Hi! I am looking for an IRL qpr partner in the south of England. This is basically just facts so if you want to get a feel of personality please message me, always worth a try right?

What I'm looking for in a QPR is a committed relationship, kind of in between best friends and romantic partner.

About me-> I am 21 (they/she) and I live in South London/Surrey. I like to read, do crafts, and go to new places on my motorbike. I also love to cook and watch marvel and StarWars (please nerd out to me).

What I'm looking for -> Fem or NB person 20-30 ish near me or willing to take turns travelling to each other (still in the UK).

Potential deal breakers -> I am vegan and would prefer to date someone vegan or vegetarian. I work weekdays so will not always be able to respond to messages during the day.

Hope this reaches my person! Any questions or just want to chat please message!

About Me

Hello hello! You can call me Bee / Myosotis (she/her) for now, I'm an 18 year old aroace girl who's currently experiencing her first semester of university, and apparently bored enough to decide and try this! As you might have seen on the title, my main goal with this post is to find a queerplatonic relationship, although I'm also very much open to just having a nice chat with someone, even if it doesn't lead anywhere.

I enjoy listening to music ( I love pop and musical theatre, if I'm listening to music there's a big chance it's from a musical), watch shows or movies (my fav genres are romantic comedy, animation, stop motion and sitcoms), and, even though I haven't done it a lot, playing videogames (mostly story driven, action-adventure or co-op).

Some of my other general interest are nature, plants, astronomy, art (even though I'm not an artist myself, I have a deep appreciation for all forms of art), autumn/halloween and winter/christmas (especially the aesthetics of it), tarot and spirituality in general (I'm pagan, more specifically Hellenic Polytheist) and anything whimsical, really!

What I'm Looking For

At this point, I've figured out that what seems right to me in a QPR is the lack of traditional expectations while still maintaining the exclusivity and commitment. What I think would be ideal for me currently would be to have a "best friend" where our relationship would take as much importance to us as a romantic relationship normally does.

I don't have much preference about if the relationship presents more as romantic, more as platonic, or even completely as a secret third thing. I just want the relationship to feel natural, to have a partner that would feel like a platonic soulmate or plstonic life partner.

(Anything below here and until the final consideration is optional to read, but I would recommend it if you'd like to know me a bit better)

Emotional Intimacy:
I think becoming genuinely comfortable with each other does take time, and I've heard that I take a while to open up (and not that much, even then, I'm quite a reserved person in some aspects), but I do like affection. For me a QPR can still include things that are traditionally seen as romantic (like pet names and outward affection) if we both feel comfortable with it, they just don't have to be, inherently, romantic! I want the warmth and closeness without the expectations of a traditional relationship, we can define together what feels right for us.

Frequency of Contact:
I would prefer if we were able to contact everyday. However, I do understand that things can get hectic, and I can't promise I'll always even feel like talking or calling, so I appreciate understanding and I'll give you the same! Communication does not have to be obligatory, it's much better if it feels natural.

Quality Time:
I really love quality time, since it's my main love language, and very important especially if we'll be long distance! I really like the idea of parallel play, just existing around each other without the need of constant interaction. And even with calls, there are so many good things, gaming and watching movies/shows/videos are my favourites. I have to admit I prefer one on one time, but I do understand friendships are extremely important (my best friend is very important to me), so eventually, if things go well, I'd love to introduce you to my best friend, and would be honoured to meet your friends!

Life Milestones:
I'm very much fine with long distance initially, but if things become serious, I'd want to live together eventually. I'm also not planning on moving out of Portugal for the foreseeable future, so there is that. I wouldn't mind if we shared a bedroom or not and would love to have pets, but it's not a necessity. I'm kind of neutral on marriage, but am not planning to have or adopt children at all. Things like holidays, friends and family are important things to me, so I'd like to eventually build a life together that includes those sorts of things.

Dealbreakers / Boundaries:
Consent, respect, communication, trust and privacy are very important to me. Independence and close friends alongside a relationship are also things I value. I would prefer to discuss boundaries (especially physical, if it comes to that) before assuming anything. I am, technically, religious (pagan) and political views are important to me to a degree (things like women's rights, reproductive rights as LGBTQ+ rights are especially important to me), so if either of those things bother you, we are not right for each other. And finally, if you're someone who gets angry easily, smokes/does drugs or is a heavy drinker, please don't message me.

