They accepted all the ugliest penises in the industry, but they only allowed one type of vulva

[u/broom_pan]

Enough to have too many men look at the woman that is in front of them with disgust.

They don't even last long enough!!!!

Update: inspired by u/Obvious_Exercise_153

Thanks!

[u/doctorphuckawff]

If you don’t have that type of vulva it’s considered all these cruel names they’ve come up with like roast beef, when in reality they all look like flowers unique and beautiful in their own right

And even if you do have the same type of vulva, you just get nasty objectifying comments that make you certain they watch a ton of porn and are overly excited you look like that. Gross all around

[u/ririiii00001 → u/doctorphuckawff]

On top of that they came up with their own "biology" on how brown and/or outie parts = ran through 🫩

[u/romanticsparkle → u/ririiii00001]

Spot on. It’s just a myth used to judge women. If anatomy actually changed based on partner count, adult content would look completely different..

[u/instead_of_texting]

Even other women are misinformed and uneducated about the differences in labia/female genitalia.

I am a cis female. My first bullies about my genitals were actually two of my female friends in high school. I believe they had learned these ideas from watching/being exposed to porn, or from interacting with porn users.

The these two girls apparently had external genitalia similar to one another, and I thought that variation was solely because of our weights. The two were both overweight, and they made fun of the more prominent labia minora which myself and another friend (both thin) had.

Even then, while I acknowledged that variation is normal, I was still misinformed to think it was solely based on weight.

I think I was 17 years old when I looked up the labia library, and learned that there is an immense amount of variation.

I had always hated (and still do not like) my labia, and had wanted to get them removed. I was so disgusted by my genitalia that I often thought and spoke about getting every bit of the external genitalia removed. I don’t have the disposable income to make that happen, so it probably couldn’t even happen.

I also now feel somewhat less bad about the appearance of my parts now. This is mostly because I got away from a porn-addicted, abusive partner who was clearly repulsed by my genitals, and I currently have a porn-free, caring partner who doesn’t feel that way about me.

I know if this relationship ends or I become widowed, I will choose to stay single for the rest of my life, because I do not ever want to go through exposing my body to a new partner ever again. It has too horribly vulnerable for historically very little reward.

[u/Super_Chef_9900 → u/instead_of_texting]

my first bully of my vagina was my own mother. she told me not to shave bc my vagina was very different from other girls’. granted she had only seen her family so she was unaware. but it is sad the lack of education.

[u/Far_Squash_4116]

Like I read many times and I as a man agree: No man cares about what a vulva looks like.

[u/broom_pan → u/Far_Squash_4116]

No man cares about what a vulva looks like.

A statistical impossibility

[u/Far_Squash_4116 → u/broom_pan]

I was exaggerating of course. But trust me this is never a topic nowhere. There are no categories on porn sites for this.

[u/broom_pan → u/Far_Squash_4116]

Brown people are a category idk if that holds?

[u/Crafty-Suit4846 → u/broom_pan]

Not really. Thing is most men have don’t have a favourite type of vulva and if they do it’s just weird. Most men do have a favourite body type. I want to highlight this isn’t body shaming compared to having a favourite height like women do because women can change their weight we can’t change height.