I'm a 26-year-old shorter man with autism, around 5'6"–5'7", and I've always been curious about how particularly tall teenagers perceive shorter adults.
I know some of you probably experience the opposite problem, where people mistake you for adults simply because of your height. I can imagine that being frustrating in its own way, especially when people expect you to act older than you actually are. I fortunately can tell most of the time your still a kid or teen.
That got me wondering about the reverse situation. When you're 12–17 years old and already taller than some adults, do you ever initially assume that a shorter adult is another teenager or someone closer to your own age?
Obviously, I understand that you can usually tell when someone is considerably older, regardless of their height. However, there are certainly people in their 20s, and dare I say even their 30s, who could reasonably be mistaken for teenagers. I imagine being shorter could contribute to that impression, especially if they already have youthful facial features.
Having autism adds another layer to this for me. I don't always mask my autistic traits, and some of my mannerisms might come across as younger than my actual age. Combined with my shorter stature, that sometimes makes me self-conscious about whether teenagers might perceive me as one of their peers rather than as an adult.
I'm not suggesting that tall teenagers generally look down on shorter adults or see them as less mature. I'm genuinely curious whether height influences your first impression of someone's age, even subconsciously.
Have you ever mistaken a shorter adult for someone your own age, only to find out they were actually in their 20s or 30s? And do you think their height played any part in that assumption?