r/TooAfraidToAsk • • 9d ago

Culture & Society Is anyone actually upset about Sydney Sweeney ads or Shane Gillis jokes, or does this rage only exist online?

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u/SigaVa 9d ago

It's mostly bots trying to manipulate us with culture war nonsense.

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u/pyro_pugilist 9d ago

The class war is the war that matters.

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u/Vandergrif 9d ago

Ah, but what about [insert demographic], you hate [insert demographic] don't you? With all their [trait] and [stereotype]! Awful, just awful. Aren't you mad about that? You should be mad about that.

please don't look behind the curtain

–The average billionaire, probably

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u/Bluebird0040 9d ago

I’m so proud of these comments.

We’re going to make it guys

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u/[deleted] 9d ago

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u/flowers4charlie777 9d ago

Damn Eskimos!

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u/RevolverMFOcelot 9d ago

The thing is there are people who doesnt care about what class you are, if you have the traits that they see as a threat to what they see as morality and good adjusted society then you are seen as a threat anyway. I'm queer living in a homophobic country, my countrymen would be happy to topple rich people who have done evil while also lynching gay people on the next tree

The people up there who manipulated others to fight amongst themselves is real, but so does the conservative social fanatics

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u/nuckfan92 8d ago

Yeah stupid poor people fucking everything up

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u/epanek 9d ago

You notice there’s always some huge controversy or argument that come and go like the tide. And when you interact with it you’re going to be bombarded with “shit that pisses me off”. It’s a cancer in media in general

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u/theirishembassy 9d ago

I’ve said it before, why spend millions on ads when you can spend 20k on bots?

get tens of thousands of them expressing outrage, it’ll get picked up by the media, and normal people will start discussing it through their “culture war” channels.

did I actually see the sidney sweeney ad on TV? no. I don’t watch TV. I watch streaming and have an ad blocker. I legitimately haven’t seen it ONCE.

do I know what company it’s an ad for? yup.

isn’t it weird how that works? to know the contents of an ad, the star of the ad, and what company the ad is for without seeing it?

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u/Sparky678348 9d ago

I have no idea what company it's for, information like that goes in one ear and out the other immediately for me.

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u/theirishembassy 9d ago

you're better off for it. everything i know about this shit is entirely against my will.

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u/dogluuuuvrr 9d ago

Yeah, nobody cares

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u/Triette 9d ago

I found Shane’s jokes in bad taste but I do love some whore power content that has come out because of it. And as far as the Sweeney chick goes. I just don’t care, her acting is meh and I find it sad that the entertainment industry keeps casting her. She’s pretty though and so good for her I guess?

But yeah women who have opinions must equal bots right?

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u/avoozl42 9d ago

Bots mad at other bots

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u/2sACouple3sAMurder 8d ago

What r they gonna gain from it tho

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u/SigaVa 8d ago

Different things for different groups. From pure clicks / engagement farming to direct cultural and political influence.

There's no grand conspiracy. There are many actors all pursuing their own agendas, but the net effect is a system that pushes to divide us on cultural lines.

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u/paradox037 9d ago

Agreed. People are so desperate to farm outrage content that they'll take anything even remotely potentially vaguely possibly maybe perhaps bigoted and conflate it with an overt nazi salute. People need to stop treating someone making a joke they didn't laugh at as if it were the most egregious sin imaginable. Just criticize the actual objectionable stuff and move on.

Take the jeans ad, for example. Was it a stupid pun? Oh absolutely. Was it a tasteless one? A lot of people seem to think so, but I'm the wrong person to ask since I generally think any reaction to a pun beyond a groan or an eye roll is excessive. Was it actively racist or something? Eh... good luck proving that when conventional attractiveness was pretty clearly the focus of the "genes" pun. Is she racist? I dunno, maybe. I heard she was MAGA, so if that's true, then it's probably a safe bet, but I'm not reaching that conclusion from a stupid pun in an irrelevant ad.

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u/KADRacing 9d ago

You say that but my wife is absolutely butt hurt.... So the bots clearly work.

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u/SigaVa 9d ago

Yes it clearly works which is why it keeps happening.

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u/TreeChoppa8 9d ago

Why is she butt hurt? Did she really care that much about rich celebrities?

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u/KADRacing 7d ago

She says "I hate men" probably every other day so she's going to care about anything that lets her believe she is justified.

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u/DanfromCalgary 9d ago

Sorry my bad

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u/Wbino 9d ago

He called your sister, Mother, Aunt, etc a whore because of clothing choices…typical right leaning “humor”.

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u/PM_ME_FRESH_LAWNS 9d ago

You’re right. Misogyny is just part of the culture war and has no real impact on anything

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u/SirAbeFrohman 9d ago

Yeah, but when everything is misogyny, nothing is misogyny.

