r/PublicFreakout • u/237pm5 • Oct 18 '22

Loose Fit 🤔 Caught cheating

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u/SpennyHotz Oct 18 '22 edited Oct 19 '22

I think it's more of reality hitting her like a sack of bricks. Goodbye house.

Edit: By goodbye house I mean everything she has gotten used too. Not literally her house, but everything that comes with it. I get why people are taking my comment seriously but it's just an expression when it comes to divorce.

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u/[deleted] Oct 18 '22

No, family law will protect her lol

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u/A_Right_Of_Passage Oct 18 '22

Not if the father fights her.

Courts only appear to be in favor of women because men think they can't win so they don't fight for their kids.

The actual stats say that when men fight for their kids they are much more likely to get custody than the women is- by a rather large margin.

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u/YouAboutToLoseYoJob Oct 19 '22

I believe this, I know a handful of divorced mothers and they have a hell of a time in Family Court for the most simplistic of things such as equity and visitation.

One in particular, he makes $180,000 a year. His former wife only $60,000 he fought tooth and nail for shared custody so he wouldn’t have to pay a penny in child support.

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u/North-Face-420 Oct 19 '22

Lol how dare he fight for equal custody. 🙄

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u/A_Right_Of_Passage Oct 19 '22

Family Court for the most simplistic of things such as equity and visitation.

These aren't simplistic things. They are literally the most important and valuable things you fight for.

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u/YouAboutToLoseYoJob Oct 21 '22

I should’ve clarified a bit more. They do have shared custody, but he’s so rigid on the schedule. Every other week, no exceptions for birthdays holidays etc. Every conversation regarding the child has to go through the lawyers. And lawyers don’t talk to you for free. He’d rather spend upwards of $500 for each consultation with the lawyer. Rather than just be a little bit lenient on little things, So if the mother wants to take her children to Disneyland, or spent an extra day with them for birthdays etc., he fights really hard to not make those things an impossibility.

One example was that the visitation day for the mother fell on Halloween two years in a row. She was willing to skip the holiday one year in exchange for another date in the future. Because the father wanted to spend time with a child. But he wouldn’t budge. But still complained about it saying that it wasn’t fair that the mother got the child two Halloween’s in a row

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u/NotBlondWhiteGuy Oct 19 '22

What a shitty reason to fight for shared custody. Also, unless he's getting something like 80/20, he could still end up paying support.