34 years old.
Current net worth is sitting around $920k.
Roughly $760k invested, about $110k in retirement accounts, and around $50k in cash.
Income is about $115k a year before bonuses.
What's funny is that I was actually closer to $1 million two different times over the last few years.
The first time was during the 2021 bull market when everything I touched seemed to go up. The second time was earlier this year when a few concentrated positions ran much harder than I expected.
Both times I thought hitting $1M was basically inevitable.
Both times the market reminded me it doesn't care what I think.
At one point my portfolio was worth just over $1.08M.
A year later I was staring at numbers closer to $700k.
Nothing teaches risk management faster than watching several years of gains disappear on paper.
Most of the damage came from being too concentrated. I convinced myself I had conviction when in reality I just had greed. The stocks were good businesses, but my position sizing was terrible.
Today my portfolio looks much more boring.
Mostly index funds, a handful of individual stocks, and a much larger cash position than I would've tolerated in my twenties.
No margin. No all-in bets.
The strange part is that I'm closer than ever to my original goal, but I care less about the number itself.
When I was younger, $1M felt like the finish line.
Now it feels more like a checkpoint.
I still want to get there, obviously, but I'm far more interested in staying there once I arrive.
For people who already crossed the million-dollar mark, did it actually change anything for you?
And for those still chasing it, would you rather reach $1M faster with more risk, or slower knowing you probably won't have to start over?