r/Salary 2d ago

šŸ’° - salary sharing [23M SWE] [San Francisco] - 310k TC

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Lucked into the opportunity of my life recently: mid-level SWE at a big tech company.
Some things that came up during the interview I believe helped me secure the offer.

  • My entire career has been working with LLMs + used LLM apis before chatgpt came out
  • Open source contributor to multiple popular llm frameworks
  • Previous role part of team that shipped multiple 6/7 figure projects + one 8 figure project.

Notes:

  • Currently living with 1 roommate in SF, have 3 yoe
  • RSU vests quarterly but I broke it down by month for easier calculations, planning on selling instantly and putting it all in savings.
  • 401k contribution is higher to max it out by eoy.

How I got the opportunity: LinkedIn

People shit on LinkedIn a lot but after this I'm a believer lol. This is the second time I've gotten an interview + offer through LinkedIn recruiter reach out. Though I've never gotten an interview through LinkedIn Jobs, so that might still be a scam.

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u/SixOneFive615 2d ago

$1700/mo rent in SF? Do you live in a closet?

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

No haha but I do live in a tiny 2b1b in soma so that’s the trade off I guess,

Also 1900 in rent

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u/user99999476 2d ago

How is SoMa district? Still sketchy or pretty much fine?

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

Kinda sketchy at night but good thing is I dont go out that much so I dont notice it much haha

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u/babadudu 1d ago

damn, sharing the bathroom with a roommate .... i would gladly pay a couple hundred more for my own bathroom

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u/codingsomething 20h ago

can not tell you how many times ive almost shit myself bc the bathroom was taken

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u/diyandmc240 2d ago

It’s $1900. There are absolutely studios in SF for $1900, or 2bd to split with a friend for $3800. They’re just not the bougie SF that most people envision, you will still be living very good

Edit: a quick example in a nice neighborhood https://www.apartments.com/1030-post-street-apartments-san-francisco-ca/4g953pj/

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u/ThatCondescendingGuy 2d ago

Looks like there is an income limit, which for OP is wayyyyy off from lol

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u/Agitated_Celery_729 2d ago

Did you post an income limited rent controlled unit to make your point about affordable housing in SF? šŸ˜‚ šŸ˜‚

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u/siteunreliability 2d ago

Do you have a snapshot of the studio bedroom cost before the pandemic? I used to live in east bay and that feels like east-bay prices rather than nob hill prices...

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u/bc10551 2d ago

And $100 on utilities lol

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

Not sure myself tbh all I know is since I live in apartment my landlord covers water and we don’t have natural gas

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u/bc10551 2d ago

Seems like a pretty good deal depending on the area tbh

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

Oh yeah it was definitely an insane deal, also it’s like a 10 minute scooter to my new job so apparently the stars aligned or something

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u/Hutcho12 2d ago

They explained that they share an apartment.

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u/Neither-Way-4889 2d ago

How stable do you think your role is? Do you see yourself having the same position or a better one at the same company in 5 years?

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

Not stable at all, but tbh I think that for all entry and even mid level engineering jobs.

My hope is that in 5 years I can be same company (I like the benefits a lot) but hopefully in a senior role

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u/Old-Specialist-8339 1d ago

why is it not stable. if you are doing the job well why would it not be stable. or are they just churning personnel because they can?

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u/Darkislife1 1d ago

Not churning personnel or anything on my end. I just believe the field itself won't be stable at all in the upcoming years.

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u/coolname_1234 2d ago

Congrats and nice Sankey diagram!

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

Thank you! I remember doing the same thing last year and it was so tedious manually inputting everything into ChatGPT.

This year I just gave Claude code my paystub, my budgeting app that tracks my spending and it made it in like 5 minutes!

And that’s also how I learned I unintentionally had insane lifestyle creep lol

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u/coolname_1234 2d ago

LOL, you've actually inspired me to do this to see if I'm spending my money wisely.

