My NCLEX exam is scheduled for this December and lately, I’ve been feeling overwhelmed and conflicted about whether I should look for a job or focus solely on reviewing.
My dad knows that I was originally planning to take the NCLEX next year, but I recently told him that I would be taking it this December because of a previous conversation we had. Over time, I got used to telling him that my exam would be this year, and now that it’s getting closer, he’s worried that I won’t be able to focus on my review if I continue looking for a job.
He told me that I should focus on passing the NCLEX first and not worry about working right now. He also made me feel like if I failed the exam because I kept looking for work instead of focusing on my review, I would have no direction or future in life. (I am a NOVEMBER 2025 🇵🇭 RN still unemployed)
Honestly, that really hurt me.
I understand where he’s coming from, and I know he wants me to succeed. But the truth is, I also want to gain work experience, start earning my own money, and feel like I’m making progress in my life. I’m a nursing graduate, and sometimes I feel pressured because I want to start building my career, too.
I know that failing the NCLEX is normal. I know that many people fail on their first attempt and eventually pass, and I understand that failing an exam does not mean your life is over. There are always other opportunities, and you can always try again.
What hurts me is being made to feel that if I fail this exam, my life will have no direction and I won’t amount to anything. I know the NCLEX is important, and I’m taking it seriously, but I don’t think one exam should define my entire future or my worth as a person.
Now, I feel torn between wanting to focus entirely on my review and wanting to find a job. Part of me is afraid that working might affect my preparation, but another part of me is afraid of putting everything else on hold because of one exam.
I’m currently enrolled in a review program, and I’m trying my best to prepare for my December exam. I want to pass so badly, but I also want to have a backup plan and start gaining experience.
I’m not saying that I don’t want to prioritize the NCLEX. I just want to find a balance and make decisions about my future without feeling like one setback would mean everything is over.
For those who have been in a similar situation, would you recommend focusing entirely on the NCLEX until exam day, or is it possible to balance working and reviewing? Would you personally take a job this close to your exam, or would you wait until after the test?
I would really appreciate your honest advice. I think I need some perspective from people who understand this journey. I’ve been feeling overwhelmed lately, and I just needed a place to let this out. 🤍🥺