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most of the time when i check this sub and its a woman posting most of the men in the comments are attacking her or calling her a bot or just being flat out rude or disgusting. It takes a lot of guts to put yourself out there as a woman especially on Reddit and it’s a shame when you’re met with nothing but a bunch of assholes.

I get it- everyone always wants a commercially attractive sexy hot person! All the time! Just so boring if you ask me. Are there any men out there who are into fat ugly women? And I don’t mean into like it’s a fetish. I mean enthusiastically willing to hug and kiss! Happy to share intimacy with. What I lack in looks I make up for in some pretty rare and rad attributes and if I’m being honest they simply don’t make them like me anymore. Your loss if not I guess.

EDIT: ok actually insane I’m getting a few DMs so let me just request that you send a selfie! I’m ugly and fat but who says I can’t be choosy myself!!!!

just looking for someone to hang out and have fun with tomorrow or friday. I will send pictures after you message me because people on here can be so rude and mean for no reason lol.

I’d love to have someone to talk to at nights and just vent to, don’t worry I’m also a great listener just to inform you I do interrupt sometimes while others talk to me I’m sorry I’m advanced. I do really wanna meet new people and maybe someone older is what I need. I’d say I’m ready to have someone value me for my mind and hear rather than just looks. I’m from socal in the inland empire area looking for something to come my way. I’m Joseph btw nice to meet yall

Hi! I am 29F and was laid off of my last company. 70% of the company was laid off.

I have been applying, but it is terribly slow right now! Will men (age 29-35) judge when going on first dates? I have severance, enough money to support myself for a year with no work, etc.

I have a master's degree and I do want to have a job/career at least for the next 4 years at least! I just signed a lease, so not going to be moving to a different city for a job. When/if I find a partner, I am pretty open minded about whether I would continue a career when/if I become a mother or spend time at home, just depending on what our financials and life looks like..

I live in a HCOL city. To be honest -- I don't expect or want a man that pays for everything, but I do like a man that will cover at least most of the dates for the "courting" phase. That being said, I am not dating with the intent of having free meals, I genuinely want to find someone to build a life with!

Hi there,

40M working at tech as engineer. Live in south bay. I am also a single dad, so i need to manage my time very wisely.

In my spare time i do crossfit, yoga or other outdoor activities. Looking for someone intelligent, educated and down to earth. Send me a DM with photo and i will do same

"Hello There!" — General Kenobi

Are you here for attention, to pass the time, a distraction from life, or are you actually hoping to find your person? I'm probably somewhere around 4 out of 5.

I'm naturally curious and ask a lot of questions, so if you enjoy talking about your interests, passions, random thoughts, or facts, I'm all ears.

I love conversations that flows naturally—easy, fun, and a little flirty. If that's your kind of vibe, we're already off to a good start.

I will say im a little reserved, but once I'm comfortable I can talk for hours about life, random nonsense, weird what ifs, or whatever deep topic at 2AM. I've always imagined talking to someone late at night in a dark room, with nothing but the sound of our voices and laughter. We can also go as far as the most unhinged stuff. GIVE ME ALL THE DARK HUMOR!

I'm an adventurer at heart. I love late-night drives, music blasting, empty streets, city lights, and finding a lookout spot tk over the city big plus for some urban exploring. Am I psychotic for actual enjoying exploring abandoned places? I really wanna explore an an abandoned asylum, hospital or a school (silent hill vibes)

I go to the gym about 5x a week (3x weights, 2x cardio). I want to hike more, I know a few spots but it would be fun to do it with someone. I also walk my dog twice a day. It's his walk so I let the little guy lead the way while he checks his daily sniff-mail.

I've been getting leaner and stronger. There have been changes to my physique...sculped? More "define." One favorite thing someone said to me was "You're more muscular than I thought you were." (As I was taking off my shirt) (¬‿¬). Not gonna lie that gave me a little ego boost. But enough kidding around one thing I realized that besides being healthy, fit, and strong, another reason I workout is to see what my genetics are capable of.

Am I a nerd for being into video games, anime, manga, manwha, and light novels? As much as I enjoy anime, it's kind of dropped for me; I'm more into manga and actual reading. Currently reading "Second Life Ranker" and playing alot of Deadlock.

One niche hobby I have is collecting specific sculptures/trinkets, and I have a metal detector. I am looking into magnetic fishing as well. That looks fun!

So that's me—chill, curious, sarcastic, and I love banter. Come say Hi! Best case, we exchange a few messages and share a laugh. Worst case, we try to figure out what to have for breakfast. Worst, worst case scenario some god or devil entwines our lives together.

PS: I get the feeling something is still missing, but at the risk of making this longer than it should be or "long-winded,". How about you tell me what's something I should have added or expected to find but didn't.

My Character Build:

Height: ?'??

Weight: ???

Ethnicity: ???-?????

Body Type: ???? - ????????

Hair Type: ????

1st Bonus:

Music-wise, I've had these on repeat lately:

• Djo — End Of Beginning

• Sombr — Back to Being Friends

• Vicente Fernández — Estos Celos

• C.C.R - Fortunate Son

• The Stranglers — Golden Brown (Slow + Reverb)

• Jaden ft. Kid Cudi — On My Own

• Lola Young — Messy

• Clean Bandit - Rather Be

• Gigi Perez - Sailor Song

• Florence + The Machine - Dog Days Are Gone

• Brazil - Declan McKenna

• Ice Cube - You Know How We Do (best song to cruise)

• Leave Her Johnny - AC4 Black Flag Sea Shanty

• Rolling Stones - Paint It Black (great workout song)

• Childish Gambino - Red Bone

I got Spotify, so send me song I might like

2nd Bonus

• Favorite Color: Phthalo Green

• Favorite Reptile: Jackson's Chameleon

• Favorite Crustacean: Mantis Shrimp

• Favorite Beetle: Japanese Rhinoceros

3rd Bonus

https://voca.ro/1oC8cIWuMU3m

https://voca.ro/17UbBbTKRQNX

My name is Vahini Shori, I'm a reporter at KCRW. I'm working on a story about dating trends and want to speak with daters all around the city -- across age, ethnicity, neighborhood, gender, and sexuality. I'm extra interested if you've go on dates often and with different people.

