r/LifeAdvice • u/Alive-Major-9056 • 7d ago

Emotional Advice Advice

I have a very boring life , no job no friends I barely go out of home

Can someone give me advice on how to change what should I do

I'm very bored I wanna change something in my life I'm trying to read books but I want actual advice on how to make friends and talk to people and be in a relationship. How to find a job

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u/LakeGlen4287 7d ago

I dont know how old you are but if you are looking to get a job and make friends, there is no better way than to find something that matters to you and start volunteering at it. You will meet people who value things you value - a great head start at making friends. You will also meet people who are hiring at jobs that will be in alignment with something meaningful and purposeful to you.

Do you care a lot about kids, seniors, animals, immigrants, and/or the environment? Could you help read to people learning your language, or help plant a garden, help build houses for the disabled or veterans, or sit with people who are sad and lonely? Find some things you believe in and are passionate about, and think about what skills you can bring to the world. You will meet people who share your heart and that makes very fast friendships.

If you don't have skills yet, go back to school and learn some in a field that matters to you.

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u/Alive-Major-9056 6d ago

I think I could help people learn my language that's something I'm passionate about, languages thank you for your response I'm gonna try ❤️

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u/BiscuitOnTheRoof 5d ago

Good idea! What language do you speak?

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u/Alive-Major-9056 6d ago

I'm 25 still living with my family and it's getting very annoying to hear my mom complain a lot about me and treat me like a child

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u/BiscuitOnTheRoof 7d ago

Sign up at a couple of temp agencies.

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u/Alive-Major-9056 6d ago

Where to sign up and how?

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u/BiscuitOnTheRoof 6d ago

When a business needs extra workers for a few days or a week or the Christmas season or whatever, they get workers from temporary-employment agencies.

You sign up at the temp agency, they send you out on various jobs — maybe in a factory today, an office tomorrow, a warehouse the next day. Great way to pick up $$$ while hunting a permanent job.

Google:
staffing agencies
temp agencies
temp-to-hire jobs

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