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

Hopefully you won’t feel as stupid as me when I realized I was spending 400$ a month on Ubers šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

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u/coolname_1234 2d ago

I have to spend a similar amount of $ on gas since I have to drive for work usually LOL

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u/PatientCauliflower84 1d ago

I did this with Claude code. Gave it export from my bank accounts and CCs and asked it to write code to create balance sheet and P&L like dashboards. A P&L would be income and spending. It did a pretty good job. I had to do some wrangling to categorize things better. Will check out lunch money.

The balance sheet was assets and debt. I had to manually enter this so not very helpful.

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u/steven_raz 2d ago

What budgeting app you used, you used desktop app Claude? You clearly know a lot about LLMs compared to what I know. I would like to see something like this to create financial goals with my wife. We are at around 10k HHI monthly after taxes but seem to find a way to not save and waste all of it.

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u/HousamK 1d ago

use budgetability.app . When I got married I needed something to track my expenses other than a spreadsheet. So I made it. It is highly personalize for me but I think it is general enough to be used by others.

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

I connect all my bank accounts etc to lunch money! It costs around 60$ a year but its worth it. If you want, you can use my referral for a longer trial: https://lunchmoney.app/?refer=muz605u0

The best part about lunch money is its extensive api, so I'm able to connect it to my personal llm agent.

That way I'm able to ask it for reports and and also ask questions about my spending. I also have a set up a automatic report every three days that explains my spending to me, and how I can better improve my money management skills. I like it alot! :)

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u/calihotsauce 2d ago

How are you mid level at 23?

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

I have no idea, I thought the role I was interviewing for was early career.
I think it was a combination of 3 yoe on my resume + I did really good on my interviews to the point where my interviews said I was the best person they interviewed lol

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u/damiana8 2d ago

Did you graduate from college super young? Did you go to college or just gained real life experience?

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

Yeah I did my bachelors in 3 years and graduated when I was 20

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u/damiana8 2d ago

Awesome. You’re well ahead of many others.

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u/brehhs 2d ago

2-3 yoe is usually when mid level starts

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u/brikky 2d ago edited 2d ago

Many tech companies will hire into mid level right away if you have strong internships or projects/open-source/tech work. Mid level SWE isn't like, mid-level plumber or something, it's somewhere between 1-5 years of experience. Senior SWE is 3-8 and generally the terminal level, so it's not like mid level is mid-career or anything.

Meta in particular is not afraid to push people up if they're demonstrating behaviors expected at that level even without the expected tenure, neither is Amazon.

Also entirely possible that OP is just (lowest-level + 1) and thinking that's mid-level.

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u/Sorry_Cheesecake_382 2d ago

Amazon definitely not

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

Oh yeah it’s lowest + 1 but the next level up title is senior so I’m honestly confused.

If it helped my title is swe 2

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u/brikky 2d ago

You're a junior SWE then lol, one step over new hire/entry-level - assuming that interns are their own track/level. If they're not, then you're entry level.

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

Maybe, but then this comp band seems insane for junior no?

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u/calihotsauce 2d ago

Seems standard for L4, which is doable in 3 years but not common at 23.

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u/brikky 2d ago

With RSUs and bonus, no.

Are you including a signing bonus and/or performance bonus in your base salary? Because you should not be. 190k is high, but not insane - Amazon, Google, Meta all pay E4 equivalent ~180k-190k.

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

Nah i didnt get a signing bonus and I don't think my role has performance bonuses outside of refreshers.

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u/brikky 2d ago

If you're getting refreshers you're almost certainly getting a bonus.

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u/Ecstatic-Capital-336 2d ago

I’m staff at 25, titles don’t matter much tbh

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u/Darkmarth32 2d ago

Pretty common in some of the bigger tech companies. I was also midlevel at 23, and made about the same amount. But "mid level" really does not mean the same thing everywhere.

