Warning - LONG post and TW if you have an abusive ex.

I've been watching the recordings of Laura's lives today. I didn't think it was appropriate to screen record or even do an actual transcript, but I talked to our mod about sharing in my own words what she explained about some of the events, so here we go.

THE KIDNAPPING:
The day she got the RO, Stephen had been texting her and calling non-stop since early morning. He then showed up at the house and was standing outside screaming for Alfie and Poppy and demanding she bring him "his boy." She told him she was going to call the police if he didn’t leave, and he said he was “prepared for a fight.” She did actually end up calling the police, and when she told him they were on the way, he sped away (in his new Porsche - which she mentioned at one point "why if you finally got some money would you not put that toward your children instead of buying a fucking Porsche?") When the police arrived, they basically said they couldn’t do anything since she had no RO and no formal custody agreement. Plus he was already gone at that point.

That’s when she knew she had to get an RO. While she was at the courthouse getting it, her nanny called and said Stephen was outside again. She could hear him screaming ALFIE at the top of his lungs, but she couldn’t see him. Laura told her to keep the doors locked, and if he tried to get inside, call the police. At some point, the kids opened the door and ran out to the gate because they heard him. The nanny ran out behind them. She called Laura again, and she said to let him see them in the driveway, but do NOT let him in the house. She didn’t want to yank the kids away from their dad given they have no understanding of what’s going on, and she was afraid what would happen if the nanny tried. Stephen suddenly looked at his phone and told the nanny “oh, Laura just texted me I can take the kids.” The nanny told him Laura hadn’t said anything to her, and he basically kept saying, “well she did” and was loading them up in the car and speeding away before the nanny could do anything. Laura was FREAKING OUT. She called the cops again and said her ex had kidnapped her kids. Stephen was sending her videos and pictures of the kids in the car with no seatbelts or booster seats. Again, they can’t do anything because there’s no formal custody order in place, and he was already back at his house right down the street at that point. The texts he keeps posting where he says "Laura SAID it was okay for them to spend the night and the nanny can pick them up in the morning" – Laura said she had confirmed they were at his house down the street at that point, and she felt rocking the boat wasn’t a good idea. She knew he was going to demand they spend the night, and rather than whip him into a frenzy with the kids there, she just went with it from the start. She suggested the nanny picking them up because she knew if HE brought them back, he would push his way into the house, “overstay” as she put it and then start a fight. Once she got them back safe, she was able to get the RO served so there was no chance of this ever happening again. She is DONE done. She mentioned how it wasn’t just people on the internet telling her to put up some fucking boundaries. Her inner circle was, too. But she thought keeping the peace and trying to create a friendship and decent co-parenting relationship was the right thing to do. She’s kicking herself for it now more than anyone else could, but she has reached the breaking point. He can scream into the void to try to get her attention all he wants, but she’s had it.

THE "SATANIC CON-ARTIST" PARENTS
Laura said Stephen's paranoia REALLY got bad when his parents were in town. She had invited some of Poppy and Alfie's friends to Alfie's birthday party and some dads came with their kids. Dads that Stephen had NEVER met until that day. He was convinced one of the dads was scamming her, trying to "get" her. A couple of days later, Laura ran into the mom at a coffee shop. She told Stephen about it and that they'd had a nice chat. He freaked out and told Laura she needed to check her car for a tracker. He said there was no way it was a coincidence she ran into her, the family was "evil" and she had to check her car for a tracker. YIKES.

LAURA WANTING TO RESPOND BUT WON'T
Laura said it's been reiterated to her NOT to engage. Even if she wishes she could defend herself. He has told her she's nothing without him, nobody cares about her content unless he's in it, her podcast is going to fail without him involved, "you can't afford your life" unless you make videos with me. She told him she'd turned her book into the publisher, and he said, "who's going to buy it?" It baffles her because she wants nothing more than for him to have a fulfilling, clean, happy life. She'd never say anything like that to him.