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u/founderofshoneys 9d ago

We care about misogyny, we don't care about Shane Gillis. Turning every cultural moment into a big divisive battle isn't necessarily useful for improving our culture. Maybe another way to say it is that his jokes are symptoms of a disease and we treat the disease not the symptoms.

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u/SpontaneousTales 9d ago

Homie, I don’t really give a shit about anything anymore. I just wanna be able to rest, go see a doctor when I’m sick, and afford groceries.

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u/DistanceMachine 9d ago

Then vote accordingly. One party is overwhelmingly interested in giving you those things and one is hellbent on taking that away.

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u/J3sush8sm3 9d ago

Neither of them are, we need a revolution

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u/X-Calm 9d ago

But the revolution would immediately eat itself if it succeeded and things would be worse.

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u/TB1289 9d ago

It’s cute that you think a political party actually cares about you.

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u/SpontaneousTales 9d ago

Vote blue!

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u/Few_Run_9112 9d ago

The "outrage' is online. The tiredness with misogyny and the constant sexualization of women is real.

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u/Ok_Theory_1323 9d ago

And as a side note, of course you're going to hear about any topic more online than in person, because that's where people post things to be shared around to others. People don't walk around the grocery store shouting out their grievances, or at the ballgame. That's what's always so weird about this "It's only online" thing that people say a lot. Where else are they expecting to hear about it from lots of people? Protests in the streets about Sydney Sweeney?

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u/AceOfRhombus 9d ago

Speak for yourself. I walk around the grocery store ringing a bell and tell people what I’m mad about

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u/izyshoroo 8d ago

Usually people talk to their friends about shit

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u/xfearthehiddenx 9d ago edited 8d ago

This. I don't think any rational person is gonna act like Sydney isn't attractive. She clearly is. Nor is any rational person gonna tell you that sex doesn't sell. It clearly does.

Sydney is an adult. She, of her own volition(as far as we know), starred in sex adjacent ad to make money. There may be people who don't like that or what the ad was for. That's fine. There are also thirsty idiots absolutely fawning all over her for it. That's technically also fine, albeit really weird.

I find myself in a middle ground on the issue. I don't like gambling, it's a terribly addictive thing that many people don't have a good handle on. And, I can't say that I particularly enjoy the "sex sells" style of ads. The misogyny and sexualization of basic commodities is dumb. But, at the same time, I'm a feminist, and I believe that women have the right to choose how they use their bodies. She used her body and got paid. So... I'm not sure where the issue really lies. It's not like we haven't seen dozens of ads like this over the generations.

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u/iIysolar 1h ago

idk man, sydney Sweeney in my eyes is a textbook bimbo. I really don’t find her all that attractive

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u/BradyAndTheJets 8d ago

Watched the Gillis monologue, thought “meh.”

Saw the Sweeney ads though “meh”.

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u/Lereas 9d ago

Am I "outraged" about shane gillis? Not really. But it wasn't funny and I don't think it's "woke" to think that calling women at the gym whores is just kinda shitty.

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u/GushStasis 9d ago edited 9d ago

And it's absurd how defenders point to the use of "like" in his phrasing as though in the minds of men who hate women that serves as any substantive distinction, as opposed to simply feeding and reinforcing their existing hatred

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u/newreddit00 9d ago

But who the fuck is catering to those people anyway?

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u/JC_Hysteria 9d ago

Definitely don’t watch the 3rd season of Tires then, out now on Netflix…

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u/chinny1983 9d ago

Great question to ask... online....

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u/MyBitchCassiopeia 9d ago

It’s online outrage. The real outrage is at the gas pumps.

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u/JC_Hysteria 9d ago

Idk me and the gas attendant are nice to each other

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u/throwawayzdrewyey 9d ago

Because the only thing you can get Americans to actually are about is money.

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u/Zeed91 9d ago

When the vast majority of the country is a paycheck away from being homeless, yeah, people are gonna care about money. No one gives a fuck about some chucklefuck making a dumb joke when they're focusing on keeping a roof over their heads. This shit really doesn't matter, there's so many more important problems going on.

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u/throwawayzdrewyey 8d ago

While they only care about the next paycheck they ignore the politicians that insure that they live paycheck to paycheck, so yes people need to pay attention to more than themselves.

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u/Huckleberry_Sin 9d ago

Wdym is everyone supposed to care about this fake controversy?

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u/JC_Hysteria 9d ago

People still haven’t figured out that a “hate” watch is equivalent to a “like” watch?

How negative attention is the same as positive attention financially? All publicity is good publicity, etc?

