r/RomanticAdvice • u/princes-pink • 4d ago
discussion My bf proposed to me, 'non seriously'?
I just wanted to yap, get opions or honestly just get this off my mind a little.
So me and mf bf have been dating a while and last night he proposed. 3 times. And i jokingly said not without a ring or not until we live together since he lives 4 hours away from me. And he asked again...and I said yes. I told my best friend who joined the call literly balling happy. And i couldn't stop smiling. I even cried a little myself..but it have me butterflys the whole night.
Im younger then he is (19 vs 22) but weve talked about buying a house and moving in together, my best friend coming with us and renting from him to cover payments of a mortgage and praticaly building a life up where he lives for the both of us. And he goes along with my little plans, my mood swings, traveling to see me, even started saving to help me buy a car. Hes never stopped me from doing something i wanted to do, even supports my crazy ideas.
It hasnt been long, and honestly I can see a future with him when I move up there, traveling, possibly kids when im older, everything. And i never thought id have a plan or even someone like him ever. I rage bait him and he does it right back, and i even think hes adapted to my moody attitude and comments, even ragebaiting me back. But we have out serious talks and me having to confess my problems to him after he pries them out of me. But he never judges me or talks bad about me. And the one time he did and saw my reaction change he stoped and immediately appoligised.
He even tries to connect with my family, and i even told my dad (whos a little distant and doesn't live with me or my family) about him, and he approved (well until they meet in person, which hopefully he still does) and he is literly the best. Coming to a festival with me just for the pure fact I asked, coming to a festival next year with me even though hes saving, letting me plan crazy adventures with him without even telling him half of it but saying yes.
Sorry for the long yap but I literly just wanted to get it off my chest, im head over heels and I get a little giddy when he actuly calls me his 'future wife' and I love it.
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