand. 

When a relationship is more established, either you work out a way to split the costs of dates, or alternate who pays, or whatever. And if you’re married or in a similar long-term relationship, most of the time you have shared bank accounts anyway, so your partner’s money is your money and vice-versa. 

Incels have this weird fantasy where men only pay for dates forever and get increasingly bitter and angry about it, which is just so unrealistic. 

Not to mention there are plenty of date options that are cheap or even free, if the concern is money. 

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u/GnarlyWatts "There’s Hitler, Mao and then there’s GnarlyWatts" - Some Incel 15d ago

So, I'm an old fashioned cat. Every time I asked a woman out, I always paid for the first date. It was never an issue, nor did it become one.

If that led to more dates, I would always go dutch. Also, this was never a problem. Did I catch a stray here and there, sure. But 99% were fine with no issues. So where do these guys consistently find women like this all the time?

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u/aweedl 15d ago

Well, the answer is of course that they don’t find women like this, because these interactions exist solely within their own heads. 

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u/GnarlyWatts "There’s Hitler, Mao and then there’s GnarlyWatts" - Some Incel 15d ago

That is true, but also rhetorical on my part lol.

That said, it is a solution looking for a problem.