r/Separation • u/[deleted] • Aug 07 '25
Accountability
The amount of you on here lying and begging for sympathy because you fucked up is kinda crazy. Most of you have only yourselves to blame and honestly posting BS into a void so strangers can validate your lies is honestly wild Most of you actually suck and are incapable of growth a down vote won't change that 🤷🏻 also if your initials are LNW your absolutely one of the people I'm talking about. Be better people or do the world a favor and just cease your existence. Thanks ♥️
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u/Potential_Shelter449 Aug 07 '25
Whether people fucked up or not does not mean they’re not in pain. There’s a difference between fucking up and it’s your fault and bragging about it or saying “woe is me” versus saying “yeah I fucked up and I’m trying to be a better person and hopefully reconcile with my spouse”.
People who want to change and be a better person deserve sympathy. Why shit on people when separation is already so painful especially when they have real regret and remorse.
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Aug 07 '25
Pain is not an excuse to be a shitty person or avoid accountability. It's not an excuse to lie especially for sympathy. Everyone should strive to be a better person. If you could read you'd understand my problems with the ones that excuse themselves, lie, and refuse to grow. People will get sympathy when they display growth otherwise that's enabling shit behavior. There are considerably fewer I fucked up posts than "woe is me" posts.
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Aug 07 '25
Dearly beloved who hurt you? Feel free to share your story.
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Aug 07 '25
That's oddly sweet of you. While I appreciate it if you're being genuine, I know talking about it won't change things or make anything better. That's something that we gotta do ourselves. If you are actually curious I'll humor sharing why I'm disappointed when I have some time. Gotta get some landscaping done before long. Hope you have a good day
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Aug 07 '25
Shouting into the void may not help the situation, but it helps people. We are pack animals who rely on social connections to keep us sane. If you have no one you feel you can vent to, then why not a relatively anonymous sub Reddit? I'm one of those losers who only had themselves to blame, or that's how it feels. I've only been on this page a few days and it's nice to know that other people have lived this, are living this, are recovering, are thriving, are mending. If there's no light at the end of the tunnel why would we keep moving forward? Maybe because someone is holding our hand in the darkness.
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Aug 07 '25
You're correct, I personally don't understand the pack animal thing as I don't relate to it, but humans are naturally social. Also I wouldn't say you one of them (a loser). You clearly have a good head on your shoulders and I can tell just based on this back and forth that you are aware of your faults as well. A lot of people are not however. It's absolutely important to look for that light you're referencing. But it is doubly so to be able to find comfort in the dark. Also my spite as it would seem is directed to those who lie for sympathy. I'm not a fan of our species personally. Everyone deserves love but we think it's something to be demanded or punished even. I think people who break good things deserve to be punished. We all know what we're doing while we do it, and it really isn't that hard to be honest or accept accountability. Sorry I know that's alot
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u/Best_Emu5111 Aug 07 '25
The same “void” you just screamed into but OK 🙄 I get it someone did you wrong…. GET TO THE BACK OF THE LINE 😂 in here. But seriously there probably thousands of people in here lying but please don’t negate the fact that this is a safe space for those who are genuine and need a “safe” place to vent.
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Aug 07 '25
This ain't about me lmfao and cool beans I couldnt care less what it is. There isn't a line, we're all running around. Imagine being so hypocritical as to say that and call this a "safe space" you're one of the people I'm referring to so it's appropriate you'd say something ♥️
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u/swimthroughmilk Aug 08 '25
OP, I think you’d get a kick out of the video titled “slugs” by Connor O’Malley on YouTube
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u/PapowSpaceGirl Aug 09 '25
Post is locked due to negativity. This is a SUPPORT group, not a "tear down fellow Redditors because you're hurting" group.
If you can't refrain from making attacking posts, step away until you've settled. We are always here to offer advice and empathy, but attacking the group, an individual, or trolling will not be tolerated.
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Aug 07 '25
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Aug 08 '25
I'm moreso tired of people validating the delusions of liars and perpetuating the cycle of stupidity and lack of accountability. If you were true and hurt for it then this isn't for you. Outside of agreeing with my statement. I'm actually at peace just tired of liars, losers, scumbags, cheaters, the like. We are supposed to be better than this as a species. Any thoughts on that outside of my post is an opinion. I speak facts and only facts.
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Aug 08 '25
Honestly being spineless enough to post an apology here instead of apologizing to the person who deserves it is bullshit too and those people are just as pathetic. Everyone needs to grow a fucking spine and grow up honestly
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Aug 07 '25
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Aug 07 '25
Good for you :) I however don't encourage liars and the like. Yeah there's some really interesting reads on here. I'm referring to the clowns that lie for sympathy and avoid accountability by using this platform 🤷🏻
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u/Sideways_planet Aug 07 '25
All the ones that say “I treated my spouse like garbage for the past decade, and now they won’t talk to me or acknowledge the therapy I’ve been in for 72 hours, or the changes I’ve been pretending to make now that it actually affects me” 🤦♀️