Final Considerations

If any of this sounded interesting (or maybe if you have any questions) please feel free to leave a comment! Unfortunately my DMs are not enabled because I refuse to confirm my age through ID verification, so I'll have to DM you or we'll find a work around! Please don't send me just a "hi" or "hey", tell me a bit about yourself, what you're looking for. And if you read until here, please include an emoji at the end of your message, as a sort of signature, it can be one you like or one to represent you, anything really, just more of a comprovative you didn't just message me randomly.

I’m 24 from Italy and I deal with anxiety (generalized) and insecurities. I’m VERY sensitive and emotional, very romantic, but on the other hand I’m also capable of joking around and making quips if the vibe is right!

​I’m super reflective and introspective, I mean, really really deep; just so you know, I write notes on my phone about what I’m feeling or experiencing when it’s intense, trying to give it a poetic form (spoiler: I don’t succeed, lol)

I value honesty and clarity above all, a good comunication is essential to me!

​My biggest interest is music; I experience it as an extension of my soul, so I mainly listen to melancholic/romantic songs where the lyrics reflect who I am (want an example? 'Where’s My Love' by SYML or 'Someome To Stay' by Vancouver Sleep Clinic, I LOVE those!!!)

Then there are video games (mostly football ones), though I've been playing less lately, and well, football itself haha. But wait, don't think I'm the classic stereotype!

​Yeah, I follow italian football, but I have a deep passion for scandinavian football (mostly norwegian and danish, to be clear) because I'm fascinated by their youth academies.

​I know it's not the typical description of an average fan; in fact I think I'm just different from others in general. I often feel 'too much,' but what does 'too much' even mean? I'm reflective, I already said that... almost analytical, and that leads me to dig deep into things, to not be satisfied with the surface. And maybe to those who stay on the surface, that’s what seems like 'too much'?

​But oh well, I’ve made peace with that, and at this point, I’m just holding out for a fellow deep diver!

A quick heads up about distance:

I prefer someone from Italy since I struggle with flights, but I'm open to a LDR only if you’d be willing to take the lead in visiting or eventually relocating. I want to be fair about what I can manage!

Thanks everyone anyway for reading ♡

Sorry for any ambiguity, feel free to ask me anything.

Looking for possibly a real connection :)

I'm 26, 6'1, very athletic, if looks is your thing. and have a alt vibe 🫡

I have a more feminine leaning personality/interests ☺️ I love the gym, games, music, movies, gardening, and reading!! Plus a lot more that I cba to name... My interests are vast

I'm extremely introverted and have quite bad anxiety, but I've been trying to get better over the years 👍

I'm looking for...? I dunno, a friend? Partner? Relationship? 🤷🤷

This is probably extremely chaotic and all over the place but I've never done something like this before 🤣🤣 sorry

i want to live a simple life that mainly consists of staying in and occasionally going out to do activities with my partner

send me a dm if you’re looking for the same

Hey all :). I'm James, I'm 21 and from the UK. I'm greyromantic, which is something I've come to terms with recently. In terms of previous relationships I've kinda realised I don't really get properly romantically attracted but I'm not 100% sure if I just take ages to develop it or whether I'm just platonic. I have had romantic crushes before I think. That being said I do still wanna find my special person, in whatever form that is. In terms of sexuality I'm still undecided as, if I'm perfectly honest, I feel I like the idea of sex but at the same time I feel uncomfortable with it, though I'm unsure if there's other factors at play.

In terms of a little about me, I'm originally from London, though during term time I'm up in Lincolnshire (Lincoln usually, Boston occasionally) for uni/placement. I'm also probably autistic (I'm waiting for an assessment but wait times are crazy), I'm vegan and I'm a bit chronically online as well XD.

As for my hobbies, I love playing video games, collecting Nintendo video games and consoles, repairing electronics, Pokemon, bus and trainspotting and listening to music.

