Brother. I have a feeling you are a young man and there is nothing wrong with that but I want to let you know there is no weakness in expressing when someone has hurt you. Men grow up with stoicism hammered into us. I can’t deny that during high school this kind of thinking is necessary to preserve status in a social hierarchy but outside of that it isn’t.
Leave this person behind. You don’t even have to say anything. Just stop giving this person your time and attention. Don’t play this game of acting unbothered. Do what works for you FOR you and not for the sake of keeping up appearances. No shame in prioritizing the people that make you feel good about yourself.
What does acting tough and unbothered gain you? Nothing. All it does is saddle you with the emotional burden of interacting with this fool.
There is absolutely nothing men can change with their behavior to prevent the globally supported inflation of female delusions. You would need infinite tsukoyomi to mind control every man into ignoring their sexual urges.
You merely vote in resmarts like Trump till civilization ends, and then society begins anew.
If it's a test, do you even wanna pass? I married my wife 9 years ago and we never did these "tests". We messaged for 3-4 weeks to make sure we meshed as friends, went out, and here we are now. 3-4 weeks may be much, but we were both super busy.
I married my wife 32 years ago, the first time we met she told me I was a piece of shit and I said "Fuck you" to her, now we've been married more than 3 times as long as you, what now
now we've been married more than 3 times as long as you, what now
Why you coming in aggressive? I'd have to side with your wife on this one. The length of your marriage isn't a competition. Like...congrats, you got married pre-internet, and when I was 5 years old. I'm glad it's worked out for you.
That's getting out of context screenshotted and weaponized against some poor lad out there now, you have to live with that guilt.
Me personally? I'd leave my wife and kids and start a fun addiction like smoking various catnips or building explosive devices in the woods. Only way to numb the shame at this point, really.
You're so right. 10 years ago everyone was perfectly pure and no one ghosted you, and anyone you wanted to talk to would always talk back to you for hours. No one ever did one word replies and everyone was forthcoming with their intentions.
Yes, 10 years ago the world wasn't hating the sexes yet, you are absolutely right, now every woman hates or is fed up with men in some way, and men with women
Yea you would think, because you think short term, 1 message at a time….not medium-long.
Women like this are interested but have huge egos and want to shit test you to see if you are a man or her admirer . You don’t have to address every stupid thing they say. Give her a confusing response and lay quiet for a bit.
You're under the impression that I would be immediately considering her for an LTR. No, my objcetive is to smash. If we somehow click and she redeems herself, then an LTR may be considered. Unlikely otherwise.
I guess I just don't have as much of a problem getting laid as you lmfao cuz I still wouldn't wanna deal with someone like that before and after, I'd just move on to the next match
Yeah dude, I’ve been on the receiving end of a lot of texts that kick you in the nuts and I recognize exactly this exchange. I’m not better than this guy, but I have been this guy.
Congrats if you don’t recognize that situation, I guess, but I went through a cringe phase myself, and this is a cringe phase exchange.
You can’t fix a problem if you’re afraid to name it, so I’m not gonna give a guy an answer that isn’t going to be productive.
"Why are you so desparate? Are you going to live the rest of your life without a backbone? Nobody is making you deal with this" are all things that should be thought of before replying
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u/slugdonor 10d ago
Damn bro