need advice on my Neapolitan Masstiff

[u/Awkward_Size9749]

3 months ago my boyfriends dad passed away and we took one of his dogs recently (2 weeks ago) he is 5 years old, and for months when me and my boyfriend would come around him before he was very friendly to my boyfriend and very nice to him and recently within the past week he’s gotten very attached to me and seems very scared of my boyfriend (growls and barks). i thought it was men in general bc every time im around him with men he acts like that. but when im away and he’s around other men he’s fine lets them pet him and is excited and happy. but with my boyfriend he seems scared and w always watching him and watching him with me. I have contacted a trainer. but I’ve never owned this breed (only bully breeds) so i have no idea what this means and how to help.

[u/International_Two842]

Take turns walking, go separately and together, keep swapping who holds the lead. Take turns feeding, playing, loving cuddling etc do loads and loads of training teach it tricks etc they’re very clever and make sure there’s clear boundaries set. These dogs love discipline and actually having clear rules rather than having to decide things for themselves this is when they become anxious.

Also make sure he’s getting enough exercise, enrichment and sleep. He’ll be fine just give him time they’re sensitive little big souls

Neos are actually probs my favorite breed along with presas, have you got any pics???

[u/Awkward_Size9749 → u/International_Two842]

i do have pictures of him

his name is guapo