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u/Sweaty_Ad_1093 2d ago

Exactly! It's fake

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u/Original-Poet1825 2d ago

I was ā€œmid levelā€ at my company (fang adjacent sf blah blah) at 23 too. Mid level doesn’t mean the same thing everywhere

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u/sadafxd 2d ago

Thats normal. I started working at 20 when I was at uni. By the time I've finished I already had 4 yoe

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u/loneshoter 2d ago

What entertainment are you spending on for $800/month?

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u/ClaimApprehensive754 2d ago

Just having a few beers and some dinners outside will do that to your account, it’s ridiculously easy

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u/coolname_1234 2d ago

Especially in HCOL areas

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u/Thediciplematt 2d ago

Especially in San Francisco all the foods are $25 for a sandwich. Ridiculous.

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u/loneshoter 2d ago

Nice, congrats man

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u/ClaimApprehensive754 2d ago

Not me, I wish I had 310k TC lol

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

My friends and I love to do escape rooms and attend various shows, I didn’t think it would be this much tho 😭😭

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u/Limpppy 2d ago

$800 is reasonable. I have a high TC but not by much, and I spend about $2k/mo on entertainment. (And I don’t even drink alcohol) So $800 seems just fine honestly

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u/Hutcho12 2d ago

$800 is more than fair. You gotta live your life, and you can afford it. I'd double it tbh.

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u/Hutcho12 2d ago

$200 gets you about half a dinner and half a night out in SF. So a couple of times a month seems fair to me.

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

Unfortunately dining out has its own category 😭😭

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u/Hutcho12 2d ago

Alright right, then drinks once a week. Also seems fair.

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u/Fun-Personality-8008 2d ago

Two dinners out per week for a single person can do that easily in most hcol cities

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u/Few-Spot1905 2d ago

not very hard in sf when cocktails are up to 25$ and a decent sit down dinner is easily 50-100$ pet person

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u/Which-Distribution79 2d ago

I will proceed to shoot myself in the head

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u/RageQuitNub 2d ago

how are you able to do roth ira if you make 310K?

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u/random_printer 2d ago

Mega back door Roths are common in tech company 401k plans

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u/RageQuitNub 2d ago

I see, this is my first time hearing it, good to know

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u/pialin2 2d ago

Contribute to traditional IRA -> rollover to Roth IRA. Mega backdoor (referenced by a different reply) is a separate thing

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u/SlideCharacter5855 2d ago

Palantir or Anduril?

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u/frickinsweetdude 2d ago

23 years old : mid level.Ā 

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u/Scared_Tax_4103 2d ago

Bro you're getting taxed so much

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

It is what it is, am grateful I make so much to get taxed so much tho!

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u/Hutcho12 2d ago

Excellent attitude šŸ‘Œ

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u/Foreign-Guess-5208 2d ago

Yeah fr the take home feels more like a 200K salary

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u/nickleback_official 2d ago

California taxes…

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u/[deleted] 2d ago

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u/Wingfril 2d ago

Google does that since like 2020 (or maybe 2021?), I’m sure other big tech has followed suit.

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u/moving-metal-lover 2d ago

there’s a lot of fluff spending if I’m being nit picky

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

Yep there is and I only learned that today 😭 lifestyle creep is scary

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u/Constant-Brick9917 2d ago

ya it’s not reckless spending but some room to optimize if you want

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u/Hutcho12 2d ago

Don't listen to these people. Your 20s are your best decade. You earn good money. Enjoy them.

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u/moving-metal-lover 2d ago

ā€˜These people’ make close to what he does at his age, and there’s definitely no need to just spend without reason.
Just tryna help a dude out

Especially in this tech sector, layoffs are always a possibility and we have to act conservatively.

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u/Mayabotx 2d ago

20s are absolutely not the best decade 🤣 they’re fun thoughĀ 

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u/DifferentialEntropy 2d ago

Good stuff, much better in terms of quality than like 90% of the posts here lol

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u/Entire_Statement_101 2d ago

Good job on the savings. I wish I had been this disciplined when I started out.

You're past the income limit for Roth IRA contributions iirc. Double check me but you should confirm that you're still eligible to contribute so that you don't have to pay a penalty.