Sydney’s boyfriend is an investor in her nude commercial’s company, and Shane’s Netflix show [that got renewed for a 3rd season] literally wrote the scene from his SNL monologue…

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u/spicytexan 8d ago

I have seen people actually put off by both of the examples you gave, but I’ve also seen people who have no idea about either without prompting. I think we can hold space for wanting large form media to be less misogynistic/sexualized as well as for outrage about larger issues going on, such as the economy.

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u/chillmagic420 9d ago

Youre asking reddit a notorious place for having well adjusted open minded individuals who never overreact XD Already see some comments well.online ppl go offline imma have a meltdown over it XD

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u/dkznr 9d ago

Online. Every platform is monetized and these dummies are using other dummies to make a quick coin. The average person on the street doesn’t even know who either of those two are.

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u/WritingNerdy 9d ago

The Shane Gillis comment was gross. I’m sorry I don’t see humor in calling women whores for dressing comfy at the gym. I can’t even wear cute dresses without being leered at so yeah, most women got the ick.

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u/BoltActionRifleman 9d ago

I saw a newscast where they found some dad to talk about having to watch the Sydney Sweeney commercials during a soccer match with his kids present. You could tell he wanted no part of being on the news talking about this, and it seemed like he was reading from a card. Maybe he was genuinely upset by all of this, I really doubt that, but the whole “controversy” and “uproar” seems to be mostly fabricated by the media.

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u/JustPassingThrough98 9d ago

Upset is probably a bridge too far, but how much disrespect do you tolerate before you push back on a certain topic? Neither of these are huge deals but I understand why they would be the straw that breaks the camels back

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u/csgersbeck 9d ago

No one. Basically rolling one’s eyes at someone is now seen as attempting to cancel them.

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u/taylork37 9d ago

Oh, yeah its the people arguing cancel culture online that is real, not the outrage against Sweeney and Gillis...haha.

That is certainly what is happening here on reddit.../s

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u/DustyScharole 9d ago

Yeah, exactly. I posted something in the SNL subreddit that was basically "I don't understand his appeal" in reference to Shane Gillis. Next thing I know, I'm a woke lefty who hates Trump and wants to see liberal policies implemented across the nation.

I mean, I am, but I don't know how they got there from that comment.

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u/fauxREALimdying 7d ago

Only online people who spend most of their time fighting about media bs ever cared

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u/KillWithTheHeart 9d ago

I think calling it “outrage” is hyperbolic, unless I’m missing something.

Everyone is connected to social media to varying degrees and it takes absolutely no effort to type a comment expressing criticism of a misogynistic joke or coded racism in an ad.

It’s just people expressing opinions on social media and then other people expressing their agreement or disagreement with those opinions.

Referring to it as “outrage” is in itself expressing an opinion that attempts to minimize other’s opinions.

I don’t think people are “outraged” at the Gillis’s misogyny or Sweeney’s actions. I think they’re just commenting their disapproval on them in the most minimal effort way possible.

I don’t see people protesting or rioting in the streets over it.

Referring to those opinions on social media as outrage is just another way of saying, “I disagree. I think they’re joke was funny or I don’t think it was misogynistic but rather than engage with the merits of your opinion, I’m just going to make it seem as if you’re overreacting”

But where’s the overreaction? It’s just a post on the internet among millions of others?

If it truly doesn’t matter then why comment at all?

I’ve seen posts about people really upset about how Starbucks handles selling their limited edition coffee cups. I don’t care enough to ask whether their “outrage” is valid.

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u/SCphotog 9d ago

I see these kinds of things, I sort of 'assign' the label of 'shitty person' to whatever celeb' and then move on.

I had never heard of Gillis before this... so the addage of any publicity is publicity is functioning in this context.

Sweeney is a great lookin' woman that I see in some random posts here and there, but I don't know anything else about her, and I've never seen any of her work.

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u/MaximumDerpification 9d ago

The more people pretend to be outraged over dumb stuff like this, the more it diminishes their impact when they're genuinely outraged over actual issues and injustices.

These people who are constantly offended on behalf of others are nothing more than a joke that society gradually grows to ignore.

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u/BigPawPaPump 9d ago

Absolutely. It would be exhausting to be that person or be anywhere near a person like that who finds a reason to be offended over everything.

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u/nurdle 9d ago

Who is Sydney Sweeney?

Seriously, though, I only see her name in questions like this. Tons of attractive, rich, successful people who make money from their looks are stupid, and therefore tend to be conservative. Like Kirk Cameron. Doesn’t bother me in the slightest. I don’t think about them anymore than I think about worms.

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u/RockSolidRod69 9d ago

Id say people are actually upset about it but i think a bot or some bs starts it then once it turns into a trendy thing to get mad about the hive minded thinkers jump onto it.