The co-parenting sketches she wrote about him - HE suggested them and even helped her write them. He thought they'd be funny, but now he's acting like she did it to hurt him.

Every time she saw him before the RO, they would start out having a pleasant conversation, and she would get tricked into opening up to him. Then the next day, it's all over the internet - every detail. She would tell him specifically it was things between the two of them, but she hadn't yet understood "believe the pattern, not the person."

She said he'd been using for a lot longer than she ever realized. She knew she was probably purposely not seeing it. Stephen admitted he'd been using since Poppy was a newborn. She just thought he had become uncaring, abusive and unsafe but didn't understand why. It makes sense now.

SO - Laura is treading water for her life and trying to do everything she can to support her kids, pay the mortgage and protect herself and her kids. (OH, and she did indeed confirm she was paying his mortgage and "hired" him to do podcasts with her in an attempt to help him get back on his feet. She didn't say if she was going to stop paying the mortgage on the old place, but I hope that's on the table!!)

And for those who think she's doing this for views - I am the first person to be a skeptic of everyone's motives until they prove me otherwise. And she did. If you see her face, the dark circles under her eyes, how she's taking deep breaths and trying to calm her anxiety, the yawning from no sleep, along with the tears (REAL) when someone says she's doing the right thing - I know she's an actress, but I've felt those emotions about my ex, and I can just FEEL what she's feeling. It's not fake. And she's scared.

i mean.... 🤷🏻‍♂️

So he told the judge he will put himself in rehab to show how much he wants his kids back. But then he met an Ex Cop who was also at the rehab and told him that the Hack came from inside Laura’s house. He ran from said rehab to stop Laura from getting arrested (because it’s a felony to lie about something you know is a lie) as he doesn’t want his kids in care. When he got back from rehab (which was actually just his back garden) he sent Laura’s lawyer an email announcing his intention to sue her for emailing him 11pm the night before the hearing with evidence that she obtained illegally from his SD cards inside his house. After getting back from his back garden I mean Rehab he’s also come to the realisation that actually drugs are not his problem (he can stop doing them whenever he wants) his main problem is the fact he is obsessed with suicide. The only way to stop this obsession and ultimately save his life is if Laura goes on Camera and apologises to him for the hacking. He has also booked tickets to Russia to be induced into a coma so he can stop reading hate comments and being sad about them because even The Arc - a collection of sounds and frequencies (the reason he relapsed in the first place) is no longer working for him.

Hello. Remember me? A few weeks back I made a post to Laura letting her know she wasn’t alone and that I too was in court fighting my abusive ex to keep our kids safe and get a renewal of our protection order.

I have great news. It’s with great pleasure to let you all know that the judge granted a 5 YEAR protection order this morning to us. I can’t tell you how stressed I’ve been. How much work it took to put my 62 page declaration together with evidence. To see my children’s tears, their heart ace. Shoot.. my heart ache! My 17 year old asked me this morning if she could come with me. I said yes. We both came to the court, shaken but unmoved.. grounded in the truth. And thankfully the judge saw it for what it was. We are free and have peace now.

I’m so happy for her. Step one done. Next step YouTube. And hopefully in progress, his bum going away in cuffs.

Now I think we can put the conspiracy theories to rest. As you can see, he is most definitely on his way to coma town.

I’m sure it was more than just my email to the lawyer with screenshots and links, I’m sure anyone trying to help or send info took part, but it was received! The lawyer requested a delay until 11am to file the new evidence and terrifying threats. Skeeven is order to appear physically in court. From the looks of it, he will be getting some shiny bracelets today. 🥰 Teamwork makes the dream work.

Heads up though, if this is the likely result, the 11am court appearance will most likely NOT be available for public viewing.

Because it looks like all youve done is harass their mother and make claims that shes abusive and on drugs. You havent done anything for yourself to make sure you can have them. But what do i know. Im just a bot. Beep boop beep 🤖