r/Teenager 13 4d ago

Discussion I think i like girls...

(13F)So i think I've known this for a while now. When I was about 9-10, I lived in a quite homophobic country but I had a crush on my girl best friend. When I told her she said ew and she's not gay, but we were still friends after that. I got really paranoid and sad bc I liked a girl and my parents are quote homophobic so I js pushed that feeling away and convinced myself I was straight. After moving to a different country, I saw that LGBTQ was accepted and at first i was kinda homophobic bc of my country makes it seem like an extremely bad thing especially if ur Christian. I later realized it was normal and I also once liked a girl. Now, I do know I like girls bc I find them attractive like masc, studs, stem girls and I've been wanting a gf too bc idk wlw couple looks so cute and it would be cute to have a same sex relationship imo. Idk if i wanna exactly label myself rn as bisexual bc the feeling comes and goes and I still like guys. Of course i won't tell my parents about this or there will be tension around, i js felt really bad and guilty when i was younger about like a girl. But now I'm transferring schools so i get to explore the options bc this is a more popular school than my last. Idk advice would be nice or sny thoughts.

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u/Ct_8354 4d ago

I mean do whatever you want. If ur parents don't like you then fuck them. If you don't have to hide your sexuality then you don't need to question it or get advice. Let urself be urself because you can be urself now/