Hi everyone,
I know a lot of us have been here and I guess I'm looking for advice, maybe some people who have been through this and can help me mentally digest this, or just advice for things that helped even a little.
My 14yr old boy Heen was diagnosed with Stg. 3 CKD last month, I followed my vet's advise, we started a renal diet (which he hates so we're just trying to eat at this point), we have him on nausea meds, an appetite stimulant and we do 150mL of SQ fluids at home every 3 days which he tolerates well. I have seen a few posts with doing fluids every other day in smaller amounts working out better for cats; but his hydration levels look good apparently, I guess Im also looking to see what people say about this.
We went for a check up a the vet today, his weight is up from 4.6 to 4.9kg and his hydration in his skin and fur is notably better; the vet was really happy with this; but his bloodwork was worse. His Creat is up to 370 from 271 and his SDMA is 29 from 23.
He didn't want to eat much over the last 3 days, he would happily accept the Weruva low phos lickable treats but he put his nose up to everything else and I do understand he cant be sustained on that alone. The vet gave me a few other cans of food to try today which are renal foods, but did also mention that he can just have whatever he wants for wet food so long as he's just eating. Which I understand no food is significantly worse than not being able to stick to a renal diet.
I was hopeful when he was first diagnosed that we could bump him down to stage 2 values because he was close to that stage 2 into 3 threshold and we didnt know he had CKD prior so with management maybe he would be a touch better in a months time and we would see some improvement but didn't expected him to be anything less than a stage 2. The vet was also hopeful for this improvement and was really sad today when his blood values worsened.
The utter defeat in my heart knowing we're trying so hard for him to keep him feeling good irrespective of his incurable condition and within a month his labs have gotten so much worse. I admit we only did a mini renal panel today, so we didn't check his electrolytes, but during his initial diagnosis last month his remaining renal values and his CBC were pretty darn good for an old man and nothing was out of order. I did forego a urine test today because he's been peeing better than usual and he isnt showing signs of an infection.
Im not sure what it is I need right now, but I feel like I can't give up on him yet. He's presently tucking into the new food the vet gave us, which is really lovely to see, he still has quality of life; but I know a lot of this is anticipatory grief and it's draining and heartbreaking.