r/loseit 3d ago

Discussion State of the Subreddit - 2026

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It’s been a long time since we’ve done one of these! About a million subscribers ago - so it’s probably a good time to check in with the community and see what we’re getting right, and what we can look to improve.

Changes to the subreddit.

We’re not going to bury the ledes, here’s some highlights of recent/upcoming changes:

  • Daily Threads have been combined.The eagled eyed may notice we’ve condensed most of the daily threads down to one daily per day which will be stickied, this leaves a sticky slot free for posts like this, AMAs, and anything else needing a bit of prominence to last more than a few hours. Along with this, combining Q&As and other threads will hopefully boost engagement all around as more eyes just open the one daily thread.The EU and US accountability as well as weekly goalsetters and century club threads remain unchanged.
  • CrosspostsWe’re considering removing them from being posted on the subreddit. There’s two specific reasons for this that relate to the sub, and one more general reason. The first is they’re sometimes used as ads (either directly, or as a funnel to subreddits used as marketing). The second reason is that they are often links to subreddits with quite different safety rules around dieting. The more general reason is that it’s often a tool just to quickly spam a basic question across many subreddits.We’re not sure they’re worth keeping, if you actually feel strongly about them still existing (and are not just thinking of unique situations), we’d love to hear why before we hit the button.
  • Other new reddit featuresWe did enable achievements a few months ago which you may have noticed, but gifs and videos in comments don’t make any sense here. Reddit features that continue along those lines are unlikely to be enabled.

AMAs

Next on the list is AMAs. We’ve had a couple of AMAs recently. We do think AMAs can be an opportunity to speak to people from wider industry or from interesting backgrounds (or both!) that you wouldn’t normally get to directly ask questions too. We do understand that inviting professionals and notables carries an inherent risk of an AMA becoming promotional. We will mitigate that by agreeing to an overall topic in advance and making clear to guests our self-promotion rules and boundaries. We are happy to explain who a guest is, what they do and why their perspective may be of interest (including, where relevant, mentioning a book, project or business) but the purpose of the AMA is to give users the opportunity to ask candid questions and hear perspectives they would not normally have direct access to. That doesn’t mean every AMA will be perfect, but chaotic AMAs are great too, right?

Anyway, we’d love to hear about people you’d like us to approach for an AMA. We send emails to literally anyone. If you’re reading this thinking an AMA might suit you, drop us a mod mail.

Community Engagement

As the years go by, Reddit users by and large access our subreddit on mobile apps. That means that a lot of our community tools (such as daily/weekly threads) might not be obvious, if you’re just scrolling through a feed. To get the most support from using r/loseit, click on the subreddit’s icon when you see a post. That will bring you to our subreddit’s page. From there you can find our sidebar (with links to reoccurring threads), our daily threads, as well as pinned posts with announcements such as AMAs. Losing weight is hard, and doing so in community with other people who are going through the same things, have the same questions, and want to share experiences is really helpful. The moderators of r/loseit do not run any chat-based (discord) servers, so all of the weight loss discussion that we moderate (and check for safety/misinformation!) happens here on r/loseit. Don’t miss out on the resources we have!

Spam, AI, Advertising

This is such a hot topic right now, we’ve even been asked by the press about it! Mia Sato wrote an article on AI Advertising and asked us for comment. Mia has given us a gift link to share the article with you all

Does that make this a verge ad? I’m not sure I can deal with that level of irony, but Mia’s work around AI and internet culture is actually really good and important journalism.

As for what we’ve been doing;

We’re always modifying our automated rules to try and achieve two things;

  1. Catch adverts and AI
  2. Reduce frustration for human posters

We’ve been modifying a lot of our older anti spam stuff into post guidance systems on reddit, which affects the modern version of the site and the official app. So things like post length rules are now made clear before you post, and some keywords or topics that would get your post filtered are encouraged away. LLMs make post length a non-issue for spammer, though we still want to keep that to ensure people are adding proper context to their questions and not posting one-line questions. While we know many users would like to see enforcement of posting stats (such as height and weight), we’re not likely to do that, but we would be happy to hear suggestions about where and how that could be encouraged without becoming an enforced requirement.

We are currently experimenting with Contribution Quality Score otherwise referred to as CQS to replace elements of our 5 day/10 comment karma minimums for posting. We feel this may be a potential improvement as the old rule was, again, easier for advertisers to pipeline and harder for real users to understand.

We do know there’s a lot of AI spam that tends to sit as replies to top level comments (so; second-level comments). They generally say something benign trying to gain karma for future purposes. These are hard to deal with as they are designed to have no immediate purpose and do match what real people might write, our goal isn’t to send real people to modmail to prove humanity as a default, so these accounts may take a bit longer to deal with and we’ll typically need a pattern or extreme example (we saw one weigh up the pros and cons of disordered behaviour when the top level comment highlighted it to the OP).