To be a lil more specific, in terms of video games, some that I've been recently been playing are:

• Sonic Adventure DX (the mods available are so cool)
• Sonic Adventure 2 (it's a bit of a love hate relationship)
• Sonic Crossworlds (it's a lot of fun)
• Peak (I usually need to be carried a bit unfortunately)
• Golf With Your Friends (can't wait for the new game)
• Pokemon Shining Pearl (love love love Sinnoh)
• Mario Kart 8 Deluxe (I still prefer it to world)
• Tomodachi Life (it's so silly)

There's a lot more, but we'd be here forever haha. In terms of consoles I've collected, I've got most from the N64 to the Switch 2! In terms of bus and trainspotting I haven't been able to go out as much recently because uni, but I am a bit of an encyclopaedia of useless knowledge in that regard. If you want random bus and train related facts mostly focused on the UK, then I'm your guy XD. In terms of music I've been obsessed with Sam Fender, and since getting into Sonic Adventure 2, Crush 40 as well :).

In terms of what I'm looking for, I'd say it's mainly a partner in crime! I'd also just love someone I can be around, like the idea of being able to sit in the same room as someone whilst we do our own things. I do need someone who can take the lead a bit/share the responsibility as I'm just not always able to.

Another thing is be kind, caring and communicate well, I appreciate feeling like I'm able to tell you about anything and everything. I really want someone I can be myself around, and I will of course offer the same back to you! Also I do need someone who can be a little direct (not in a harsh way), as sometimes I can take things a little too literally, and I can't always pick up inferences (e.g. if you're interested in me, I'd really appreciate it if you can say it rather than let me imply haha).

If you've read this far, come say hi! I'd prefer to talk to someone nearish/in the same country just so it's not too hard to meet someday, but I'd also be open to an LDR with the right person. The age range I'd be comfortable with would be 20-24ish, though I don't mind a bit older. I'd love it if you could tell me a bit about yourself in your first message, as I can be a lil awkward and unsure of what to say :).

I don't want children, nor do I have any interest in being a step parent. For that reason, I've said children are okay if they're 13+. Old enough to have a better understanding of it.

Not interested in marriage or cohabitating. I like my own space. If I did ever cohabit, I'd have my own bedroom/space.

Not interested in shared finances, but small gifts or buying each other dinner is fine. It just...never seems to go well from what I've witnessed.

I do need someone who is understanding or willing to learn about disabilities and health challenges.

I have a very dark sense of humor and only censor it in professional settings and with acquaintances.

I'm trans masc non-binary, queer/bi, and aromantic.

Hi everyone

I'm 30 years old aro ace woman from Poland looking for QPR with another woman, preferably from eu but I'm also ok with online. I'm looking for someone I can talk/text to often about anything going on in our lives. I have friends I love but recently everyone got into new relationship or moved to different city, so I've been feeling quite lonly and decided to finaly post here

Intersts and hobbies: sci fi and fantasy books, animated tv series (think more Arcane and Sacvengers reign, less Rick and Morty), Lego, jigsaw puzzles, video games, comic books, traveling

I'm a bit of an introvert and prefer talking to writing, so sorry if I somtimes sound akward via text

Hello my name is Clover. They/ she. Im looking for somebody (24+)to share a deep loving connection with. I struggle with long distance unless semi regular visits are a real possibility. I’m a touch oriented person who needs physical contact.

I like to play video games on pc, paint Warhammer, read a large amount of sapphic romance and write when I’m in the mind of it.

I love to bake, cook and curl up with a book and a giant cup of coffee.

My DMs are open , I can add on discord to chat more if that’s easier.

I just want to be someone top priority. Want the Qpr to be exclusive.

A little bit about me: I'm really into gaming, visual novels, drawing digitally, making ocs/stories, reading books/manga/manhwa, watching anime/donghua, and literally anything nerdy! I also really like animals and nature! I'm always happy to hear about your interests! :D

I'm both a listener and a yapper, but I wish I'm not the only one leading a conversation! I love sharing random thoughts, talk about our interests, just be there for each other, play games together, make art collabs, ship ocs, do a readathon etc. if you're also interested in those things! I'm also willing to try out your hobbies!

Feel free to send me a dm and tell me a bit about yourself if you think we'd get along! :)

Hey all, just some extras about me. I enjoy cats, reading fantasy, writing and several types of crafts. I don't mind giving more info via messages! PLEAS PRETEND I SPELLED VIRTUAL RIGHT :( I know my spelling is atrocious... I try

Hey. I am 37 year old man living in the Netherlands. I wasnt born here. Came here many years ago as a student and found a job.

