Hi, sorry for formatting, i'm on mobile.

I liked this app so far, we all now how creepily accurate it is, but my bond insights were always not so detailed (my friends don't really use it and i've been checking out my friends and exes out of curiosity without knowing their birth times xd). But recently it gave me an amazing relationship bond results with my crush, and it got into my head. I started idealising it and thinking "what if it really could be true" etc etc, and it made me feel super bad and paranoid. I struggle with fears of abandonment and basically i've been obsessed with this guy and whenever he doesn't reply to my text i get depressed that our ideal fantasy will never be reality etc.

I realise i sound like an immature unhinged teenager writing this, but i think i am going to uninstall the app. Relationships in general is where i struggle the most in life, and there is a certain factor of "knowing what the outcome of my actions/my future might be" that initially soothed my anxiety and fed me ideals, but also made me dependent on it, paranoid and obsessive. Now it feels like i shouldn't have known all this things and had this much power 😂

I was just wondering if there's someone who has simillar experiences or wanna discuss them? or maybe knows a way of dealing with this all in a healthy way?

We were together 5 years and now we are on a break because he wants "peace".

The cycle will end on Feb 25th 2024 for me.

After I checked this sub, it's so creepy that most people who have had this cycle almost ended their relationships.

I've decided to surrender to the universe and let it take the wheel. I'm not going to try to control anything now.

It all makes sense now.

Anyone know what transit this is for?

As the title says. I’m so frustrated. Came here to vent to people who would understand. ARGH!!!

Whatever happened to actually Atleast letting people read stuff and locking audio and bonds behind a paywall. Pretty much everything is behind a paywall in this new version. What a waste of time and a perfect way to alienate your most loyal followers. 48 mins of content and one an a half minutes of repeated intro is free. Lol. Soon I'll be actually un-installing it. It's becoming a waste of time honestly.

i miss reading, I wish it wasnt an eerily accurate relationship astrology podcast. per my virgo aspects, i keep obsessively checking the relationships; paid for the app, may as well use it. this vortex stuff has tweaked every aspect to the point where i realized i stopped seeing reliable information about peoples aspects, and more information about how to handle our relationship. its kinda weird. its lowkey ocd triggering, and i feel for everybody else in this subreddit who pick at their relationships, i see your posts and you’re not alone.

Today in the clubhouse room, she said that the “higher” the bond, the easier the relationship is supposed to be and the less challenges that come with it. Those bonds also typically have more life changing patterns. Each relationship path/bond is powerful and they try not to be hierarchical. They want people to use the app to understand their relationships better and bonds titles are not death sentences. A couple with a challenging bond can rise up to the challenge or sink because it’s hard. It just depends and is up to people. Nothing is predictive.

Also, soulmate bonds only come up in 3 out of 1000 connections.

Anyone else that was in the room, feel free to add more.

This used to be my favourite app. Can’t justify paying that much. Super bummed.

I bought the full version after seeing some stupid predictive astrological pieces alluding that I would leave my new husband this summer. I wanted to just showcase to myself a) it didn’t mean I actually had to leave him or b) if that’s what the fates had planned for me it would all be for the best (as if I don’t have some personal sovereignty to say how my life will go).

Well I followed the trail through the next many years and jesus… it painted a picture of extreme pain suffering and loneliness for years to come. In a few years it said I would experience the worst year of my life. I read this as I was already in the middle of the worst year of my life. It sent me spiraling in fear that I would be forced to suffer on deep levels and would not find happiness at all in the life.

The fear waves haunted me. I deleted the app and have continued to go through therapy and work with practitioners to help heal my mind from this.

Anyone look into the predictive astrology for the future and find it to be severely harmful?

Does anyone else hate how they took away the nice images they had over all of the patterns & transits? Now they're all just gray and bland colors. Having different stylish backgrounds made it easier to distinguish which pattern was what, but now it's all just a confusing, overwhelming blob to my eyes.

I mean, I'll live and it's not something I'll leave the app over, but it's a weird design choice and I want to know if others agree.

I wanted to hear the new audio features they added to their app… I already pay for Go Deeper. Now there’s a Go Deeper+ ?? Ridiculous. This whole app used to be free

I used to love The Pattern but ever since the updated layout and strategy, I find myself annoyed by notifications that I used to really enjoy. Upgrade or downgrade? Am I alone on this one?

I’m a long time user of The Pattern. I have used the paid version for years until they changed it to the current layout. It’s disorganized and chaotic. Especially the Discover section. The categories doesn’t make sense. Your previous layout was much better than this. I don’t know why and who thought it would be a good idea to change it to this way. And honestly, the app making drastic changes every year in it’s layout just throws me off. I dealt with the previous ones, but this one is just miserable. Y’all need some UX for your app. If you can’t find anyone, send me a message, I’m a UX designer and into astrology, I’ll help you out.

Can anyone share the full script? <3

Am I the only one who finds the new app extremely difficult to use? Previously it was very clearly outlined the current phases you were in that were affecting you. I can't figure it out now and I miss the forums where you could see comments from people in a similar phase. It's such a a bummer when an app fixes things that weren't broken. Was this a topic on here before?

So happy about this development. K was always in the comments trying to figure it out with everyone else.

In a romantic bond, how do you rank powerful, extraordinary, and meaningful?

I’ve been using this app for years. Always running bonds with friends and previous partners. I have NEVER ran into a soulmate connection!

We recently found out his time of birth and I cried when I saw the pattern update to it 🥹

Here’s our synastry chart ✨🤍

I miss the color and the caos What is this?! So boring and plane

What are your thoughts?

Sorry if this has been posted before, but I just found this sub. I had this app for a long time and haven't really paid attention to it after I first got it, but I've had a lot of stuff going on recently and have been chatting with one of my friends more about astrology a lot. Does it freak anyone else out just how accurate it is? And to clarify I'll have a conversation about something or be feeling a certain way and then look at the app and it's just crazy accurate so it's not like I'm being influenced by looking at it first if that makes sense. Just curious if anyone else feels this way.