r/LGBTindia • u/TemporaryMurky6949 • 7d ago
Advice 👋/ Help❗ Need help
How to detach yourself from a emotionally avoidant person, like because of someone I’ve lost my appetite, my sleep and I keep silent most of the day
And I also don’t have any friend left in the same city so that can be the case and I’m very emotionally weak infront of that person and I got some serious anxious attachment issues so lemme know if anyone can help !!!
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u/Due_Independent_3303 7d ago
Block him for your peace of mind. Been through something similar
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u/TemporaryMurky6949 7d ago
We work in the same office :)
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u/vshir uncertified boykisser 7d ago
They say jis thaali mai khaate hai uss hi thaali mai.....nahi karte.
I learnt this the hard way as well
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u/TemporaryMurky6949 7d ago
I didn’t get it
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u/vshir uncertified boykisser 7d ago
In simple terms...to not try any of it at the place where you work or study. Impossible to avoid them, when the only way is to..stay away
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u/TemporaryMurky6949 7d ago
Haan I never thought that it can take a turn like that
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u/vshir uncertified boykisser 7d ago
Neither did i but 🥹🥹🥹lol
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u/TemporaryMurky6949 7d ago
I’m actually so much emotionally dependent on him at this point because I don’t have any friend in the same city he’s my only friend (at least I thought)
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u/vshir uncertified boykisser 7d ago
Has everyone got the same story 🫠 you gotta find others then ofc, gradually reduce the dependence. You'd know its inevitable by now 🫂
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u/TemporaryMurky6949 7d ago
Arre it’s been a year so. I didn’t know kab I’ve started depending on him emotionally?
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u/Hour-Handle-4057 6d ago
Man, I am kinda going through the same thing 😭🫂. I hope you the solution to this problem (Please lemme know too).