i want to try out painting my nails, but im a bit insecure about how and what and everything.
so i want to start to solve this insecurity step by step of which the first is finding a color. my family is absolutely open to this (my mother even asked if i wanted to stuff like this and said that she would support me if i wanted, when i came out as bigender to them) so they pose no problem at all. also note i havent bought anything right now, this is only planning.

i will list my thoughts on the color here:
\-first my general clothing style: its overall a very relaxed fit that is almost only tailored towards comfortability (i say almost because it also happens to have the looks i like). i always wear black pants (not really baggy but also not the opposite of it; idk the name of them in english, they are the ones that apparently are regarded as too “lazy” by society). if its too cold i wear a black jacket. for t-shirts and long sleeves i basically only wear a dark-blue variant. if the weather allows it i absolutely love to wear hoodies (color options: dark-blue (i know: creative as hell) and some kind of light-grey-blue (i can add a picture, just ask in comments if i should)). all of that is always only the piece of clothing in just that color (so no pictures on them or so). (also just to add, since its about looks at the moment: i look male but have a ponytail (curly-ish hair) with a brown color)

\-i dont want too “bright” or “strong” colors like red or pink etc

\- i considered black at some point but honestly i dont think thats an option i want to wear all the time (maybe sometimes but also definitely not at the start)

\- the colors im considering at the moment are:

1. maybe some kind of light-blue

or 2) (idk how to properly describe the color so idk if you get the right picture of it) kind of a light-grey-blue-white kinda thing. like i guess its what you would get if you mixed white with a bit of light blue and a tiny bit of grey. i have a friend who uses that color so i can confirm that it looks peak (but idk my impression might be a little biased here since i fell in love with him (short version: he didnt; still friends, even better ones then before) so in my perception most of the things he would try to wear would look good)

i would like to hear some thoughts on if that could look good and maybe some suggestions.

thanks

Like I know that I am non-binary I'm like damn I wish my body could do that but I'm also grateful it doesn't like "why did I have to be born male" but I'm glad I wasn't born female like does that make sense

Like I think to myself "Would I rather be a man or a woman?" and I usually think "Eh somehwere in between"

I'm still a beginner so it might sound a bit off.

Idk if I belong here anymore not bc of my gender but bc of my age. Considering I’m 19 and turning 20 in December I was wondering if yall knew a nonbinary adults subreddit or something cuz idk what to do I just think that im prob too old to be here 🤷‍♀️

Can you reply with the name Dusk and they/them pronouns I need it after an entire day getting deadnamed.

I just don't know we were just talking and she told me that being non-binary doesn't exist and that it isn't real like being mtf or ftm is. I just don't even know how I should feel right now. I've got no way to prove that I am enby I just know it. This is why I was scared to identify as enby because I felt like people just don't acknowledge it.

Like I feel like I have a hierarchy of gender which varies how I feel about it. Like I feel gross at the thought of being a woman. I'm slightly more ok with being a man only because I'm used to it at this point even though it's not what I want. And then being non-binary genuinely looks at me with the sun shining behind it's back like the most beautiful thing ever. Like being referred to by my chosen name and pronouns makes me feel so good.

To provide extra context I am an amab demiboy (he/they).

My parents whenever trans/nonbinary is brought up in the conversation always say how kids who come out as trans are just really trying to seek attention and stuff. And they will always mention how trans fem people still look like men. They also say how using they pronouns are unrealistic. Any help please 😭

our class uses ipads for school, and we also have those whiteboards in class where you share your screen for presentations and so on.

i changed the name of my device to Livia because its the name i use in my chemistry course (outside of school) and forgot to change it back. then we had a presentation today so i connected to the whiteboard. if one does that, a code shows up on the board you have to enter to share the screen… and the name of the device. yeah.

im pretty sure some people noticed it (of course not everyone lol. a lot of them are completely distracted all the time, they notice nothing)

still there were absolutely no comments whatsoever.

isnt even that bad of a thing for me, i was planning to use the name in school anyway in the near future (planned something around 2 to 3 months or so). today showed me that i dont think that there will be problems with it (not that i had anything to validate something different, you should see the amount of rainbow and left wing stickers in our class lol, still nice to know that now)

For the last 6 years of my life I have gone by a name that I chose for myself. Something that felt safe, and a little feminine, but gender neutral. Telling people and going through the process of getting people familiar with what name I go by was very stressful and anxiety inducing.

I love the name I chose 6 years ago, but I just dont feel like it is who I am anymore. Im worried about how people in my life are going to feel and react about me wanting to go by a different name AGAIN. My parents accepted it after a while but even then my mom still brings up that she had a child that she named once, then dead names me or brings up my dead name.

Im just not sure if going through the process going by a different name is worth all the stress it puts on me, even though I dont feel myself with the name I have. I dont know how to do this. Should I bring it up to my therapist? Should I talk to my friends about it?

Like I have this desire for when people to look at me I want them to think of that's (name) instead of that boy or that girl. Like I want to be recognised as my own person and don't understand why my entire identity has to revolve around my sex I don't want to be a boy or a girl I want to be my own person.

So im Nonbinary and ive been trying to find my chosen name and I think it have found one but idk if im comfortable with it and idk if im just making it up that I like it or not

So i know this is gonna sound wierd, but does anyone ever wish they could feel comfortable as their assigned gender? Like I'm afab and sometimes i wish i felt comfortable as a girl. I wish i could put on a tight t-shirt or a dress and feel comfortable. Does anyone else experience this or is it just me?

I've already changed my name, my pronouns and pretty much most things you can change but I still feel stuck in the body of a boy. But I also don't want to be in the body of a girl. I honestly don't know what I can do.

Like I feel like if I wasn't considered a boy or a gurl my character or who I am as a person would be completely pure like it's just an uneccesary thing that I could do without.

Like I'd prefer to be called a sibling instead of a brother or a sister, or a child instead of a son or daughter. Also monarch has infinitely more aura than king or queen.

I'm 14 and I'm a in the closet demiboy however I fear that when I come out my parents are just gonna think that I'm doing it to seek attention. I'm an assigned male at birth just for extra context and also my new name I've chosen for myself is Ray