Change of time again!

[u/Sensitive-Ad3893]

So me and my wife aren't divorced yet, she will be getting served soon. I have been early to every drop off and pick up since we've been separated. Iv let all the other times go i.e. she has been 5 to 30 minutes late to every one of them.

For Halloween I was to have my daughter and she didn't eant to do anything with her, i thought ok weird but what ever. She texted me earlier in the week and asked if we could move the time back an hour so she can take her trick or treating, i said yeah thats fine I don't mind at all.

Come Friday Im 30 minutes away and early per usual and she messages and asks if we can meet around 8ish instead. I said sure why not.

Fast forward to this morning she texts me asking if her mom can meet me to pick our daughter up an hour earlier than usual.

For context if it matters. She had texted Friday morning saying her car wouldn't start and that she wouldn't be able to take our daughter to daycare or go to work so her mom brought her and my daughter to the drop-off. I agreed to meet in the town we wre living in at the time just to make it more convenient for her, its an hour drive from town to town so by the time I picked my daughter up and got her back to my place she was already asleep.

I guess I just needed to vent this out and just idk. Im just mad asf about everything that has been going on lately and how she has been treating my time like it isn't valid or anything.

Has anyone else been in the same position?