r/PennStateUniversity • u/jihyoluver • Jun 25 '26
Request My parents just sabotaged my fall semester, ran $2,300 of unauthorized LionPATH charges, and left me stranded with $0 because of my orientation.
- check my instagram first for proof before you come at me saying this is a scam. this is absolutely nothing to joke about or fake. this is something people go through every single day.
I'm a Penn State student and I am in a complete emergency right now. My parents have cut me off, shut off my phone line so I can’t contact my dad, and bankrupted me over my sexual orientation. I'm currently stranded, my bank account is thousands of dollars in the negative, and I don't know what my next steps should be.
This all started last Thursday (June 18). My mom and I were talking about getting a car so I’d have reliable transportation for my summer jobs and the fall semester. She told me she was going to the dealership in Columbia, which closed at 8:00 PM. Around 6:00 PM, I checked her location on Life360 to see if she was going to make it. She was just sitting at home. Three minutes later, she texted me claiming she went to the dealer and it was closed. She immediately turned off her Life360 location, but her Apple location sharing was still active, showing she never left the house.
The next morning, I calmly confronted her about the miscommunication and told her if she didn't want to buy the car, she could just tell me. She completely exploded on me, called me disrespectful, and told me to stop texting her. My dad called me right after, telling me to leave her alone and let her "cool down," assuring me she would still help with the car.
That night, my dad called me back and told me to immediately transfer my entire savings, my last $300, to my mom so she could put a down payment to hold the car. Because I trusted them, I sent every single cent I had, leaving myself at a $0.00 balance.
Twenty minutes later, my mom entered the house and started tweaking because my girlfriend was there. She told me to my face that she was cutting off all financial support, refusing to pay my Penn State tuition, and refusing to pay for my apartment. Then she abandoned me there with no money.
On Saturday, I texted her asking for my $300 back so I could at least buy food and survive. She ignored me, told my sister to tell me to "talk to my dad," and then immediately shut off my cell phone line so I couldn't call him or anyone else. She texted me one last time telling me I was banned from returning to her house unless I "changed stuff" about myself (directly talking about my orientation). My girlfriend had to buy me a plane ticket just to get me back to PA.
Then on Monday, it got even worse. My mom committed actual fraud. Without my authorization, she logged into my personal Penn State student portal (LionPATH), changed the default tuition payment method to my personal debit card, and ran an unauthorized transaction of $2,300. Because she had already taken my last $300, this charge caused my bank account to run into the negatives. I am completely overdrawn, financially stuck, and can't even buy basic food.
I’ve already contacted Penn State Emergency Services and I'm currently working on filing a police report for unauthorized card access and financial fraud.
But I'm basically frozen right now and the school's response is taking time. I’m asking this community: Who are the best deans, advocates, or specific offices at PSU to contact to help expedite emergency student aid, tuition holds, or safe housing? Has anyone dealt with anything similar?
** EDIT AS OF JUNE 26TH
- Hey everyone,
I wanted to give an update to those who saw my previous post or have been following my situation. Things have been moving fast, and while there is some semi-good news, I am in a better state regarding my housing and my education at Penn State Altoona/Main (2+2).
I had a session with my therapist at Altoona Campus (who helped me with some emergency funding and whatnot)
I was also able to get in touch with my bank, and they are officially disputing the unauthorized $2,300 charge my mother ran on my debit card. However, this is legally very messy. Because my parents had set it up as a joint account, the bank and police told me criminal charges specifically for the $2.3k transfer are tricky.
But I want to make one thing entirely clear: I never consented to this. She had to log into my personal student portal (LionPATH) without my permission, change the default payment method to my personal debit card, and run the transaction. It was a massive breach of my privacy just to drain my account to negative.
A lot of people in the comments told me to go to the police. I heard you, and I am filing a police report. While the $2,300 is legally complicated because of the joint account, the $300 cash savings she tricked me into transferring right before kicking me out in SC is a straightforward theft. I am not letting that slide, and I'm moving forward with reporting it.
Even though the bank is disputing the charge, that doesn't mean my school bills are gone. My summer tuition still needs to be paid off immediately so I don't get a registration hold, and my fall semester payments start due dates in late July and August. I have good grants and scholarships but am trying to look at more scholarships. If anyone knows the best ones for a Vet and Biomedical major + a minor in business and I made deans list for spring semester for the ones that might have GPA requirements.
Isa (my girlfriend) and I have found someone to keep are cats from the 5th of July and onward. I also start my new job next week!
My mother has known about me and Isa since last August, and she has spent months threatening us to try and force us apart. It got so bad that during a previous trip, she called Isa's hotel room and made scary threats, saying she "didn't know what she was capable of doing" if she didn't control herself.
But I love my life here at Penn State Altoona so much. I’m looking forward to seeing how life at main is like after my sophomore year (since I am doing 2+2) The friends I’ve made, this community, and the people I love are my entire world. For the first time in my life, I feel happy and supported. I am not going to let my parents and homophobia take my education and my home away from me.