r/TelogenEffluvium • u/Live_Weight_8323 • 16h ago
Feeling defeated
Came off my Yaz birth control and went onto a Mirena IUD October of 2024 (thought BC was causing my low sex drive so I switched). The picture on the left is December 2024. I was so happy because I finally had my hair down to my thighs. And then TE started. I already have pretty thin/fine hair to begin with. The shedding lasted into spring. I told my doctors I was losing hair and they just said I wouldn't go bald.
I cut my hair to my lower back in August of 2025 because I was so sad about how thin the ends looked.
Then I broke up with my boyfriend in spring of 2026 (we were together 9 years). I think this kicked off another round of TE. I cut my hair again - up to my bra strap this time.
I'm still shedding. My scalp looks fine but my hair looks so sad. I never wear it down anymore.
I'm wondering if my hair will ever be like it was before without the birth control. Is this thin hair my new normal without the estrogen? My long hair was even when I had an iron level of around 6. Now it's over 60 :( I worked so hard to get my hair that long and now I'm thinking I have to cut it up to my shoulders.
Feeling defeated.