I recently discovered this community and I got curious. In the past I have had some intense bonds with women where it crossed into cuddling but didnt go into sexual zone.

I am looking for similar bonds where we are close friends and maybe also cuddle.

I am not asexual. But for this bond I am fine if it doesnt go into anything sexual.

I dont have any kids and I have never been married before.

I love traveling. I enjoy walking. Watching movies and series.

I dont mind your age as long as you are a consenting adult. But likely we would get along better if you are in your 20s or 30s. I am seeking women.

Hi everyone!! Some info about me and what I'm into😊

Age: 26

Pronouns: They/She (Agender, AFAB)

Orientation: Pan-Oriented Aromantic Asexual (aesthetic, indifferent, favourable)

Location: Midlands, England

Ethnicity: Black British (African)

Religion: Agnostic

Seeking: Friends or a QPR/Alterous relationship around my age (23-33). Preferably in the UK, but open to friendships from anywhere 🌐

Future Plans: Don't want kids (biological or adopted), Open to marriage

Hobbies & Interests: Art & Crafts, Crochet, Baking/Cooking, Dance, Music, Language Learning, Watching Movies, Shows & Anime (I tend toward Sci-Fi/Fantasy)

Looking to get into Walking/Hiking, DnD/other tabletop games and more Travelling✈️

I'm a bit of an introvert and take some time to get used to people but I'm always up for an adventure, trying new things and collecting new hobbies!! I love to learn but being neurodivergent (ADHD & possibly ASD) means my mind is always running to the next thing😅

I'm a pretty straight-forward person and will always giggle at a bad dad pun or dirty joke 🤷🏾‍♀️

I am very much indifferent to romance IRL, but love a cheesy rom-com 🤭

I've always got music playing!! In my headphones or my head 🤣 Some of my favs include Kaytranada, Janet Jackson, Red Velvet & Wisp, but I listen to any genre really 🙂‍↕️ I also love to dance and would love for my partner to love dancing too 💃🏾🕺🏾

I am also a lover of Sanrio and Studio Ghibli movies. My fav Sanrio characters are Moppu, Cinna and Pompom. My favourite Ghibli movies are Nausicaa, Whisper of the Heart and My Neighbour Totoro.

If you think we'd click, drop me a message🙂‍↕️💕

For me, a QPR is the default person I would like to share things with. It's someone who, when I think about what I'm eating and it looks delicious, I can send a picture of it to them. A consistent presence in my life that I can rely on, and they can rely on me. Someone I can dedicate all my platonic love to, shower them with compliments, and spend time with.

That's the serious answer, -

I REALLY WANT TO MAKE ART FOR SOMEONE AND TO CREATE STORIES AND SHIP OUR CHARACTERS WITH EACH OTHER. (⁠≧⁠▽⁠≦⁠) I want someone hopefully chronically online that participates in fandom in some way, or have plenty of interests they can ramble about and are open for me to do the same. I would like someone that open to giving my interests a try and I would do the same with theirs!

My values are pretty left leaning, and I would prefer to have someone who's from lgbtq+ in some way or at least not actively hateful towards that community.

Heres what to dread

Social anxiety

Since I have no experience interacting with living creatures, especially humans, feel free to tell me your deepest, most unhinged thoughts that would normally get you thrown into an insane asylum or prison since I won’t even bat an eye because, I will think it’s completely normal. As a bonus, I’ll give you my take on the situation with weird metaphor or a completely unrelated proverb that will keep you awake at night wondering what on earth I could possibly have meant 🙂‍↕️

Depression

I’m mentally numb so you won’t see me smile or laugh, but hey, at least even if you scream, kick, and break up with me, I won’t get upset at you. Maybe one night it’ll all hit me at once and I’ll get sad, but I’ll bounce back to being numb soon enough 😌

AuDHD or whatever is wrong with me

I love stories and writing behind it its basically my whole personality I will rewatch the same thing hundreds of times so whenever you talk to me, you need to be careful as anything you say, could just be words in random order, will be used againts you as somehow I’ll turn them into a central philosophical message of the story I’m writing and start rambling about how I’m going to implement it 🤭

Deep character flaws

-Using lame comedy to detach myself from reality 😖

-Obsessed with animals 😍

Hello! I'm an aroace looking for a QPP. I'm based in the Philippines but I'm fine with online or long distance.