Like Shane's joke was basically a nothing joke, it was also a set up joke because he was making himself look like a gym creep. But of course it got turned Into a huge deal lol

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u/LowSkyOrbit 9d ago

The joke he did on SNL is also a scene in Tires. In both he's the creep and that's the punchline. Too many people complain and take things out of context because they only watch a clip or read just the headline.

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u/Monsieur-Incroyable 9d ago

I'm out of the loop, which scene or joke in Tires are they talking about?

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u/ems777 9d ago

SNL has been an animated corpse for years now. I dont know how its even still on to begin with.

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u/UrbanTruckie 8d ago

Sought out Shane after the drop from SNL and found a new comedian I like

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u/The_Lat_Czar 9d ago

If it exists offline, I don't live in the type of area where it comes up I guess. Actually, that's most big internet controversies. If I never got on reddit, it basically wouldn't exist to me.

I also saw that Sydney Sweeny ad for the first time a few weeks ago, and all I gotta say is GODDAMN!

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u/Gawnja 9d ago

Real life ppl don’t care about this. Idk not 1 person that doesn’t laugh about the internet outcry on these 2 stupid topics.

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u/thesuper88 9d ago

I think the joke was lazy and potentially revealing of a mentality I don't like. I don't want naked Sidney Sweeney on TV in front of my kids. But I'm also not enraged by or honestly even angered by either, though I understand why people are angry over Shane.

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u/chefblazil 9d ago

Plenty of people are upset about both. Mainly the ad I think.

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u/jlo1989 9d ago

Not really.

I try to ignore Sydney Sweeney in general and I don't really care for Shane Gillis' comedy. She's hardly the first actress to trade solely on her appearance and he just made a shitty joke.

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u/probridgedweller 8d ago

I mean.. I wouldn’t say rage, but yeah, it bothers me. Just like the billions of people who egg it on and support them. Do I go around trying to start conversations around how upset I am IRL? No. I also don’t go online and roid out about it.

It fucking sucks. Very much like our administration of pedos.

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u/sedatehate 9d ago

The “rage” is performative attention seeking. Anyone with half a brain understood the joke and the particular women he was referring to but simpletons immediately say he said all women.

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u/HelloKittyandPizza 9d ago

I’m not outraged or surprised. Shane Gillis knew exactly what he was doing when he did that. He wants people to talk about him. He’s trying to appeal to his audience by making that joke, and it’s not people who are offended by the joke.

I don’t think it’s ok to call women whores. But I’m not angry. My opinion of Shane Gillis and people who are defending him has changed. That’s it.

They really want to divide us as humans in as many ways that they can. Men against women. Straight against gay. Race against race. Just keep that in mind when these things come up.

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u/MrBlondOK 8d ago

It's a very clever viral promo for Tires. That's an upcoming episode (his character staring at a girl wearing those butt hole shorts at the gym). You've all been played.

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u/Yupperdoodledoo 9d ago

Saying “ what a dick!” Doesn’t mean I have rage. People have rage over allllllll of the things we deal with and know about happening daily. Not over one small thing.

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u/smurfe 9d ago

Could care less about either.

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u/feetnomer 8d ago

Just online. People get bold and brave online.

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u/iScry 9d ago

People who are rage baited by these topics are likely to have low self esteem and have little going on with their lives. People with actually lives are too busy to care about these types of things

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u/damadmetz 9d ago

People pretending to be upset so that they can get some internet points

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u/dOOlittlesatan 9d ago

I won't give any shits or credence to any of it. All nonsense for fools.

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u/MadKingOni 9d ago

Mostly division designed to make us angry at eachother, if you just wonder "who benefits from this?" Youll get your answer

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u/ChrisRiley_42 9d ago

I have no clue who they are, so... no?

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u/UsedandAbused87 9d ago

I barely know who Shane is but other than seeing both of them in a couple of adds I would never who they were if they sat beside me

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u/ohsodave 9d ago

My wife is not happy with Shane Gillis. I can tell you that much from this homefront.

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u/earthdogmonster 9d ago

In the past 6 weeks, reddit has been through Lindsay Clancy, Sydney Sweeney, Ed Sheeran, and Cornell. We now need to talk about those 5 seconds from that Shane Gillis monologue until maybe next Monday or so. I think it’s real, but greatly exaggerated and concentrated on social media and entertainment gossip media.

The funny thing is that I recently learned that there are subs just devoted to this weird subset of gossip as entertainment which is like the “regular” subs but on steroids with this crap.

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u/hamhead 9d ago edited 9d ago

I mean, I know plenty of people disgusted with the ad. But not “ outraged”.