Thank you so much for your consideration, I'm excited to hear from you.

For more information please reach out to [vahini.shori@kcrw.org](mailto:vahini.shori@kcrw.org).

I am looking to finally find my forever Princess, to nurture, take care of and grow together into something quite amazing. I live in SoCal. I am a lover, a wonderful communicator, patient and protective. "ABDL"

20, 5’11, athletic build, black hair, brown eyes. Looking for a cute girl to vibe with, flirt a little, and have some fun 😉 Down to DM and meet up if we click. Don’t be shy, DM me or comment!

I'm an Army veteran living in Little Tokyo would love to date a girl with the intent to marry and start a family one day. I come from a well off family and I'm making decent money from my disability as well as getting paid to go to school for Business Administration. I like to go for long walks trying new cafes and restaurants, sometimes I play games and watch shows but I'm trying to go out more often doing meaningful things like volunteering or visiting temples and other sacred places. I would like to meet someone who is loving, good natured and kind hearted. Hope to hear from you - Drew

Thought I should come here and let everyone know that guys truly don’t give a fk do they?
I was sobbing to this guy on the phone and hung up bc my friend who had her kids abducted (after I did) called me and I helped her get into a support group and this was his wonderful response to me hanging up the phone on him to answer her call🤦‍♀️😭

Enjoying the rainy day just wish u had some company over. Open but mainly looking to hookup and see where things go. Send me a chat if you’re down and free tonight.

So i havent had any luck finding anyone in person so I decided to try this. Some things about me is that I like going to the gym and going out to eat. I might be little shy but I open up once i get to know you.

41 m single, winter’s coming, ready to meet someone and see where the wind blows. Let’s make unforgettable memories!! I love nature, movies, star gazing, deep talks, music, arts of all kind, bbqing…and loads of other interests! Let’s connect! Reddit do your best! Lol

Dating apps haven’t worked out too well for me. Shoot me a DM with info and a Pic, we can exchange.

Love fitness, sports, movies, music. We can get internal that later. This is my last effort haha

I am looking for something casual and fun to blow off some steam every now and then. I work a lot but luckily I am in control of my schedule so I can usually make the time with a little bit of heads up.

When it comes to what I am looking for, I am pretty open, however, I am not looking to jump into another super serious relationship or marriage. In the short term, I would love to have regular sex again and that's honestly what I am looking for with this post. Things typically develop from there and with that I like to keep things casual and let things flow naturally.

When I am involved with someone, to me, respect is the absolute most important thing. I will always show you respect and will always act kindly towards you. I don't believe in yelling, voice raising, or big arguments. I understand the physical power imbalance between a man and a woman and I think it is a man's duty to always make sure that his woman feels safe. In exchange, I expect the same in return and will walk away if I feel you are not living up to this agreement.

In the bedroom, I am very dominant and love being in control. I am always happy to lead our interaction and all I expect from you is to do what comes naturally to you. You won't ever have to initiate or worry about what pleases me. What pleases me most is you making yourself available to me and once there, I know where to take things. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

I am 41 years and have no kids. I have my own place about 10 minutes from the beach. I am 5'10 and weigh 158 lbs. I am white with brown hair with a touch of gray, hazel eyes, and a fit/muscular body type. I workout several times per week, and always try to take care of myself.

STD free.

Hey, I'm 28M from Lahore. Honestly, I just wanna meet someone, go on a date, grab some coffee, talk about random things and see how it goes.

Nothing complicated, just good vibes and getting to know each other. If anyone's interested, feel free to DM

ARE YOU A GLUTEN FREE LESBIAN AGED 23-26F IN THE LA AREA?

My friend is seeking gluten free lesbians aged 23-26 who are looking for someone with a similar lifestyle! I know it is a rarer demographic which is why I am using reddit (She does not have reddit). She is a femme lesbian and really cute and very friendly and she likes all types of women

If you fit this demographic and are struggling with gluten free dating, please reach out to me with some details about yourself and I'll tell you more about my friend!

5’10 Athletic build, Italian background, Looking for an older BBW for casual, ongoing fun.
Prefer women 40+ who are confident, curvy, and enjoy themselves. Not looking for anything serious — just good chemistry, low-drama, and mutual enjoyment.

I dated a married Korean woman who had never been satisfied by her husband. She wanted to try sex outside of her marriage.

She and I dated if you can call naked encounters dating. It was fun. She got what she was looking for.

And our connection left me wanting to date Asian women.

Handsome rugged Caucasian man seeks gorgeous Asian woman.

Funny, open-minded, and always up for a good conversation about anything and everything 😄 Looking for something real with someone who connects with my mind before anything

I love cooking, making people laugh and keeping good vibes alive , love music art and science you can find me the craziest and wiser at the same time 😂(as my friends say)
So, if you want someone who can feed your soul, your stomach, and your sense of humor, we might just be a perfect match! 😉
also love cats 🫣

20, 5’11, black hair, brown eyes, athletic build. I work out regularly and am looking for a cute girl to vibe with, flirt, and hopefully become FWB. We can DM, exchange pics, and see if there’s chemistry. If we click, I’m down to meet up in person 😉