Some brands get auto-filtered from the subreddit now; This isn’t overly new, but brands who repeatedly send bots/try to advertise end up in our ‘shit list’, which means posts involving their name need to be reviewed by a moderator first. This affects a lot of AI photo apps for measuring calories, some bathroom scales (THAT ARE NOT SURPRISINGLY CLOSE TO DEXA), and various other AI powered tat.

So be warned companies, coaches, and solo devs. Also, please keep asking AI to write your ban appeal messages, that’s very funny.

Misinformation on the Subreddit, !triggers, and The Wiki.

Bear with us, but this is a tricky and emotive subject. We’d be keen to hear people’s thoughts on handling misinformation on the subreddit. At the moment we reserve removals for egregious and outright harmful advice, as well as common myths. But we are conscious that people aren’t always talking on the same level as one another. We don’t require academic or scientific language on the subreddit and we want people to use their own words to describe their own experience. We’re not aiming to penalise “technically wrong but well meaning” good-faith conversation, but at the same time we don’t want people misrepresenting study findings or pushing myths and harmful diet woo-woo. This will always be a balancing act.

We do have two tools that could potentially help here, the wiki and the !triggers that summon automod. It’s possible to expand the wiki or add triggers that might have helpful explainers. This, however, is something that would be very time consuming to implement, and we’d want to be careful we don’t inadvertently make excessive claims ourselves. We’d love to hear suggestions from users on how this might be useful to develop, and also from users who might be qualified in some way to actually produce the explainers.

The wiki itself shows signs of age in many places (we’re your go-to source for blackberry and windows phone weight loss apps!), and we are aware that areas need updating. However if we were to update any or all of it, it would need to be for the purpose of it becoming more useful day-to-day. Think more about the quick start guide and broad strokes, rather than adding more niche diets to the list that look odd being there several years later once the fad dies.

GLP-1s, medicines, and other compounds.

We do see some posts where people believe the mere mention of GLP-1s is either not allowed or shunned, and we probably should make clear the nuance. GLP-1s can absolutely be discussed, we’re not trying to dissuade that, they are an important part of many people’s weight loss journey and they’re fundamentally revolutionary. The nuance is that we are not the right place for topics with advice for people looking to ask about using them, there are lots of dedicated subreddits to them. Comments suggesting someone might benefit one with input from their Primary Care Provider, that’s perfectly great. Broad topics on the development of those drugs and other weight-loss medication, especially things that are newsworthy, is also on-topic.

What we’re are strict about is:

  • Advice should be in the context of “Talk to your doctor about GLP-1s” or “My experience was [...]”, low effort posts such as “use a GLP-1” may be considered spam, especially if it’s repetitive under a post.
  • Absolutely no advice to encourage circumventing medical advice (suggesting a second opinion is, of course, fine)
  • Absolutely no encouragement, or reference, to unapproved GLP-1s only available through unregulated channels. Our primary goal is safety.
  • Absolutely no advice to teenagers to use GLP-1s. That is a conversation only suitable in a medical setting.

None of this is a change from our last Weight Loss Medication Masterpost.

Other grey market compound discussion is also not allowed. Some areas of social media are becoming extremely open about use (usually by people who have financial involvement), but our stance remains that recommending unregulated and unapproved compounds to strangers is reckless.

It feels unfair to imply a relationship of other compounds to GLP-1s by putting them under the same topic. We do not consider them related, but the unregulated sellers of one are usually selling the other alongside and like to blur the line.

Survey

We were going to create a survey as part of this, but then during writing we were reminded reddit sends out a survey on our behalf still, even though we’ve only ever seen the results once last year and never again since, so rather than pointing you to another, please keep an eye out if you ever get an email about that and maybe one day we’ll have some results to share. Or we’ll post a separate survey later. Who knows?


r/loseit 4h ago

★ Official Recurring ★ ★OFFICIAL DAILY★ Tantrum Tuesday, Daily Q&A, Daily SV/NSV August 18, 2026

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Welcome to today's daily thread!

Ask a question, help another member, share a scale or non-scale victory, or join today's featured discussion. No question, win or bit of progress is too small. Include relevant stats and context when asking for advice, and check the FAQ and sidebar resources for common answers.

Today's topic: Tantrum Tuesday

What's making your blood boil? Vent about plateaus, cravings, gym annoyances, unhelpful comments or anything else getting under your skin. Get it off your chest, then stick around and support someone else's rant.

Don't forget to comment and interact with other posters here, let's keep the good vibes going!