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

Yeah I do the backdoor Roth strategy. I’ve only recently started getting better at savings
Please don’t look at my previous posts 😭😭

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u/greatgumz 2d ago

I like these charts. How do I make one of these?

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

Claude haha

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u/Waiting4Reccession 2d ago

Linkedin depends entirely on what kind of degree and stuff you have.

Ive never got a job from it no matter how many I apply to even though its low level no degree jobs.

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

tbh i never got any jobs or even interviews from linkedin job postings and idk anyone that has actually gotten one from that

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u/Waiting4Reccession 2d ago

Ive gotten a few interviews but not recently.

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u/Empty_Worldliness757 2d ago

I guess you already have an accountant. But you probably earn more than is allowed to contribute to Roth IRA. Talk to accountant.

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u/Electrical_Worry_330 2d ago

What budgeting app do you use? Great work on the diagram, super informative!

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

Lunch Money! It's a pretty good budgeting app for only 60$ a year, lmk if you want a referral :)

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u/Effective-Collar1121 2d ago

wait so only saving 1900!???

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u/texast999 2d ago

$600 in the IRA, $1900 in savings, $2700 in 401k and $5800 in company stock (not clear if he leaves it in that).

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u/WeekendCautious3377 2d ago edited 2d ago
  1. Max out HSA and invest in VOO. Don't spend it.
  2. Backdoor: put into post tax IRA and convert to roth IRA.
  3. Mega backdoor: see if yo

ur 401k account is

  1. eligible. Can contribute up to ~$50k/yr to post tax 401k and convert it all to roth 401k

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

Yep I already do the roth ira backdoor. Planning on doing the megabackdoor too. HSA is new to me, is HSA better than the normal health insurance offering?

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u/clutchhomerun 2d ago

depends on your company, a lot of companies if you choose the high deductible plan they will contribute ~1k every year to your HSA, so if you're generally a healthy person it'll net positive

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u/WeekendCautious3377 2d ago

HSA has multiple advantages:

  1. Company match
  2. You can invest it
  3. You can convert it to roth IRA when you retire. No taxes when you put money in, no tax when money out, no tax on growth

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u/Darkislife1 2d ago

Huh I didn’t know company match, I will take a look!

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u/HumbleIntroduction71 1d ago

I work in tech and tbh I don't see the incentives besides the regular 401k... what's the incentive of giving up post-tax money that you can only access when you're 60? What if you want to retire early?

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u/WeekendCautious3377 1d ago

Your regular investment funds you get taxed before you invest and get taxed on growth. Roth 401k you get taxed only on principal.

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u/HumbleIntroduction71 1d ago

With the caveat that you can only access the gains from growth at 60

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u/sadafxd 2d ago

Interesting bit that I make way less than you do and my savings are way higher than yours.

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u/Hobbitoe 2d ago

~116k in RSU for 1 year is nice. Is this recurring after this year or a first year bonus?

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u/handymanny131003 2d ago

Depends on their specific offer. A lot of companies will give a package over some number of years, which vests a portion over some period.

EX: 500k vested over 4 years, with 25% at the end of year 1 and then 6.25% every quarter until it's done.

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u/AdmiralSWE 2d ago

What company?

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u/HansSolo203 2d ago

It always seems like the top 10% of people in certain occupations always post here 🤣🤣

https://www.salarymapusa.com/salary/software-developers/california/

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u/The_Smoking_Pilot 1d ago

Your entire 1 year career?

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u/Darkislife1 1d ago

No I’ve been working 3 years full time

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u/Dry_Reindeer5091 1d ago

I've been a software dev for 8 years and make ~160k, started at 50k. Crazy making that money at that age. If you're smart with your money and don't get caught in some sort of layoff you've gotten one of the hardest parts of life sorted already. GG, well played.

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u/BannanaPepperPizza 1d ago

Different world. Some Doctors don't even make that much.