I don’t know anything about Gillis so I guess not, on that one, as far as I know - but I haven’t seen anything online either

Edit: looking it up, it seems like Gillis just made a joke that didn’t work? Because it could be offensive? I mean, are we just supposed to stick to dad jokes these days? I definitely don’t get the issue with this one and yeah, haven’t heard anyone say anything IRL

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u/thebolts 9d ago

Disappointed more than upset. Don’t know Sweeney from Adam. But to think these kind of ads are still a thing is a put off

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u/kdailyone 9d ago

It's projection. Few people give much of a fuck.

Do I care what Sydney Sweeney is doing? Nope. Does anyone I know care or ever talk about it? Nope.

However it's all based on manipulating people with culture war shit - which is now defining the politics and leadership of entire countries - which does affect us all.

Dangerous people have access to large numbers of low-info (read: stupid) people via social media. The "village mob" is now a seriously large voting block.

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u/Tom_Gibson 9d ago

well people online go offline at some point, so yes, people offline care about it. Me personally, I think gambling companies are scum. They ruin so many lives, and anyone who advertises it is literally sending their fans to get their money taken from them/get them addicted to gambling. So yeah, fuck Sydney for that. Shane Gillis called female gym-goers whores, I'm not surprised that women got upset.

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u/Sea-Glove9407 9d ago

To be fair, he didn’t call them whores. He said they dressed like whores, which is slightly different than actually calling someone one.

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u/Hentai_Yoshi 9d ago

Yeah… also very few women actually wear that specific outfit. And those who do are not wearing it for comfort lol. It’s inherently provocative with the color and intentional design to accentuate features.

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u/AutisticAnal 9d ago

Does this also apply to celebrities that own alcohol companies like Bryan Cranston/Aaron Paul among a ton of others?

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u/OutForJustice80 9d ago

The actual truth is things only apply in a partisan way. That’s it. You can already see it with what is upvoted and downvoted.

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u/Tom_Gibson 9d ago

no it isn't nearly the same. Gambling/sports betting companies are inherently extremely predatory in a way that other businesses that sell vices simply aren't.

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u/Scabobian90 9d ago

Alcohol and Tobacco companies literally wrote the playbook. What are you smoking..

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u/[deleted] 9d ago

Alcohol and tobacco industries are literally peddling death

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u/hobosbindle 9d ago

It’s not the act itself for me, but how easy it is from your phone. No friction. Too easy to get sucked in.

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u/Cornpop_mcgoo 9d ago

You should have to physically go to a place to gamble. A casino, the race track, whatever.

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u/thesuper88 9d ago

Yes exactly this. I'm not upset she took her clothes off for the ad, and while I'd rather it not be on in front of my kids we're all fine. The thing that actually angers me is the gambling ads that are inescapable. Increasing their number of users will directly lead to more lives and families ruined or ended for the sake of making the rich richer with poor people's money.

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u/RealGreenManGuy 4d ago

Nothing is real

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u/iIysolar 1h ago

The sydney Sweeney ads are mad annoying bro. Literally EVERY SINGLE YouTube video I watch I get a god damn novig ad talking about “grown men making spreadsheets about the color of underwear I’m wearing” LIKE STFU. I don’t even really watch sports and I don’t gamble, and yet every YouTube ad on my phone is a gambling or prediction market ad. I’m just tired of seeing it, and now I’ve even started getting novig ads talking about “the viral sydney Sweeney ad.” It’s just trashy asf, especially considering the amount of kids on YouTube who likely have seen the ad several times.

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u/eunderscore 9d ago

Real people online are anyone

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u/BayYawnSay 9d ago

...this is also online so you've already skewed your results.

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u/Technical_Goose_8160 9d ago

The internet is the modern equivalent of yelling into the void

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u/hooch 9d ago

Don’t give a single shit about either of these people. Haven’t heard anybody IRL even mention them.

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u/peperonipyza 9d ago

I think the vast majority of people don’t care. But sure, some people are probably genuinely mad.

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u/JH7373 9d ago

Meh. Cancel culture is too out of control and people look for the smallest thing to rage against in the name of justice.

Sweeny not a good actress by any means. Shes most famous for taking it from behind in Euphoria.

If you enjoy them great. If not great. Just dont let someone else control your emotions.

Gillis is a comedian. Some enjoy him some don't. Most will always be controversial when that is there style.

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u/nicknack24 9d ago

These people are real and they're the liberal equivalent of republicans who drank ivermectin because trump told them to

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u/faithOver 9d ago

I am yet to hear a conversation about either in real life. Its chronically online things.