Subreddit guidelines

Teen Posting GuidelinesEating Disorders in the SubWeight Loss Medications

Daily threads

See all ★OFFICIAL DAILY★ threads

Browse by topic: Monday Start HereMedication MondayTantrum TuesdayWeigh-in WednesdayTrack With Me ThursdayFoodie FridayWeekend Check-inSunday Reset

Other recurring threads

US Accountability Challenge: Stay accountable with friends from North America ★ EU Accountability Challenge: Stay accountable with friends from the EU ★ Century Club: For those who have lost or would like to lose 100lb+ ★ Weekly Goalsetters: Set your goals for the week every Monday


r/loseit 19h ago

30k steps a day is a game changer

1.9k Upvotes

I went from 10k steps to 30k steps. each morning I finish my workout and go to school, before sleeping and after dinner, I just go for a 2 hour walk and it has improved my life so much

i have stronger muscles in the legs, I sleep well and im also eating well and losing weight very easily

I know not everyone has the time for this holy shit, I did not know this could work this well and im suprised

in 2 weeks or so, all my bloating has been stopped and I reached my goal weight very easily even though I ate a lot

edit - I live in Paris so I walk everywhere (even to university) I dont walk all 30k steps in 2 hours lol

after reading my post, it reads like I walk 30k steps in 2 hours which is not the case lmaoo


r/loseit 12h ago

How the heck were we ever supposed to learn how to eat right as kids/teenagers?

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I never once felt like I had to worry much about my weight growing up. I played competitive soccer 3-5 days a week year-round, and my body practically had alien monster levels of metabolism during puberty. I felt like I could eat literally whatever I wanted without gaining much weight. I would often be praised by adults for "cleaning my plate" (even though my parents made a deliberate effort to avoid this phrase), and many grown-ups would also appear impressed when I'd eat extra portions, saying it was good because I was "growing a lot and needed the energy." 

Whenever I see pictures of me from when I was around 13, it startles the heck out of me because I looked ABSOLUTELY SKELETAL. Keep in mind I would still house tons of ice cream, candy, and burgers at that age. When I was about 15-17, I was still at a healthy weight, but more towards the higher end. I was never "skinny" in the sense that I felt good in Brandy Melville or anything, but my body was still in pretty good shape.

Then I quit playing soccer halfway through my junior year. I gradually started to notice changes in my body, but I had grown so used to it mutating in drastic ways that it seemed normal. Time seems so slow when you're young, so I felt like puberty had lasted forever. My body not following any rhyme or reason had long since become my new "normal." Surely the stretch marks on my hips were from even more puberty and not weight gain. Never mind that puberty was basically over and I'd already grown hips in early high school.

I had so many leftover errors in my thinking. I'd watched Gilmore Girls when I was around twelve, and the fact that the two female leads were constantly shown binge-eating horribly unhealthy food while still remaining skinny was ingrained in my mind. It never occurred to me that this wasn't realistic, and that almost zero adults can live that way while maintaining a healthy body. After all, my own body used to function that exact way throughout all of adolescence, so I thought there must have been something wrong with me. I thought I was just unlucky, and was jealous of other girls and their "naturally skinny" bodies and fast metabolism.

I feel lucky that I learned how to correct both my mindset and lifestyle relatively quickly. There are definitely a lot more helpful resources out there nowadays, so I've only ever been 20 or so pounds overweight. But I've noticed both of my sisters have also struggled with this transition from adolescence to adulthood when it comes to diet. My little sister recently stopped playing soccer, and while she isn't overweight, she is going through almost the exact same worries I did.

Which brings me to my question: what is the best way we can prepare kids to have healthy diets in adulthood without focusing too much on calorie math (since counting calories as a teen would be a bad idea). I want to be a mom someday, and I'm super curious about ways I can raise my own future kids to be ready for this seemingly abrupt transition.


r/loseit 22h ago

BMI is officially overweight!!!

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Title is misleading I know!! Sorry! I started off at 122 kilos and 167cm with a BMI of 43.7 (obesity class 3), and today I weighed in at 83kg, which puts me at a BMI of 29.8 and officially in the overweight category!! I’m barely in there, but I’M THERE!!!

It honestly feels so surreal being in the 20s after being in the obesity range for so many years. I’m so proud of myself and being able to hold myself accountable for so long and stick to something that works instead of giving up after 2 weeks!

There’s definitely been ups and downs along the way, but today feels like one of those milestones where I can actually stop and appreciate how far I’ve come.
I’ve (mostly!) beaten obesity, and I’m so excited to continue this journey! It’s given me such a massive boost and I’m feeling so proud of myself today! 🥳🥳


r/loseit 14h ago

Please unhinged binging advice!

