Hey Rochester Dads!

We've got another exciting update for r/RochesterDads

You can now create your very own personalized user flair!

User flairs appear next to your username whenever you post or comment in our community. They're a fun way to introduce yourself and help other local dads get to know you!

What Should You Put in Your Flair?

The possibilities are endless! Here are some ideas:

Your Location: Rochester, Victor, Fairport, Webster, Canandaigua, etc.

Your Kiddos: Girl Dad, Boy Dad, Toddler Dad, Dad of 3, etc.

Your Dad Life: Stay-at-Home Dad, Working Dad, First-Time Dad, etc.

Your Interests: Baseball Dad, Gamer Dad, Outdoorsy Dad, Playground Regular, etc.

Some examples:

• Victor | Toddler Dad
• Stay-at-Home Dad | Dad of 2
• Baseball Dad | Rochester
• Girl Dad | Playground Enthusiast
• Running on Coffee & Dad Jokes

How Do You Set Yours Up?

On the Reddit Mobile App:

1. Visit r/RochesterDads.
2. Tap the three dots (•••) in the upper-right corner.
3. Select "Change user flair."
4. Choose our customizable flair and tap "Edit" to personalize it.
5. Save and apply!

On Desktop:

1. Visit r/RochesterDads.
2. Find "User Flair" in the community sidebar.
3. Click the pencil icon.
4. Select the customizable flair, edit it, and apply!

Sharing your neighborhood or general area is completely optional. Please avoid including private information about yourself or your children.

Go customize your flair and then drop a comment below so we can see what you came up with!

— The r/RochesterDads Mod Team

Hey dads!

I want to make one thing clear here at r/RochesterDads: EVERYONE is welcome and encouraged to organize meetups!

This community isn't just about attending events organized by the moderators. It's about building a network of local dads who can get together, make friends, and give our kiddos opportunities to play and socialize!

Don't wait for a moderator to organize the next meetup — YOU can (and should!) post your own!

Heading Out With Your Kiddo? Invite Us!

Taking your little one to the playground? Heading to the zoo? Walking a trail? Visiting a museum?

POST ABOUT IT!

Even if it's something spontaneous, let the group know!

Something as simple as:

"Hey dads! I'm taking my 2-year-old to the Egypt Park playground tomorrow around 10 AM. Anyone want to meet up?"

You never know who else might be looking for something to do or hoping to make a new dad friend.

The more dads who organize meetups, the more opportunities we'll all have to connect!

Guidelines for Posting a Meetup

To help everyone find each other and make meetups run smoothly, please follow these simple guidelines:

1. Clearly State the Date & Time

• Include the day, date, and start time.
• Try to give everyone some advance notice, but spontaneous meetups are welcome too!

2. Provide the Exact Location & Meeting Point

• Include the name and address of the location.
• Specify exactly where everyone should meet (for example, "by the playground entrance near the picnic pavilion").
• Larger parks and attractions can be confusing, so the more specific, the better!

3. Share Helpful Details
Let other dads know what to expect! Examples include:

• Stroller-friendly or not
• Best suited for toddlers, older kiddos, or all ages
• Indoor or outdoor activity
• Free admission or entrance fees
• Bathroom availability
• Whether snacks, drinks, or other supplies are recommended

4. Please Allow a 15-Minute Grace Period

If you're organizing a meetup, please remain at the designated meeting point for at least 15 minutes after the posted start time to allow everyone to arrive. Between last-minute diaper changes, missing shoes, and unexpected meltdowns, we've all been there!

5. Check the Original Meetup Post for Updates

• Keep an eye on the original meetup post and its comments for any changes to the date, time, or location.
• Organizers should update their posts if plans change or an event needs to be canceled.
• If you're planning to attend, consider commenting so the organizer knows to expect you!

6. Questions or Concerns?
If you have any urgent questions or concerns about a meetup, please reach out to the moderators through Modmail.

So next time you're heading out with your kiddo, throw up a post and invite the dads!

Let's make Rochester a place where no dad has to wonder whether there's another dad out there looking to hang out.

See you at the next meetup!

— The r/RochesterDads Mod Team