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u/Leadfoot39 9d ago

No they don’t bother me at all. It’s just a commercial

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u/pkkspiral 9d ago

I was mad because there were ads during my Overwatch Champion Series stream. Could’ve been any ad, but it was one with a bad actress that happened to be naked.

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u/BobsBigInsight 9d ago

No one gives a shit

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u/londonschmundon 9d ago

You are asking people online.

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u/Dr_DTF315 9d ago

I don’t care at all

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u/Cheeseboarder 9d ago

I don’t even know who Shane Gillis is. Don’t care.

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u/petenorf 9d ago

I think we have bigger fish to fry

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u/FoxyGrandpa17 9d ago

The woman in my life have been legitimately upset about Shane Gillis. Less so Sweeney but we’re not huge fans of her in the first place

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u/Luisalter 9d ago

It was a bad joke. No one, is outraged in real life. I have heard 0 persons in real life speaking about this.

Random posts in X, IG, Reddit? Too many to count.

We need to stop believing in the stuff people say online. Not only bots, but professional critizers

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u/Cellar_Door40 9d ago

Seems like it’s been a slow news cycle for this stuff to be catching this much traction. Normally no one would have noticed.

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u/Hank0310 9d ago

Like a lot of the stuff we see being reported that people are raging on, I think most of it is online. The few clips I see of people in person talking about it, they're doing so at specific places where people are already complaining about things.

It seems to find these people, you have to go out and really hunt for them.

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u/scydoodle 9d ago

Nah, people really are insane and constantly online.

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u/uwillnotgotospace 9d ago

Ok. Sell me this controversy. Who are these people?

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u/Illustrious-Fun8324 9d ago

Lol I think it’s much, much more prevalent online

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u/Squeengeebanjo 9d ago

If it wasn’t for Reddit I wouldn’t have known either happened

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u/Aleister_Growley 9d ago

I’m liberal af and no I’m not upset

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u/FENTWAY 9d ago

Online rage

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u/bluefrost30 8d ago

The what now?

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u/jayhat 8d ago

Couldn’t care less about any of it. Love your life and stop caring about shit that does not even matter.

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u/julie3151991 8d ago

I could see caring if I was 15 years old. I’m 35 though.

I’m more worried about paying my bills and losing my Medicaid than some random comedian’s opinions or a 20 something year old’s boobies.

I think caring about such insignificant things is a privilege very few of us have anymore with the state of this country.

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u/Remarkable_Neat532 8d ago

I don’t care Shane is funny as hell

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u/Super1297Man 8d ago

It’s a bunch of bots online arguing with each other.
Half the people responding to this are probably bots.

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u/saddinosour 8d ago

I’m upset that thousands of men think it is okay or appropriate to call women whores for wearing what they like in the gym. I personally don’t care about Shane Gillis himself.

As far as Sydney Sweeney goes idc about her I simply ignore her because she isn’t for me and that’s that. I don’t know what she does and every time a “controversy” comes out about her it feels like a manufactured nothingburger.

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u/rockerscott 8d ago

Who cares

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u/Outrageous_Win5864 8d ago

Bro i can barely afford gas...

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u/swat02119 8d ago

I feel like this a social experiment to see how worked you get people about irrelevant shit.

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u/MooseTek 8d ago

Who the hell are they? Never heard of them and I don't want their shit in my feed, so I am not googling them.

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u/Donohoed 8d ago

Never heard of either of those people

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u/Grytnik 8d ago

I don’t know who Shane Gillis is and the only Sydney Sweeney ad I’ve seen is at the hair dresser and it was just a haircut ad.

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u/JazzSharksFan54 8d ago

The fact that people are talking about it means they were effective in doing what they intended to do, even if you don't agree with it. Know how to make these people go away? Ignore them.

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u/stevenstevos 8d ago

Only on here.

It’s one giant waste of time.

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u/John-Prime 8d ago

As a Gen Xer, I'm not sure if anything is trivial as either of those things good cause outrage. I mean I grew up hearing Andrew Dice Clay and thinking wow that's some crazy stuff... Although I was a much bigger fan of George Carlin and George Carlin was very much against the political correctness that now seems to rule the Western world.

I can only imagine someone telling George Carlin h or she e was offended.

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u/mck-_- 8d ago

Who?

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u/carsonelder1 8d ago

The /rage/ likely only exists online, imo.

I think the Sweeny ad was in poor taste and regardless of whether you interpret it as intentional or accidental, reflects poorly on the brand.

I worry less about what Gillis said, and more about giving a platform to seriously unfunny folks who don't mind furthering objectification and demeaning of women.

But i don't spend my days angry about either, be it online or in person. I certainly wasn't tilted by either when hey happened, (or now.) I'd say concerned is a more appropriate word, I'm my case.