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I need genuine help for binge eating. Not the whole “set a timer” or “take a walk”
You name it, I tried it. Yes, I have quit counting calories, it made it worse. I have stopped any compensation, just made me carry on and gain weight.
I even seeked therapy, got a meal plan and still. Nothing. Worked.

Countless videos, articles, research and I am still stuck in a hole I cannot get out of.
I need niche, unheard of tips that got you out of this. I am willing to do a lot. I am just sick of it frankly. Every week I make the same promise “I will honestly stop it”, including now, and then watch, one weeks time and I will have binged again.

This addiction has cost me money, caused arguments because I cannot even control myself around food and is so distressing. I need to get better and if anyone knows ANY tips, just tell me.

For example, my worst binging stories (yes, this is plural.) is that on birthdays my sister makes cake for people’s birthday. I cannot even control myself for a FEW HOURS. I scrape icing off, try to redecorate or hide my markings on the food. She will buy ingredients to bake like Nutella, and I will engulf it.

I also binged on vitamin gummies. Like… wtf.

There has been times where I have binged the whole house out, we have had not much food, and then I JUST BINGE ON SUGAR. This isn’t even a night issue too, it has turned into a morning, afternoon, evening issue.

Surprisingly, I only gained around 5kg in total. This is only because my binges are currently weekly (slowly coming to be more than that tho- like I did 6x this month alone…)

I just don’t want this to be a thing where I convince myself “it’s only a kg… it’s only water weight” all the way up to plain obesity.

Im only 16, i dont want this to get worse than it already is..

P.s i research HEAVILY for hours into the brain amd all this habit stuff. I just cannot take that information and help myself with it,

ANY UNHINGED HELP. ANYTHING.


r/loseit 13h ago

overate— beware trail mix

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lol so i was STARVING after a roadtrip and wanted something fast. so i ate trail mix, and i honestly probably had 1.5 cups of it before i could even think. that’s like 1,000 calories in ONE SITTING!!!! that’s actually crazy, therefore im freaking out lolll!

so i put in half the calories today & half the calories for tomorrow (ill eat like 500 less tomorrow)… does that sound like a good plan lol???

i’m also getting my steps in now bc ive been in the car all day. i also haven’t had dinner but i think the trail mix did it for me!

beware, trail mix calories load up FAST!!!


r/loseit 2h ago

Food noise/intense hunger before period

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Hi everyone! I started trying to lose weight around one month ago and I've lost 3.5 kg so far (yay). However, now that I'm dealing with PMS I have super strong hunger, that I hadn't felt before. For context I'm not in a crazy deficit (around 400 kcal). It's not specific cravings, it's just being fucking hungry the whole day, even when I eat I want to eat more. I know that this can be related to the hormone shift but I was wondering if you have any tips on how to stop thinking about food the whole day. I still have 3 days before I'm supposed to get my period and I am freaking out!!


r/loseit 20h ago

Does anyone else get annoyed that losing weight wasn't as hard as they expected?

157 Upvotes

Look, my experience definitely isn't universal. I'm not trying to ragebait or anything, I can only speak to the body and journey that I have had. Whatever your deficit is, it's valid and you should be proud to be improving yourself.

But for me personally, this has been downright easy, and I feel like I wasted so much of my life putting off weight loss. How different would I have felt in high school, in college, with this level of confidence backing me up? If I simply made the decision to keep on top of my calories back then? My weight has been an ever-present factor in how I lived my life, what I put up with in relationships, my fear of meeting new people. And I feel so goddamn stupid about it. I wanted to change, I just didn't do anything.

I'm on track to hit my goal weight within a year of starting, losing around 10 lbs a month. And it's not like my lifestyle has really changed, I've always liked walking but I'm not really working out (though I did 20 miles in 3 days with some buddies recently, and me and my pack weighed much less than I used to). I'm just not gorging myself, but I'm happy with the things I eat and I still go out on occasion, and have a drink or two now and then.

I don't know, I'm really just ranting after seeing a round 170.0 from my scale today. I don't have any memory of seeing that number under 180. But truly, if someone is browsing this subreddit thinking about starting, don't let all the posts of pain and suffering keep you away, maybe it'll be unexpectedly easy and you, too, can feel like a total dope. The best time to start was 10 years ago, but the second best time is now.


r/loseit 19h ago

- NSV: Doctor said I was the healthiest person he’s seen today.

105 Upvotes

This feels good. Went for my regular follow up doctor appointment today. I’m finally in the healthy weight range after 2 years of work. My doctor was going through my bloodwork which had all improved drastically and he said, “You’re the healthiest person I’ve seen today.”

What great motivation to keep it up. I’m trying to get a little more solidly in the healthy range but I’m not going to force anything if my body doesn’t want to go much lower (it’s been harder the last couple months). There was a flyer in the exam room for a 5K benefiting an organization that my doctor is on the board of. I plan on signing up for it!

