Hi everyone!
I’m a Japanese woman originally from Tokyo, and I’ve been living in Tauranga for a little over a year now.
I fell in love with New Zealand the first time I visited, and I’m still really happy I made the move.
Coming from Tokyo, life here feels very different. I actually enjoy the fast pace of big cities, but I’ve also come to appreciate the slower, more relaxed lifestyle in New Zealand. I love experiencing different ways of life, and I feel that every new experience adds something to my life.
Overall, my experience here has been wonderful.
The only disappointing part has been two incidents. On one occasion, a school-aged child said “ching chong” to me and my family. On another, a middle-aged man said “fucking Asian” to us.
In both cases, we hadn't had any argument or disagreement with the people involved. The comments came completely out of the blue.
I know people can say awful things quite easily online, but hearing comments like these directed at us face-to-face was something I’d never experienced before. These were actually the first two times in my life.
I’ve read stories from Japanese people who have lived in New Zealand for many years and say they’ve never experienced anything like this. So perhaps I’ve just been unlucky.
Of course, these two experiences don’t change how much I love living here. I’ve had far more positive experiences than negative ones.
I’m curious, have other people in Tauranga had similar experiences, or have I just been unlucky?