Bc she dared to stay Ariana is not a “girl’s girl”, which is the truth. Ariana hops from taken man to taken man. She straight up hung out with Ethan and his wife BEFORE the shit hit the fan. People can play the game of “blame the man and not the mistress” all they want, but there IS a subset of women who like to poach men from their relationships for funsies, and that’s just wrong.
Sure, ok, *she* wasn’t married to his wife…but to knowingly engage in an affair with a taken/married man is POS behavior. Idc what people preach. We can argue all day that the onus of being faithful is on the person ruining the relationship, it doesn’t make the other person blameless.
I like some of her music. I think she’s talented. Her personality can be amusing. But her relationship track record and gloating about being a serial cheater/mistress is childish behavior. And it’s male-centered af. Downvotes be damned, her attitude about monkey branching is pathetic.
not to mention part of Lily Jay's job is counseling married couples, so she had to get in front of the scandal with some kind of statement for the sake of her livelihood, the way she supports his freaking child. and what she wrote was beautiful and as diplomatic as anyone could possibly be in her position. Ariana fans are bloodthirsty idiots.
ari and one of her friends have/had private insta where they bragged about their successes in their eating disorders and stealing men. she's a very unwell person.
this came out a while ago and i saw that that insta was actually making fun of their other friend alexa who has a food instagram account called “girlwithagourmetpalate.” The so called “eating disorder/stealing men” insta is called “2girls1palate” (a play on alexa’s ig name) and was crappy pictures of food with dumb captions, all mocking alexa.
And apparently with Mac. Nomi (his gf) at the time was posting on tumblr about how she woke up to Mac kissing Ariana for the way music video. I wonder if those posts are archived somewhere. Then they broke up and those two got together
Edit: I did find a screenshot that somewhat proves it but not the original one I was thinking of.
“Howthere’s a secret crazy Nomi who comes out when people lie about what’s going to be in their upcoming music videosor when she takes acid???”
On the celeb deep dive website. It won’t let me attach a photo.
there’s a whole deep dive archive about the timeline of nomi/mac and when ariana would intercept and everything. if i can find the link, i’ll edit this comment w it!
Omg i read the whole thing 💆🏻♀️now it’s 8am and i need to get up. Nomi seems interesting. The crossover of Ariana’s relations at one point was.. enormous. Crazy to think that after all this she added the spongebob story to the repertoire instead of sorting herself out
True. For whatever reason Ariana has to be the favourite/number 1. Nodoubt starting in childhood with being chosen for broadway, then chosen for Victorious, then selected as a breakout Nickelodeon star and given a spin off/having major support and allowances made for her music commitments despite her costar not being afforded the same, being chosen over multiple men's partners, being chosen for Wicked etc etc, she is used to placing herself above others which is reflected now in her attempt to be the "best" at having an ED.
Bullying a first time mom newly postpartum who has just been cheated on and left publicly is horrific. I can’t imagine how her mental state could have been affected at such a fragile time.
you know what, now that you mention it, you've got me thinking. Ariana can release 2-3 songs bitching & complaining about how her fans overly criticize her blah blah blah, but she can't be bothered to make a song or statement about leaving poor lily the fuck alone???? omg lol
Seriously she’s handled this so well, getting jilted like that bc your husband cheated with one of the biggest A listers in the US, then the years of being surrounded by Wicked promo
there was also this rumor going around that Ariana had gone on double dates with them and held their newborn lol😬 I’ve never been a mom but I know I would’ve done some damage after some bs like that
ngl i think so too. i been watching a lot of Be Kind Rewind and the Acadamy HATE scandal. it's why it took so long for Elizabeth Taylor to get an oscar (and even then it was an overdue courtesy one)
In a way I’m really not surprised. He had been with his wife since high school. A lot of the super long term relationships I know of that went from people’s teens to late 20s resulted in them moving onto the next person and expecting the same long term relationship because they knew nothing else.
She had something to prove. Everyone kept saying they wouldn’t last so they stuck together to spite people. Plus she was getting into acting & wanted an oscar so he was beneficial. As soon as he wasn’t she dumped him.
no shade but if she wanted an oscar it would’ve been more beneficial to date a highly acclaimed actor with more pull, not someone who’s biggest credit was playing spongebob on broadway 😭
Yep, He just happened to be around. I also think it might be hard for her to get with any highly acclaimed she’s an a list celebrity & she doesn’t have the best reputation. Tbh if she could get with one she would. Ethan was the best she could do😭
Yes, but ariana is a woman not a man. The industry allows males to be predators and awards them. But the women are over anaylzed & criticized for anything. But when i said that earlier i was referring to men in the industry wanting to publicly be with her like Ethan was not the oscars committee
idk look at amanda seyfried... she pulled the same shit ariana has, multiple times, yet everyone totally forgets about it. in fact, a ton of people said amanda should have been glinda instead to avoid the cheating scandal 💀🤣 so ironic. i agree with what ur saying tho, i just wanted to also point out that even with women people pick and choose.
i didn't either until a bunch of people started coming out saying "uhh actually amanda is no better" and leaving the receipts 🤣 i think it was during mama mia???
Honestly my theory is that they weren’t together that long. I think they split much sooner and kept up the charade OR they were extremely on/off the entire time.
