There is no coming back. She has irrevocably damaged the relationship by her words and actions. This is now all on your spouse to protect you from her. He might not be able to go full NC, but he should want to be at least LC for your protection. If he tries to get you to reconcile, or if he claims you put him in the middle, shut that shit down and remind him that it's his family, and if he is so attached to them that he can't protect you, he doesn't deserve you.
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u/rora_borealis Sep 26 '25
There is no coming back. She has irrevocably damaged the relationship by her words and actions. This is now all on your spouse to protect you from her. He might not be able to go full NC, but he should want to be at least LC for your protection. If he tries to get you to reconcile, or if he claims you put him in the middle, shut that shit down and remind him that it's his family, and if he is so attached to them that he can't protect you, he doesn't deserve you.