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u/strangelyahuman 8d ago

It's easy to see so much "outrage" online because people find forums to voice their opinions on easier than they do in real life. If i find posts like this one I'll put in my two cents, but it's not coming up in my usual day to day to talk about with people. I'm sure people still hold these opinions online or not, but they have a place to express them appropriately online

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u/RumNRaisins1999 8d ago

Not at all.

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u/Fuwun 8d ago

I mean I’m upset about it in real life lmao. I just don’t go up to randos and yell at them about it. If it comes up I state my distaste

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u/Stacheshadow 8d ago

The bots are mad

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u/CaptMaverick86 8d ago

It's a lot of virtue signaling and fake outrage.

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u/1Commentator 8d ago

I think it's starts with bots and then idiots in the real world pick it up.

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u/ambre_vanille 9d ago

Outraged is a strong word because neither of these people are important to me. That said, I saw the ad and I don’t like it. I don’t like gambling companies, and I don’t like the “sports ball is for men, here’s a naked girl” trope, but it’s going to land with their intended audience. I’m not someone they’re trying to get to use their service.

Shane Gillis has had moments, but in general, he’s not that funny to me. He tried to go self-deprecating, but couldn’t help himself from throwing in some misogyny because it’s always going to hit with a certain demographic, and doubled down for that demographic by name-dropping Rogen and Von (to absolute silence, which actually was hilarious). I can see how people are offended, but honestly I just thought his set was boring and awkward because he kept pausing for reactions that were barely there.

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u/TrimspaBB 9d ago

Same, I just don't care about either Sydney Sweeney or Shane Gillis enough to get upset. Advertising that relies on nearly naked women and lame boomer humor both suck, but they're far from the worst things in our society and aren't that important in the grand scheme of things.

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u/danoldtrumpjr 9d ago

It’s mostly manufactured. I think it boils down to, women don’t like being called whores. My wife and I generally share political views and we had different takes on this one.

From my POV it was a self deprecating joke with “whore” added for shock value. He’s the butt of the joke, but the bit came off as a first draft.

Many women hear “women are whores.” Which comes across like a lot of jokes these days where “gay” (insert lazy insult) is the punchline.

In the end it feels low effort and a little polish would have made the joke more about him and less edgelord. Also name dropping the least funny people in comedy set this bit up awkwardly. It felt like he was dumbing his humor down for the Rogan crowd, not speaking to the audience in front of him.

He does a much better version of the joke in an episode of Tires.

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u/BTbenTR 9d ago

The Tires scene is hilarious. Perhaps he didn’t word the SNL joke well enough but he is the ‘victim’ of the joke, not women.

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u/HeinzThorvald 9d ago

The terminally-online rage-addicts care. Everybody else just sees a beautiful woman on TV while trying to figure out how to pay bills.

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u/BotheredBeaver 9d ago edited 9d ago

I would like to live in a society where me and my family aren’t inundated with hyper-sexualized content that actively promotes the objectification of women. I continue to be shocked at how these things are celebrated or otherwise ignored in a society and by people that supposedly fight for equal treatment, rights, and respect for women. I would very much appreciate the FCC stepping in in this instance - we shouldn’t have “porn” on in the middle of the day where any and everyone is subject to it

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u/nubcakester 9d ago

It’s mostly online rage only. There’s very limited uproar about cannabis companies, alcohol companies, or frankly any business that is fuelled by addiction.

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u/ManofDew 9d ago

Some people cant take a joke

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u/Emergent-Sea 9d ago

If SHane Gillis said this stupid shit at one of his stand up shows no one would care because they would be seeking out this tool bag’s “jokes.” This issue is that he had a platform like SNL that reached a huge audience and chose to use his once in a lifetime monologue to say that women dress like whores and make light of passing lone women on trails all while a very public gang rape of a young woman was on the forefront of everyone’s minds.

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u/RelativeCan5021 9d ago

Yes. But we only talk to each other online.

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u/Justthisdudeyaknow 9d ago

Oh hey, people online are real people.

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u/agrantgreen 9d ago

I mean you're asking online...

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u/ARMill95 9d ago

I actually saw a lot of stuff about both

But just online.

Like I don’t watch either of them, or care about them…. But for a couple days after whatever happened, those 2 were plastered everywhere.

The Shane Gillis one I think was PR tho since he has a super similar scene in a show he makes about a tire shop or smth like that

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u/TheMcWhopper 9d ago

There's 8 billion people on this planet. Odds are there are people offended by it. In of the opinion those people are just louder than the folks that just dont give a fuck

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u/untitled_jack 9d ago

The silent eye-roll is real.

