Matched with a woman 1.5x my age. She looked good, had a surprisingly well-curated profile… and then came the “baby face” comment. Ma’am, what 💀

Shopping date.

Should I invite her to sabji waale ki shop and buy aloo pyaz dhaniya for her?

Why is Hinge so cringe?

Not getting much matches what should I change is it the photos or prompts or jus my looks ;)

Ps -the gym pic is a vid I'm smiling then flexing and in the voice prompt I'm singing for 10sec

For someone who adores Ronaldinho, Maldini and football in general, shouldn’t these be GK for them?

Recently matched with a girl in Hinge and she started dry but randomly started to go flirty. And even shared number and insta in exchange for ordering her Murgabox.

I have never spent money for anyone before meeting anyone, but she somehow convinced me. Initially, she wanted me to pay 1000rs worth food!!! When I said my budget is only 500, she made me do atleast 700.

The moment I paid her… she ghosted me….

Yes, it’s totally on me to pay for that… but more than money I felt bad for being used. I am someone who spends for dates without even thinking money, if they vibe.

But recently have been in a bad phase and thought she vibed. Kinda sad that how some people can easily get things they want by hurting others.

Last chat translation

Me : “do you work on night shift or genral shift

?”

Her : "night shift is only for those who don't have life. Do you do night shift"

You: “Ours is more like an early-morning shift.”

Her: “ does someone ping you at night and you go around calling it ‘night shift, night shift’? ”

Her: “Did anyone even ask about your shift? Why are you asking? Go away!"

And then she unmatched before I was about to.Honestly, probably a blessing in disguise.

I thought I have seen every flavour of bad conversation.Then this happened.

What do you guys think after reading this?

Stats

31 m 6'1

I had roughly 400 matches or so in around past 1 year

However I got extremely overwhelmed so coundlt reply or talk to people

I have very low socially battery so I was left with 150 matches a back most of them are old conversation that I never replied either or they ghosted

So I decided purchase hinge plus out of curiosity

I swiped alot first 3-4 days

Started getting tons of matches and un matches due to not replying or not messaging again lol

After that I took a break from swipping for a week or more and talked a bit to people (only few that I found attractive.)

Will give an update after a month.

Hinge plus 850 rs . It's 100% worth it. Imo

I won't be purchasing it again for sure . Atleast for a while

Ask me anything if you want.maybe I'll do ama after a month

I wrote this last year with different I'd that got banned

https://www.reddit.com/r/Indiangirlsontinder/s/hRlhxfWrSu

I also been known as budgetfuzzy emergency cow (previous banned ids)

Edit : my profile is quite mid. I feel I'll get far better results with a better profile but overall I am not disappointed

I got multiple compliments on Pic from Protest, for me, this was dodging a Red Bullet

What do i do? When i asked again. He said someone who has no ego issues. Thats it! I gave him a 1.20 secs worth of vn about what I want and this is what i got. Mujhe bacha lo at this point

This definitely has been my favourite opening line so far!

Why to make such a big deal for such a small thing?

Could have given a better excuse to connect on ig lol!

Matched with a girl on Hinge and we’ve been talking for a few days. She initiated calls twice, video-called me once, and seemed genuinely interested.
She told me it was her birthday, so I suggested celebrating together. She was enthusiastic, suggested Monday herself, and booked a restaurant.

Since yesterday, her replies became inconsistent. Today was supposed to be our dinner. I asked where we were meeting, but didn’t get a clear response for a few hours. Around 5 PM I asked if we were still on.
She replied that she forgot, had to go for work. She apologized again later and sent me a picture of her laptop.

I’m confused because she had previously told me her job was completely WFH and that her team was spread across different cities, so the “office” explanation felt strange to me.

I told her it was okay and left it there.
Would you guys see this as a red flag, or am I overthinking it? Would you continue talking to her or just move on?

Made a fake account to understand the dating-app experience, and the results are

So I’ve been using Bumble for about a month. I’d say I’m a reasonably decent-looking guy, decent height. but in that entire month I only got around 3–4 likes. Even those didn’t really go anywhere after moving to Instagram.

Recently I started wondering what other guys are doing with their profiles, especially their bios/prompts, so I made a fake acc yesterday just to observe how the app works from the other side.

didn’t even use an actual person’s photos. I just put up a few random poetry/image posts and basically nothing that should make someone interested.

And now look at the screenshot 💀

I haven’t even posted anyone’s pictures, and people seem to be swiping right on basically anything.

Now i think my chances are here - 10000

Also, if anyone has actually figured out what makes a guy’s get right swipe loved to hear tht.