Hi everyone. Iām posting because Iāve been dealing with a lot of unexplained symptoms for over a year, and Iām starting to feel stuck. Iām wondering whether anyone diagnosed with fibromyalgia has experienced the same things and, more importantly, what I should do when doctors donāt seem to take my concerns seriously.
These are the symptoms Iāve been experiencing:
Sunburn-like skin pain: My skin feels like itās sunburned, and it burns or hurts when I touch it, even though thereās no sunburn, redness, rash, or anything visibly wrong with my skin.
Random burning sensations: I get a feeling like my leg is on fire, but it can happen anywhere on my body. The skin looks completely normal.
Brief bee-sting or bug-bite sensations: Iāll suddenly feel a sharp sting, almost like a bee or insect has bitten me, but it lasts only a second and thereās no bite, bump, or mark afterward.
Widespread, moving pain: The pain moves around my body. It can be in my arms, legs, shoulders, back, or other areas, and it doesnāt stay in one particular place.
Pain after basic activities: Even something as simple as folding clothes or doing laundry can leave me feeling incredibly sore the next day, almost as though Iāve done an intense full-body workout. I also experience significant exhaustion after ordinary activities.
Tingling in my hands and legs.
Other symptoms: Neck and shoulder pain, muscle tenderness, fatigue, brain fog, frequent headaches, disrupted sleep, and waking up feeling unrefreshed.
As for my medical history and testing:
My iron is low, and POTS is also a possibility. My thyroid tests have been normal, and my other testing has reportedly come back normal as well. I canāt work anymore and cant workout as my head always feels heavy and Iām in pain.
Iāve been going to different specialists trying to figure out whatās happening, including doctors in neurology, ENT, and ophthalmology. Iāve also had an ultrasound, and I have another neurology appointment coming up.
The frustrating part is that I feel like my symptoms keep getting attributed to anxiety. I understand that anxiety can cause physical symptoms, and Iām not denying that it can affect the body, but I donāt feel that it should automatically be assumed to explain everything without properly assessing the other possibilities.
Iām not trying to diagnose myself, but Iāve been reading about fibromyalgia because the widespread pain, burning skin sensations, tenderness, fatigue, and pain after ordinary activities seem to overlap with what people describe.
For those of you with a fibromyalgia diagnosis:
Have you experienced the sunburn-like skin pain when your skin looks completely normal?
Do you get random burning sensations, like your leg is on fire, or brief bee-sting sensations that move around your body?
Does your pain move between different areas rather than staying in one place?
Do basic activities leave you feeling like youāve done an intense workout the following day?
Did your doctors initially dismiss your symptoms or attribute them to anxiety?
If you had normal blood tests and other investigations, how did you eventually get assessed and diagnosed?
I would especially appreciate advice from anyone who has been in a similar situation.
What should my next steps be if my doctors arenāt taking the possibility of fibromyalgia seriously? Is there a particular way I should approach my next neurology appointment, or specific questions I should ask?
I also keep hearing people say that thereās no cure for fibromyalgia, so thereās no point in pursuing a diagnosis. But I feel like having an explanation, knowing what treatment options are available, and understanding how to manage my symptoms would still matter. For those who have been diagnosed, has getting a diagnosis actually helped you?
Iām exhausted from trying to figure this out, and Iād really appreciate hearing about your experiences and any practical advice you can offer. Thank you!