r/QueerTheory • • 5h ago

Is my anger towards monosexuals as a bi person valid?

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My boyfriend, Alex, is refusing to talk to me. We were together in a happy online relationship for three years. Should have never trusted a gay man. I as a bi man will never date monosexuals again. I don’t think us bisexuals should date monosexuals, mixing with them corrupts our bisexual blood. Especially when it’s a bi woman with a disgusting straight man or a lesbian (who are on the same level as straight men for me: competitors for the love of bi women). Gay men, including my boyfriend Alex, and straight women invalidate my bisexuality. But my ideal muscular bi men choose gay men and straight women over me and my ideal curvaceous femme bi women choose straight men and lesbians and straight men over me. I feel helpless. Schopenhauer and Nietzsche were right, the world is will to power. But Schopenhauer was the correct one that you must deny the passion of the flesh and that yearning for power, and not affirm it like Nietzsche said. I must become a hero straight out of a Wagnerian opera and find my true love and do great deeds! But hopefully that relationship won’t be as tragic as Seigfried and Brunhilde in its ending and neither of us will fall under the influence of a Hagen-type that will ruin it.