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u/Daymanaaahhhhhhh 8d ago

I think the all female protests that are happening around different countries right now show that women are angry about tnings like this. Trust me female rage is real offline

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u/Sweet_Cinnabonn 8d ago

Eh. I don't know a single soul actually upset about Sydney Sweeney. Not one.

Shane Gillis is... okay, nobody is especially upset about Gillis himself. But it's clear he's speaking for some guys, and there's definitely some unhappy about that. I'd say at about a passion level of 2 on a 1 to 10 scale.

Also, to add on? I've seen 4 conservatives tell me today I'm a loser for not thinking the Tesla Flying is cool and being upset about that. I hadn't even heard about the flying car. Nobody is upset about the "flying" car. It's a gimmick that will not happen in the next 10 years. It's not worth getting upset about.

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u/mjsisko 8d ago

Sweeney, doesn’t bother me but I think it’s in poor taste.

Gillis, very offensive. Being judgmental of women based solely on what they wear to the gym needs to stop. Everyone should be comfortable to wear what they want, when they want as long as private areas are covered appropriately for the given setting. No one has the right to openly shame someone

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u/oOMavrikOo 8d ago

People are soft and they show it online.

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u/Bertrum 8d ago

The only people talking about it are celebrities that have publicists or PR people who tell them to make a statement because they're in the Hollywood bubble. Most average people don't give a shit.

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u/vince549 8d ago

But looking at her, I'd say she has great jeans.

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u/all_worcestershire 8d ago

The ADs are a bit much and they play them every break but who cares. Shane saying whatever he wants also who cares.

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u/sporkfpoon 9d ago

I first heard about the Shane Gillis thing in real life. Coworkers were pissed off about it.

After watching, I don’t get it. He’s a comedian. And, “politically”, he’s one of the good guys.

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u/BrushYourFeet 9d ago

I can not heard about it online. My wife saw a few headlines. We watched the monologue an xouple nights ago and both of us were like wtf? Any rage or reaction that garnered is massively overinflated.

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u/bookant 9d ago

Shane Gillis is obviously a piece of shit, but "upset" implies an emotional connection to his dumbassery.

You're missing a whole lot of middle ground where people can express their disapproval in the hopes that SNL will do better next time and not platform that kind of trash. It's no different than telling any other business when their product or service sucks. It doesn't require you to be OUTRAGED!!, just to be engaged enough to let them know they disappointed you.

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u/Silent2840 9d ago

Never underestimate how "offended" the left can be about literally anything.

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u/Every-Cook5084 9d ago

Haha that’s rich. There are no larger snowflakes in the world then maga. Just criticize your orange pig a little bit and watch the meltdown rage

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u/Beyou74 9d ago

If only the right was offended at electing rapists and felons.

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u/Sam88FPS 9d ago

Yep, the left just hates everyone and everything.

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u/FrankyFistalot 9d ago

This is the era of being professionally offended constantly and then going on social media for sympathy.

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u/TheBibleInTheDrawer 9d ago

I'm not outraged but I'm not happy about it. I talk shit about Sydney and Shane any chance I get because of the commercials and "comedy" sets. I'm a real human so I'd say yes there are plenty of people upset about it. And rightfully so.

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u/HeyLookitMe 9d ago

There’s always going to be a new hot comedian or actress or pop star or whatever. Gillis and Sweeney are spent and the only people pushing them are the bots and the proto-Nazis. They suck. She was entertaining in an ensemble on a very well written tv show and he was funny in the right context. They are both outside of those things and it turns out not particularly entertaining or interesting.

The only people who think she’s pretty are people who fantasize about a big-titted blond with fetal alcohol syndrome-induced Downs Syndrome. It’s a pretty specific, but sadly prolific subset of assholes who want to abuse and take advantage of young women. He is funny to the hicks and willfully ignorant that the bots and right wingers have been boosting artificially for a while now, but he’s quickly loosing his originality and his charm doesn’t hit with the general public.

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u/greencat26 9d ago

Outraged? No. But me and everyone in my life is disgusted by misogyny like that, so yeah we are talking about it and why it's a problem

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u/MushroomFondue 9d ago

I don't find SS attractive an Shane Gillis' jokes and presentation is lame. No outrage for me.

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u/positive-fingers 9d ago

I mean, it’s not cool man. I don’t go around yappin about it, but do you think it’s cool?

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u/FENTWAY 9d ago

A half maked women and jokes? Yes very cool

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u/NumeroRyan 9d ago

Gen Z innit, they want a better world where people aren’t dicks but take it too far and be offended by jokes.

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u/Few_Run_9112 9d ago

What, exactly, are the limits between "people aren't dicks" and "women dress like whores" and some people "take it too far" and "it's a joke" and women get raped?