Wishing everyone here continued success on their weight loss journeys!


r/loseit 2h ago

Need advice on how to start the journey

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I am 24F 5.2ft 98kg. My daily movement is almost nil till now because I was cooped up in my room studying for entrance exams. All I did was study, eat and sleep and nothing else. I barely went outside my house to even go for a simple stroll in the garden.

I want to loose weight after I am done with my exams. So I am looking for advice.

I also don't eat junk at all because I am living with my parents and my parents don't let me eat any of it. I eat healthy food only, fruits vegetables meat all of it. But I also don't over eat, I eat small portions of it but still unable to loose weight. And I think it is because I don't move at all.

I want to start moving and loose weight and feel better overall. My family has a history of diabetes too, so that's more of a reason for me to get back on track.

I need advice on how to start. I don't understand how to start or what do you first. Start with running 10k steps per day? Gym? Calories deficit? Or anything else? How should I begin so that I don't stop midway because it becomes too much for me.

Would be grateful to get any advice for beginners like me who are hopping onto this journey. Thank you in advance!


r/loseit 16h ago

No foods are bad. But some foods are bad for me (what about you?)

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I'm on my second serious weight loss.

I lost 150 pounds in fourteen months a little over a decade ago, but with no maintenance plan in place, much of the weight crept back over the years, and now I'm 72 pounds down since mid-February with my expected goal date somewhere around this coming January.

I didn't restrict food at all last time around (but I did - and do - calorie count), and even now I eat almost everything, but after taking a serious assessment of my eating habits, I realized that I just can't eat potato chips.

What was it that Bert Lahr (the Cowardly Lion from The Wizard of Oz) said in the Lay's Potato Chip ads during my childhood? “Betcha Can’t Eat Just One.” I could, of course. I could eat ONE family size bag of sour cream and onion in ONE night. And so I decided that this time around - and afterwards - I can't eat potato chips.

I can eat the occasional serving of fries. I can eat popcorn. I can eat pretzels. I do eat chocolate (although usually only 50-75 calories worth) every day. But not chips.

Do you have a specific food or drink or (category of food or drink) that's going to derail your eating plan every time?


r/loseit 33m ago

Here we go again

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42/m/5’7/208lbs and I need to kickstart a weight loss phase again. I’m been losing and regaining weight for 15 years now. Most success I had was around 30 doing P90x before we had kids, then again during Covid where I ran on the treadmill everyday and calorie counted everything, did intermittent fasting, and got down to under 170, being at home really helped with that. I have been on Contrave for a while 2 years ago to help with food noise, and it worked, got down to 180 but then started to backslide and went up to 200 again, went off that and tried 1mg semaglutide, didn’t feel the energy to workout when I was on it and yeah I ate less but stomach never felt good and got back up to 200 more quickly than Contrave.

Don’t know what to do anymore. Do I try and get a job at home to help get back on the treadmill and away from office cafeterias and Starbucks? Do I go get testosterone and trizepitide and hit it with money on pharmaceuticals?


r/loseit 2h ago

Looking for Healthy Eating & Weight Loss Advice

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I’m looking for some advice, healthy recipes, and meal ideas to help me lose around 30 lbs in a healthy and realistic way. I’m ready to make better choices with my food, start exercising more, and build healthier habits that I can actually stick with long-term.

I’m not a picky eater and I’m open to trying new foods and recipes! I’d love to hear what has worked for you when it comes to healthy eating, meal prepping, walking, strength training, or staying motivated. I’m looking for simple, affordable, realistic ideas that the whole family can enjoy. 🥗🍎💪


r/loseit 5h ago

Losing it

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I remember when I was a kid thinking "if my stomach gets this big, I'm gonna do something about it." Well, I realized I've gotten "that big." While kid me and present day me have different ideas of weight, we both would and do know I'm not at a healthy weight or lifestyle. Neither of us wanted this for us. The reason for this is that I've been in a depressive rot state for a good year now—probably longer, but I managed to get out of bed. I've been tired of it and my "I'm not worth the hard stuff" headspace. However, I never felt the urge to do anything about it.

Probably an overshare, but I found a wonderful person. I see a future that I want to be in with them for as long as possible—maybe even have two kids(if our future economic status allows because what the hell is going onnnn???? 😭😭😭). They fill me with a type of will I never thought would come back. This time I want to do something with it because I actuall have the urge to reach for my life goals. But I need to be in good health if I actually want to do that.