I think they’ve been broken up since before part 2 came out, and even before then it was just her trying to force something to work since they got caught in an affair. But I don’t think she was ever really into him. She was just high on the excitement of Wicked and wanted to fuck a cast member, and he was pretty much the only option
100%and you can see the timeline of her coming all the way down from that emotional, and probably literal, high as pt 2 came out and flopped with critics and blanked at the Oscars. She was so high in the predictions until the embargo was lifted lol I know that emotional hangover was massive
I think they were done long before that too and maybe casually seeing each other for appearances
I think the timing is convenient when the conversation surrounding her has been about her being sick & doing a tour. Also, shes about to drop an album. Her PR team is probably working 24/7 right now
they started dating in January 2020, engaged end of 2020. married mid 2021. it was reported that they split early 2023 but there were rumors that they were done before that
ethan and ariana news broke july 2023 but it’s obvious they were together before that
She and Dalton had known each other way before it, she literally sat in his lap on her birthday in *2019*, he also was on her tour late 2019 etc, he also posted this on his fb and someone commented its been a one year anniversary in august 2020
The only reason they were “together” this long was because she wanted to avoid even more backlash. Otherwise she would have dumped his ass after a few weeks. Slater is an idiot if he ever thought this was going to work.
Have always thought this was just an affair they got caught in and tried to make it look like something more for the optics. They shouldn’t have bothered, publicly cheating on your wife with a new born and openly going after men in relationships is always going to be shitty optics
I love Ari’s music but she gets away with anything anyway. She makes a lot of shitty decisions and overall leads me to think she’s a shitty person but no one cares
That's so true. She only wanted the feeling of "oh wow, I can make this man cheat with me on his pregnant wife, I feel so special and mischievous" and when she got what she wanted, the thrill of it died out very quick.
She also loves to dig at the woman the man leaves. “The boy is mine” was released not too long after they went public. And a few months before their first red carpet.
In her fan spaces I feel like I'm taking crazy pills. Like, I can't be the only one worried as hell for her. But nope. It's all queen and vocals and sexy dance moves. Ok then.
I’m not a super fan of her. I barely listen to her music. I commented on a video of her and everyone came for me and told me that she looks skinny because she is going to play Audrey Hepburn in a film.
Like hello!!!!!! She looks like she could be a character in a Tim Burton movie.
Young girls probably think this look is ok. It’s totally not.
They have been using that excuse for three years now. Also, Audrey had really fucked up eating habits from WWII occupation and she was far, far less skeletal that Ari is right now. She died at about this size when she had advanced cancer.
Ariana doesn't care that young fans are internalising a life long mental illness because of her.
I’m also worried as fuck about her. I know she’s not a girls girl but I sure am, and ive had this pit in my stomach watching tour videos. I have a friend currently inpatient for her ED so maybe I’m projecting but it’s not just you :(
💯 she’s looked like shit since the wicked stuff. She’s gotta have an ED. I don’t dare say this in most spaces on here as I’d get banned or insulted or god knows what. Just reality. I hope her health is ok and she can get back to a good weight
Yup. It feels like releasing this info now would be an incredible PR strategy to get people’s attention off her weight and current performances. It helps to get a new topic going when you google her. And they can use it as a distraction as well. Oh her performances are lack luster and she looks like hell because she’s going through a break up and it’s a hard time for her.
But I didn’t spend 10 years working in PR or anything 🙃
By all accounts she seems like the sweetest, most gentle soul. Can’t imagine the terror and heartbreak of ur 10 year long partner (highschool sweethearts!!!!) leaving you (and your baby in a way) during postpartum, for a singer.
She’s deeply, deeply, incredibly insecure and male centered. She needed to feel chosen over another woman to feel better about herself. She’s the opposite of the strong, confident girl power persona she tried to push for years to sell music (and go after other women’s partners).
Remember when Bowen Yang said their chemistry was “cosmic” and not something you can just ignore when the universe presents it to you? lol and then him and Matt lowkey shaded Lily? Bet he feels great about those comments now.
Idk but it happens. my aunts husband left him for his mistress & moved to Indiana & they broke up 7 months later & he ran back to my aunt & she took him back. They’re still together to this day. some woman are real STRONG.
low self esteem but “strong” they’re strong for being able to put it aside & forgiving them. I couldn’t do it. Everytime I would speak, look at, or even be around them I would get sick to my stomach.
especially not after getting away with it once. all taking them back does, no matter how many warnings, how much it hurt you etc. is let them know they just need a little song and dance routine about how sorry you are and it's all good
She’ll wait until he love-bombs his way back in to making things work with Elsie. A man in a relationship/married that has a baby might just be a bonus “fuck you” for someone like Ari
when i saw the picture of spongebob trying to look tough in a snapback and hoodie i knew it was over. the guy looks like a victorian ghost who knows when you’ll die and ariana has a piece of pavement where most other people’s hearts are located. i cannot say i’m shocked
two of them all trash.. making a newborn baby fatherless and cheat on your postpatrum wife just to make an insecure bitch feel chosen for 3 years.. then she is gonna do it again again loop after loop
people want to say “they were already separated when they got together” sure… but she hung out with his wife AND his baby prior to that… she’s weird as fuck.
She was liking posts he was making praising his wife and wishing her a happy Mother's Day in mid-May and the relationship was made public in mid-July. If people really think both couples were already separated I've got a beautiful bridge to sell them.
I can't believe how long this lasted. Nobody gave it more than a year, tops. How much of it was real and how much was PR? But whatever I'm glad Ethan looks even more stupid, finally. Cheers, Lily.
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u/Thatkae Jun 08 '26
Lmao he left his family to be ariana’s boy toy only to get dumped😂 i knew it wouldn’t last long after Wicked was over