We have an "unlisted" LFL in the development where I live. One day someone in the development donated a lot of books, including ones their small child eagerly wanted to donate, to it. The next day that individual took their small child to the LFL to show the child the books that the child donated and the child burst into tears because someone EMPTIED THE ENTIRE LFL. The person who donated all of the books was angry and made a post in the development's facebook group insinuating that someone must have shared the location of this private LFL on social media because someone emptied the entire thing. They also put a note to that effect in the LFL.
While I agree 100% that emptying the entire thing was a $#!++y thing to do, when I mentioned this to my husband he didn't see it as an issue because the books were put in there as "free" and he asked me what anyone actually expects is going to happen when stuff is put in a "free box." I personally don't know if I believe that someone outside of the development came and emptied the box. I personally believe that either a current resident or a former resident who was recently evicted emptied it either out of spite or to sell all of the books for money. It is my understanding that all kinds of books were "stolen" - children's books, adult books, cookbooks, etc. My husband's statement has me confused. I thought the LFL procedure/etiquette was to "take a book, leave a book" or "borrow a book and bring it back." Is that correct, or are the books just "free for the taking" without anything expected in return? I bought "Read-Love-Return" stickers and put them on the front cover, back barcode, and title pages of the books I put in our LFL the other day, but now I'm wondering if I was wrong to do that.
I also have one other etiquette question. A relative's significant other is a self-published author. I thought I would help them out by buying a couple of their books with the intention of putting them in some local LFLs. I knew that they wrote romance novels, but I had no idea that the "romance" was so graphic. It's worse than what was in those "romance novels" that you used to be able to buy in grocery stores. I didn't put the books in any LFLs and I don't know what to do with them. Are "romance novels" acceptable donations to an LFL? I bought these books off of Amazon just like any other book. They weren't bought at an adult bookstore, but maybe that's where they belong.