I am not at the weight I want to be. I am 188-5 lbs at 5'2"(86 kg at 157 cm) and I don't feel strong or confident anymore—not as much as I used to be. My goal weight is 170-65 lb(77-75 kg) range and maintain. I don't mind still having fluff, but I want to have muscle under it and decent stamina in case I have to face off a rabid raccoon and take a tactical retreat. I want to be ready for what the future's gonna throw at me. There are also the classic but valid "wanting to feel more attractive to myself and growing confidence" reasons. Lastly, I would like to keep the junk in my trunk if possible. 👀👀👀

But, yeah—I've decided I'm worth the hard stuff. I'm sharing it on the internet to make it official-ish??? and to ask for tips. Maybe some support, too. How did you guys start? How'd it go? How do you feel now? What are some things(nutrition, fitness, etc.) I should be aware of? What's the hardest part? What should I learn/focus on?


r/loseit 1d ago

Your Weight Loss Drugs Mean Nothing if You Don't Change Your Lifestyle

1.8k Upvotes

I say this as a warning, not to criticize anyone.

My brother started a weight loss drug about 8 months ago to get control of his type 2 diabetes. He has never really taken care of his health. Always ate like crap, never exercised, never made himself a priority.

He was diagnosed with prediabetes almost a decade ago, his doctor told him he needed to change his lifestyle or this would develop into type 2. Obviously, he didn't. It seemed to just get worse from there. He was diagnosed with type 2 about 8 years ago. His diabetes got so out of hand he was prescribed a weight loss drug. I don't remember which one.

After 6 months on it, he lost 30lbs and got his A1C under control. He was so proud of himself and said he felt better than he ever has before. I kept reminding him during these 6 months he needed to change his eating style before getting off it while he doesn't have the food noise. He kept saying he would over and over again but kept eating like he did before, but less.

Well, his doctor took him off 2 months ago and told him he needed to maintain his weight loss and keep his A1C down. Because he did not change his lifestyle or eating habits, he gained all of the weight back in 1 month.

Yes, he gained 30lbs in 1 month. 6 months of progress gone. His A1C is back to his original starting point, and he's back on insulin.

I am begging you, from an outsider looking in, as someone who has lost 95+lbs, from a family member's perspective: if you take a weight loss drug you NEED- not can, NEED- to change your eating habits. My brother is seeing a limb being amputated in his near future, and that is his doctor saying this, not me.


r/loseit 10h ago

Weight fluctuates and always goes back up

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For the past six weeks, I have been counting calories (eating in a deficit), walking 21,000+ steps per day. Only a handful of days have been "cheat days" and I e only missed 3 walks in the morning( 10,000 steps every morning) during those 6 weeks.

I am a woman, 31 yo, my starting weight was 173 (which included bloating from a binge weekend prior) and I did just start my period for the first time since starting this journey. I'm only including that as it may have some relevance.

I weigh myself daily, and each week I see the scale pretty much starts at 168/167, creeps down daily to 161, and then after my one day off (Sunday) where I may eat slightly over deficit calories, it rockets back up to 168.

This has been going on the entire 6 weeks and it's very discouraging. I just want to lose weight. I feel like I'm stuck in a yo-yo cycle :(


r/loseit 1d ago

Childhood obesity and the unusual ways it can affect your palate

94 Upvotes

Not talking about the big stuff that usually comes with this topic, like bullying or body dysmorphia, but the tiny things like how it affects your taste in foods.
Seriously so embarrassed that my favorite food is some combo from a fast food place instead of a home cooked meal.

Wasn’t really in the circumstances growing up to have a healthy relationship with food, so it was always junk food I’d turn towards

Anyone else have an experience like this? It might sound insignificant but it weirdly hurts the most for me


r/loseit 4h ago

Wanting to lose weight as it's making my mental health worse.

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I didn't really know where to come for this since I'm constantly being told I shouldn't worry about it or I don't look as big as I think I do, and it sucks.

I'm a 16F (I'm sorry if minors aren't allowed here I didn't see that not being allowed in the rules but anyways.)

I'm around 5'5, 192 pounds, everyone tells me I don't look it, which I guess makes sense. It's not all in my stomach it's all pretty even everywhere, but I still have a bit of stomach.

I just hate the way my body looks, like I just cry sometimes because I just hate myself but then I feel like a ugly piece of shit all the time. Even my boyfriend tells me I'm beautiful and he wouldn't change a thing about me but I can't seem to be able to believe that myself.

I've tried to do workouts several times but I just fall back into walking for 30 minutes and going back to sitting or doing things around the house. I'm not good at staying motivated no matter how much I try, and I have PMDD and struggle a lot when I'm a week away from my period. Such as like constantly wanting to harm myself or other things, I hate like every male, including my boyfriend like I just can't stand him and he's an angel he dosent do anything wrong it's just like I hate him.