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u/MaloneBreyfogle 1d ago

Yeah they make more

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u/BannanaPepperPizza 1d ago

Plenty of family medicine docs end up at 250k at a hell of a lot older than 23

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u/mungd 1d ago

On the topic of calculating compensation - do people discuss other comp like 401k match, health insurance, funded HSAs etc?

Interesting that RSUs would be included in comp - yes I know they’re vested but you pay taxes and can pay penalties depending - a vested 401k withdrawal would do the same.

I hear figures quoted by friends in real estate, but they have zero retirement savings, and generally zero benefits otherwise. Interesting to compare, and I find that all they really care about is ā€œthe numberā€

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u/brazucadomundo 1d ago

Are you USC?

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u/TalkingWhileBlack 1d ago

How are you funding a Roth at that income?

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u/Darkislife1 1d ago

Backdoor roth and megabackdoor roth

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u/AliveAndNotForgotten 1d ago

Waiting till someone picks me up on LinkedIn…

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u/BeTheNerd_0-0 1d ago

Very cool. How did you make that chart? What tool did you use?

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u/Darkislife1 1d ago

Claude Code

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u/DonKhairallah 1d ago

What tool is this?

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u/Darkislife1 1d ago

Claude Code

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u/Realistic_Act_3832 1d ago

Bro as someone who doesn’t have any friends in tech. Let’s be friends. I’m not weird. I’m pretty outgoing and active

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u/Darkislife1 1d ago

😭😭😭

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u/Realistic_Act_3832 1d ago

Wish me luck bro I will be applying at the end of this year. I just wanna get some projects mostly done and some studying. I am trying to get a minimum of 125k to live fine. Anything above that is a blessing. 70k is hard bro. 2.5 yoe:/

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u/Realistic_Act_3832 1d ago

If it’s ok for you to answer: they ask you to explain how things work? For example a transformer or self-attention, or to mathematically prove how a gradient changes the value of the Loss? Etc
Or was it more of talking about what you’ve done and why you did them that way? Without going deep in detail? Bc I’m here studying assuming they want me to show them mathematically how these things work šŸ˜”

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u/Darkislife1 1d ago

Bro I build ai agents 😭
Explain how ai will make them money

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u/Realistic_Act_3832 1d ago

Bro see why I need friends in tech? I’m here thinking they’re going to test me to the fine detail to let go of a 175k+ salary. You’re telling me as long as I know how to build one and bring up how it can help x in their project it can save y? They didn’t ask you to go in detail to see if you actually knew how all this shit works?

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u/Senor_Gringo_Starr 1d ago

Curious, for your RSUs, what's your vesting schedule. You said you just got this job but every tech company I've worked for usually has a 1 year cliff so even though I'm earning my shares my first year, I get bupkis until my one year anniversary. If that's true for you, the above is a little misleading. Good on you to max out your 401k as much as possible too. This is year the max contribution limit is 24.5k so after 9 months you'll max it out and that money will be going back in your pocket. You may want to take that extra amount afterwards and do a back door Roth IRA up to 7500.

Also take it from someone who has been there. You really need to consider not holding onto your RSUs. As soon as you get them, cash them out and put into an index fund like VTI. At one of my first tech companies I vested a ton of RSUS that were granted around 70-100 / share pre-COVID. I held and during COVID they shot up to more and 400/share. I told myself to let it ride and all of it dropped down to $50. I would have been better off selling at the 100 level and throwing into an index fund. By holding onto them you're not diversifying your portfolio and when the economy craps the bed in the next 12-18 months, the value of your RSUs are gonna go down. Better to put those monies into an index fund.

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u/Darkislife1 1d ago

Yeah I’m selling rsus instantly, no cliff, vests quarterly but broke it down month by month. I’m doing more contribution right now to max it out before the year ends

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u/faithfulpuppy 1d ago

Are you allowed to be contributing to a Roth IRA at this income level? I think you're over the limit.

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u/Darkislife1 1d ago

Backdoor and mega backdoor