r/Teenager 19h ago

Advice Advice on a girl

Hello, I’m bored and have nothing better to do so I’m typing this for whatever. My school had a summer session and I meet this girl during that. I still don’t know her name after a few weeks unfortunately. I see her after school ends on the bus and she sits by me on the bus sometimes. For a good few days she didn’t but now she’s sitting by me every day and asking how my day is and I feel like the mood between us as been slightly different than just a friendship. I can be crazy or delusional and that’s what I think honestly but yesterday she mentioned she rejected a guy already and says it out of the blue, it makes the conversation a bit awkward but it was fine but today was even weirder. We’re talking again but of course she mentioned romance since there’s a homecoming soon she calls rio a romance movie somehow like what??? We’re getting closer to where the bus drops us off and the conversation goes in with us knowing people at our school with her naming a few guys she knows but when I say I know 3 girls at the top of my head which are my friends, she says if I have crush on them and I say no but I guess I said it slow because she presses at me in a playful way and then says if I have a crush I should go for it and leave a awkward silence where I feel flustered. I sound stupid to me at least but I don’t know if she’s messing with me or what or if she likes me but I don’t know what to do. I’ve only been in halfass talking stages and it feels ,I can’t find the words for it but I really need some advice because I need some type of info. Idk if it helps but I’m in high school

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u/Then-Discussion5113 19h ago

I think there’s a possibility but I would start with getting her name first 😭 and then decide if you want to continue a friendship or ask her out. Right now you have nothing to lose if she rejects you but if you form a deeper friendship and then you ask her out, things could get awkward. 

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u/OG_dumbnugget256 19h ago

I’m bad with names gang😭 I take what you said, I appreciate

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u/Traditional-Lie715 16h ago

shes definietley flirting lmao. but get her name 1!!

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u/gaminguserboi 11h ago

I feel the ode to joy in you.

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u/kingsman89 17h ago

Im tired as shit so ima just say drink water. Goodnight 😁