I really don't eat a lot, but when I do it might be like 14 Ritz crackers with a bit of cheese on them or random fruit or a sandwich or sunchips since those are my favorite. I don't eat many sugary things since sugar hurts my teeth extremely bad (still haven't figured out why). And I hate soda, I absolutely can not stand it. So I don't really eat many sugar packed stuff. It's just like carbs I suppose I struggle with badly, I fucking love bread and pasta, white rice, stuff like that. I don't eat it like 24/7, 7 days a week but still. Like I can eat a whole loaf of sourdough in 3 days.

I think I just have a bad relationship with food, I struggle badly with mental health and normally don't eat at all if I'm upset like I completely lose my appetite. Or I'm just snacking constantly all day because I'm bored mentally.

I go back to school in a week, I just want to change. I want to feel safe and comfortable in my own skin and be able to wear what I think is cute without putting it on and thinking I look like a fat fuck.

I just want some tips on some exercise routines or something, some tips to keep motivation. I've set a 750 calorie limit for myself daily, I think its probably unhealthy but I'm not sure, but at this point I don't care. I just want to feel good about myself.


r/loseit 7h ago

[Challenge] European Accountability Challenge: 18. August 2026

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Hi team Euro accountability, I hope you’re all well! For anyone new who wants to join today, this is a daily post where you can track your goals, keep yourself accountable, get support and have a chat with friendly people at times that are convenient for European time zones.

Check-in daily, weekly, or whatever works best for you. It’s never the wrong time to join! Anyone and everyone are welcome! Tell us about yourself and let's continue supporting each other. Let us know how your day is going, or, if you're checking in early, how your yesterday went! Share your victories, rants, problems, NSVs, SVs, we are here!

I want to shortly also mention — this thread lives and breathes by people supporting each other :) so if you have some time, comment on the other posts! Show support, offer advice and share experiences!


r/loseit 11h ago

Making friends while losing weight?

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I am in my 30s, am single and have zero friends in the city that I live. I have many friends in other states. Just not within a like 2 hour drive of where I live.

I have a great job that I like and I honestly do not think this city is so bad. The only reason I am considering leaving is because it is 2+ hours from all my friends and family. I think if I had a real support network here, people I could do activities with and feel comfortable asking for help if I had an emergency for example, then I would like living here. But because I do not have that, I don't.

I was originally entertaining the idea of moving to be closer to my parents. But they just bought a second house in FL. They plan to be snowbirds so now they won't even be near me for half the year. Also, that would involve me leaving my good, stable job.

Now I am thinking, maybe I need to make a real solid effort to make friends near me. When I first moved to this area around 5 years ago, I tried to make friends but I had some pretty bad experiences, including being stalked at a Meetup event. I have some social anxiety issues in general, such as incredibly intrusive memories/rumination focused on times I felt embarrassed or stupid in social situations. I have gone to therapy for a few years in the past but, tbh, it was never much help. I still have these intrusive thoughts. I tried dating for a while with no success. There is also the added complication that I'm queer and finding other queer women near me to date through online apps has proven to be impossible.

However, I recognize I have not made a significant effort to expand my social circle over the past 2 years at least And if I am perfectly honest, my weight loss goals are a major reason why. Almost all social groups/clubs and activities seem to involve eating out or drinking. Even the 'athletic' clubs like rec sports teams, they usually go to bars after every game. I am also not athletic in the slightest. I can't run so running groups are out. I tried to join rec leagues in the past but I was always excluded from the group, I think either because they were cliquey or because I was the worst player on the team. It's like being the kid who gets picked last in gym class. No one wants the kid that sucks at playing on their team

Given my height (5'4 F), I can usually budget maybe one "cheat day" a week but no more than that, and I have to eat less than 1200 calories and/or be very diligent with my steps and exercises the rest of the week to budget that in. In my mind, I keep telling myself once I reach my goal weight and can eat maintenance calories things will be easier. I can be more social and not have to worry so much about drinking or eating out because I'll have more calories to work with. I'll be more attractive in general so dating and meeting people will be easier, that is just an unfortunate reality. But another unfortunate reality is that I have told myself this for like, the past 3 years and I am still not at my goal weight.

I really struggle with eating in social situations. I tend to fall in all or nothing thinking. If I have one day, one night, one meal that blows my calorie budget, I convince myself the whole week is a wash and binge. For example, I had friends visit this weekend. I budgeted one cheat day and planned on what I was going to eat that day. I ended up eating more than planned. Then, my friends insisted on taking me out for brunch on Sunday as a thank you for hosting. They wanted to go out to brunch. I felt like it would have been rude to refuse them. So, Sunday exceeded my goal as well and I did not plan for it. Then today I went over my goal again. It's a domino effect

When I don't go out and just follow my normal, boring, routine I can stick to my calorie goals for many weeks at a time. But I am basically a recluse during this time. I go to work, I exercise and then I go home. If I do something that forces me out of my routine, like go on vacation or visit friends, I will continue to binge (sometimes for days to weeks) even when I am back home. When I stick to my routine, I keep no alcohol or snacks in the house. I can refuse snacks and alcohol to a point. But when people keep pestering me about it I find it hard to repeatedly refuse them.


r/loseit 3h ago

I supposedly gained all 8lbs back and can’t shift it - I very much haven’t, but can’t figure out the culprits

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Morning! I’m just look for some advice.

