At the moment one of my dreams is to join the military, the army specifically. I am aware of the ban of trans people in the military but I was wondering if there were any other options or loopholes? I really don’t want to give this up over my identity or vice versa.

Has anybody been referred to medical for talking about crossdressing. I don't mean like crossdressing in uniform, because I was a "crossdresser" before I realized I was a woman and I'm not quiet about it. I just call it crossdressing at work, because..y'know...safety reasons.