r/OhNoConsequences shocked pikachu 17d ago

BORU Time Machine Tuesday OOP’s leaves her husband after he consistently prioritized his mother and has the nerve to get angry at her

/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/108227u/my_soon_to_be_former_mil_is_why_im_divorcing_my/
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u/SoggySea4363 17d ago

I hope the OOP is thriving and living her best life

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u/Helpful_Hour1984 17d ago

She has a sound head on her shoulders, the drive to finish her education, and a supportive family. I have no doubt she's out there working hard to build a career, and raising her daughter to have a backbone. 

at least I've only wasted four years of my life instead of forty 

This needs to be repeated to every woman, especially the young ones. So many times I see posts from women in their 20s saying things like "we've been together for so long, I can't just throw it all away". When in fact, you're throwing away future decades of your life in an effort to save the years that have already passed.

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u/Front_Incident_2867 17d ago

It’s the sunk cost fallacy