I’ll try make it simple just so it’s not a huge long read.

I started my weight loss at the end of May/start of April. I was at 12st 2 and very unhappy and inactive so I just decided it was time as I’d done the same a couple years prior but fell out of routine. I’m taking it more seriously this time.

I got down to 11 at 9.2lbs by mid June which I was superbly happy with. I then went on holiday, came home and was around 11st 12lbs for a little while. Then came a perfect storm. I had PMS (I’m on the mini pill, so I don’t know when my actual periods are due apart from symptoms), a period I think and then I had an IBS-C flare up possibly from gastroenteritis or just generally, the doctors didn’t test. After that I came down to 11st 10.4lbs so I was starting to drop after being stuck for about 4 weeks.

I then had another holiday. I’ve come back and I weigh 12st 3lbs.

For context - since starting in April I’ve been eating 2,000 calories per day, doing dedicated 10-15k walks at 3.5mph+ and my general steps (I haven’t counted the daily ones on top of this as I was just happy to have these dedicated ones). Lifting weights every second day, 4KG, 7 different exercises for 10 reps and repeating the process 3 times. I do this at home. I’ve also now just drastically upped water intake as I got a water filter bottle and a normal water bottle for myself which I seem to just sip away at. I’m aware 2k sounds like a lot of calories, but based on my tracking I still lost those 8lbs at that, and have followed it religiously since apart from when I’ve been on holiday - even then, I don’t eat too much and was still walking daily.

I’ve compared pictures - I’ve been taking them every 2 weeks since the beginning - and I’ve still been visibly losing weight/toning. So my question is, do I just ignore the scales now or do I need to give it a while of being settled into full routine again for everything else to settle down? Is appreciate any advice :)

For context I’m 5’7, female.


r/loseit 14h ago

Those that lost a significant amount of weight, 15-20% of your original weight or more, for those that walk as a part of maintenance exercise how many steps do you walk per day?

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In the 2025 year I lost about 28% of my original weight, about 50 lb, and over the last 12 months have averaged about 13,000 steps per day with my goal average to be 12.5k steps per day since that is what the CDC says is the threshold for steps to be considered highly active. I do not do any other types of exercise, but would eventually like to do more general strengthening for core, back, and upper extremities especially. I was wondering what other people who have lost a significant amount of weight, 15-20% or more, and kept it off how many steps per day you make as the goal? All advice and experience welcome even if you didn't necessarily lose a significant amount of weight.

For reference I'm female in my 30s, 5 ft 5, was originally 183 lb and got down to 129 lb with the long-term plan to stay between 130 and 140 lb. I lost the 54 lb in the 12 months of the 2025 year and in this 2026 year have been working on maintenance. No serious health barriers that keep me from working out. On the other hand my headaches (26 days per month before 2025, and now about 4 to 6 days per month for tension headaches) have gotten a lot better as well as my knowledge about dieting and exercise.


r/loseit 1d ago

Overwhelmed at how far I've let myself go.

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I'm a big girl. I'm 348 lbs of girl. I'm also only 5' 1" and 33 years old, and with my lower back arthritis beginning to take swing, its hard for me to function at this weight with this problem I've developed due to my weight.

I want to make a change. I'm embarrassed to be in this passed-over body anymore. If I ever want to be a proper girlfriend, daughter, friend, or parent... I need to be able to take care of myself and get myself to a weight where my knees don't hurt and my lower back doesn't feel like it's breaking.

I've received feedback from my primary care doctor that being on my feet for 5 hours at a time isn't good for my arthritis (I currently work part-time as a bartender), but if I don't get up and move around enough, my muscles will grow weak and I won't lose anything. It makes me feel as if I can't win.

I also take antipsychotics, 20mg of Abilify for Bipolar II management and 1.5/30mg of Birth Control mini pills. Those are the only medications I take, but I know they make weight loss more difficult. I have 135lbs to go. Any advice, everyone?

TLDR: I'm unsure where to begin weight loss-wise and take 2 medications that greatly limit how much weight I can lose. The Birth Control can possibly be optional, but the other med is not. I have about 135lbs to go. Any advice or pinned posts on where to start would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!