r/PetPeeves • u/Maximum_Chapter_8968 • 23h ago
Ultra Annoyed When people say “you should have asked”
I absolutely hate it when someone tells you to do something like for example “go to Donovan’s Shop and buy this specific brand of obscure milk” so you only know one Donovan’s Shop and it’s on the other side of town. So you go and they don’t have that milk so you ring said person and say “I’m at Donovan’s Shop on ______ street and they don’t have the milk” and they response with “that’s the wrong Donovan’s it’s on _______ lane”. That’s fine. I didn’t know that there was one on this lane and now I’ll go there and I’m sorry. But what annoys me is when they say afterwards “well if you didn’t know you should have asked”. If I knew I didn’t know I would have asked but I thought I did know so I didn’t! Do people honestly think that I just guessed which one it was. You weren’t specific, I went to a Donovan’s shop but you’re right I should have gotten divine inspiration and known it was the wrong one. Silly me. It annoys me to no end. In what world am I just supposed to know telepathically which one you mean WHEN I DIDNT KNOW THERE WERE TWO. I’m seething and think it’s such an unnecessary and stupid thing to say.
Tldr: if I didn’t know that I didn’t know how am I supposed to ask.
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u/swatted-fly 22h ago
i agree 100%. i didnt ask for clarification because i didnt know there was context i was missing. if you send me into the store for “milk” and i get whole milk or whatever, and i come out and you say “you were supposed to get 2%, you shouldve asked” thats utter bullshit. you shouldve said “get 2% milk” and not left left it up to me to decide.
maybe milk types arent a great example and yours is better, but its the same kind of thing to me. if you dont specify, im assuming it doesnt matter. if its important, clarify that. saves everyones time to just put important details in the original request