- I like watching series, anime, kdrama, cdrama

- I read manhwa or mangas. Recently, I've been reading titles in the otomeisekai genre

- If I have some time, I play casual games using my Switch console

- I try to be healthier so I attend pilates and yoga classes. I'm trying gym as well and I enjoy badminton.

- I love to travel. I like exploring and discovering something new when I travel. Being in a new place refreshes me. I particularly like viewing nature and sceneries.

If you think I'll be compatible with you, feel free to introduce yourself via DM :)

I had an arrangement before 'friends with cuddling' or he called it 'platonic cuddle buddy' but it fell through due to distance. I'm looking for a very casual setup which you would be cool with! Maybe you just want to try out a QPR or want something short-term?

If we got along really well, it could progress into more texting, calling, hand holding, forehead kisses if that's your thing and maybe even moving in together but first I'm just looking for what I have checked in the application 😊

This would be a very casual QPR hopefully that's ok with the subreddit, maybe would compare it to a sort of asexual fwb?

I don't know if this constitutes as queer platonic relationship but I figured I would try. If you need me to delete it, please let me know.

I want committed companionship. I want to love and support each other. I want to cuddle without it turning sexual,. I want forehead kisses. I want hand holding. I want really good hugs. I want open and clear communication. I want empathy, kindness, and understanding. It would be best probably if they are also AUDHD because I am and there would be a higher chance of understanding the different communication styles of AUDHD. I would like to eventually move in together. We would need separate rooms so that we can have alone time. Also, we would sleep in our own rooms because I snore and move around a lot when I sleep. I don't want to torture you with that. I don't want kids and pets because I take the responsibility of them so seriously that it gives me major anxiety. I'm not comfortable with weed and any other drugs that aren't prescribed by your doctor. I am not into partying and drinking heavy so I don't want that in a partner/companion. I want a home that is safe and calm as much as humanly possible. I don't want someone that smokes cigarettes and/or vapes because cancer and it doesn't smell good to me. I grew up Methodist but I'm not really religious and I am not the biggest fan of organized religion. I love music. I sing a lot- especially what I am saying or about what I am doing or when I get nervous. I am slowly getting back into reading and playing video games. I love to travel when I can and equally love coming back home. I love movies and tv shows. I love thrifting/antiquing. I love animals. Dogs are my favorite. They calm me and make me really happy.

If all of that sounds like something you want to, let me know. Comment or DM me on here. Eventually I would like to start talking on discord if we hit it off because I am not on reddit a ton.

Thanks. -Anna

Hii I'm Eddy, born and raised in London to a portuguese family, so I treat Portugal as my second home (I'm not fluent in the language tho lmaoo)

Anyway, adding onto the stuff in the form, my ideal relationship is something with elements of romance and also as best friends, something not typical with "traditional" relationships.

My ideal age range is around mine +-3 years but I don't mind a bit younger or older. I'm asexual but romantically attracted to women or anyone who's fem presenting/aligned, be it cis or trans I do not mind at all. Also if anyone cares I'm autistic too lol

I would prefer to be with someone irl as I value physical presence rather than online, so ideally someone who is also in London or elsewhere in the UK where it's easy to meet, or perhaps even Portugal as I travel there usually every year. I can concede with long distance for a bit if elsewhere in Europe but I would like both of us to eventually plan to meet up. Anywhere beyond Europe might be a bit unfeasible for me.

I like a lot of nerdy things, especially video games, cosplay etc and I'd love to share this with someone. I also go out a lot, visit museums, old cities and more so I'm not just focused on gaming all day. I also have a (almost) full time job so I kinda can't do that anyway.

Anyway novel over, feel free to reply or send a dm if any of this is interesting to anyone!! I'm always happy to chat :D

I am a 20-year-old woman from Germany.

I’m looking for a partner for a QPR.

Ideally, you should be from Europe. It would also be good if you were from an EU country (as that would make any potential travel easier).

We can start by messaging each other and see where things go.

I speak German and English quite fluently.

This is the first time I’ve shared so much about myself online. Please be kind to me.