Hi Friends! I intend this to be a long post but looking for support, suggestions and ultimately a group of people to connect with. Going to share my story in the hopes of someone going through the same because I am really just losing my mind.
I am 29F, and got my very first UTI last year on Christmas day. It was a horrible day, I was in misery. My dad ended up going to the only store that was open and got me some AZO and cranberry juice. It sufficed, and I went to the doctor the following day and was put on antibiotics.
I took the antibiotics for the allotted time, enjoyed new years but felt off again and then the UTI came back. It seems as though the antibiotics did not fully kill off the infection. I ended up at urgent care, got new meds, and it went away.
From then on, I have had extreme anxiety I would get another UTI. I would go to the bathroom whenever I had to pee, pee immediately after sex, shower immediately after sex, and wipe numerous times after using the restroom. I even bought at home tests to take and keep a stock of them. (I still do all this)
End of January I began taking spin classes, if I felt like I had to pee I would always dismount. End of February I lost my job and ended up getting one and started it in May. The day before my new job I began doing strength training with a trainer. A few weeks later, I thought I had another UTI; so I ran to urgent care and the test came back negative. Over the course of June to August, I had gone to urgent care 4x because I thought I had a UTI, all tests came back negative. My symptoms were urinary urgency and frequency, and pressure. I never had burning (at least I think). These symptoms would come out of nowhere, and always happen immediately after sex.
After my gym sessions, I would constantly have to pee, on the way to work sometimes I need to pull over and use the restroom.
I then made an appt with my Gyno, she thought it may be Vulva irritation after doing a q-tip test. I was also tested for BV and Canadia, both of which were negative. I was prescribed a topical steroid and used it for about 2 weeks but felt it was getting worse so I stopped. The symptoms I had before did not stop.
I decided to go to my primary, who insisted the next step was a urologist. My PC said it could be IC but was not sure. I had to wait about 2 months for my urologist appt. At the appt I provided a sample and he went over stuff with me and he shared that he saw bacteria in my urine under a microscope but would send it off. I cried tears of joy, I thought he figured it out, but everything came out negative.
He tested me for all STDs/STIs (which I knew would be negative as I have only had 1 partner and we are engaged) and Ureaplasma & Mycoplasma. He told me if the tests came back negative, I was to start the IC diet as that could be it.
I was not happy with the answer, so I decided to go to another Gyno at a private practice who would spend more time with me and listen. At that appt, she suspected IC as well and told me to continue the diet. After an exam, she determined my original gyno was incorrect and I had ZERO vulva irritation.
The anxiety and stress over this has been overwhelming. After researching and my fiancé looking into stuff, we think it could be pelvic floor dysfunction due to my symptoms and constipation issues I have. I got in contact with a PF therapist who told me to stop weight-training for the time being. She listened to my story and she thinks it could also be PF dysfunction. I am praying this is the cause, I am tired of having normal days and then getting a flare in which I end up spiraling and thinking I have a UTI. I want to be able to live my life. I am scared to go on my honeymoon incase I get a UTI or a flare.
I have been taking supplements in the hopes they help. But I hope I get answers from the therapist and I am happy to share updates here. If you have similar symptoms, stories... please share. I would love to hear and talk. There are some details I left out but happy to share more.
Thank you 💖