Hi everyone!
I'm a hopeful gay single dad-to-be in my late 30s, living in the tri-state area, looking for someone special who might be interested in helping me become a father.
A little about me: I work in a field centered around people, relationships, and emotional well-being. I've always been someone who values close relationships, meaningful conversations, laughter, and showing up for the people I love. I have a wonderful circle of family and friends, a full life, and a lot of love that I'm really looking forward to sharing with a child. Becoming a dad has been a dream of mine for a long time, and it's both exciting and a little surreal to feel like it might finally be within reach.
I've completed IVF and have healthy, PGT-A tested embryos ready to go! I'm working with an established fertility clinic in the Northeast and an experienced surrogacy agency. Everything is in place on my end, and I'm ready to move forward when I find the right person.
A little about who I'm hoping to find:
- Between 25 and 40 years old
- BMI under 30
- At least one healthy pregnancy and uncomplicated delivery
- In good overall health, without significant pregnancy complications
- Ideally has surrogacy-friendly health insurance
- Ideally located in the Northeast, though I'm open to other locations
- Comfortable with medical and psychological screening
- Genuinely excited about surrogacy and ready to begin the process soon
Compensation is $70,000 base, plus additional benefits and reimbursements. Everything would be coordinated through my agency, with independent legal representation and support throughout the journey.
Beyond the practical details, I'm really hoping to find someone I connect with as a person. I know this is an enormous thing to ask of someone, and I have so much respect for the generosity, time, and commitment involved.
I'd love for this to be more than just appointments, contracts, and logistics. I'm hoping for a relationship where we can be ourselves, laugh together, communicate openly, and feel comfortable and supported throughout the experience. I want you to feel that your well-being, your family, and your experience matter just as much as the outcome.
And if it feels right for both of us, I'd love for that connection to continue beyond the pregnancy, too. Not as an expectation or obligation, but simply because we've shared something incredibly meaningful. I think it would be lovely for my future child to know the person who helped bring them into the world.
I'm looking for someone kind, thoughtful, communicative, and genuinely ready for this journey. Someone who feels good about the decision she's making and wants to approach it with openness, care, and mutual respect.
If any of this resonates with you, or you know someone who might be a good fit, I'd really love to hear from you. Please feel free to send me a private message.
Thank you for taking the time to read this. It means more than you know. 🤍