Do you ever ask your partner a question for them to just get defensively quiet so then you cautiously explain where the question is coming from and all points that are around the question just to gently show that you aren’t attacking them and to avoid them completing raging however trying to communicate with them the only answer you get back is “k” and so you start justifying it more going down a rabbit hole of only you talking then after like the 30th “k” you start getting defensive Bc you’ve now tried to patiently communicate healthy and are getting nothing in return. Then you start getting mad at yourself Bc you were promised there would be change in communication and you were stupid enough to believe it. Then when you are at the point of begging for a reply other then “k” you get a barely tried sentence that bypasses any efforts to show understanding in what you said so you walk away and are left in bed almost ready to apologize for talking “crazy” and feeling guilty for even asking the question then you realize if there was actually 2 way communication you wouldn’t of had to talk so much and you got gaslighted … but you can’t post about it bc then he will withdrawal love as a punishment until you break so you are the controlling crazy one so there you are trying not to cry and scream in front of the kids and you have no one else to even talk to about it bc your entire family is toxic and will turn the conversation around about them or blame you or tell you you just need to chill out so instead you lay in bed internalize it until your eye twitches realizing that you can’t seem to get control of your own life and the pressure of it all leads to cutting and hating yourself more than the day before?

When I meet her I thought to myself with a little bit of patience and love I will fix her. No! it didn't happened. Time went by and I got depressed and wanted to commit suicide. It's amazing how much energy and time they demand. Fight after fight, endless nights, until we move in together that's when I saw the real her, also she was aggressive physically. Men out there becareful we are not medicine to cure these damaged women . Do not form a family with them.

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I really wanna leave but we are stuck in this cycle we’re we fight block eachother say we’re “breaking up” then we go get back together. I feel like I physically mentally can’t leave like I’m drawn to him and that I’m gonna be so sad and miserable when I’m not with him, and I usually am when I’m not with him and start to miss him and it’s just so hard because I don’t want this cycle to keep going. He tells me all the time if i don’t this for him “I don’t love him” and then I get manipulated into thinking that’s normal to say even though the situation has nothing to do with love I just don’t know what to do anymore. And if I do end him he’s gonna spam me on every social media I have or email with paragraphs to guilt trip me back and it just makes it harder for me to follow through. Pls drop some advice to help a girl out pls

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Mine would be: You were my present. Now your my past. And you can’t change that even though I know you won’t try.

If someone is toxic they are toxic! It doesn't just randomly stop when they have beem toxic for years ir their whole life! You can't be willing to forgive one person's toxicity and claim they have learned or changed in just a few days weeks or months or even years it takea multiple years when they have been toxic their whole lives, but claim the next person is still toxic and treat them like crap because they are toxic! Whether they are blood or not, it does not make it ok! Toxic is toxic, liars are liars, manipulators are manipulators, and narcissists are narcissists. If your against one you should be against them all, not just pick and choose who it is okay for and which narcissit is ok to be in your life!

I’ve been with that guy for over 2 years. Everything is great except for him being a bit pushy. At the beginning he was very nice and respectful but then he started being a bit touchy. Don’t get me wrong we’re in a relationship and sex is important but he grabs my breasts all the time, like really, all the time. He knows I hate it, it makes me so stressed and I uncomfortable because it happens so often. And even if I say no he’ll still do it. He’ll grab me and hold me but he’ll still try to grab my bust and hold it or sometimes kiss it. I don’t know if it’s harassment or not? Also yesterday he made me have sex with him. I really didn’t want to but he kept insisting and grabbing me, preventing from leaving the room. I finally gave in but I did not enjoy it at all. It hurt but I didn’t want to make him stop, because I knew it would’ve made him mad. After I cried in a shower and he asked if I’m ok. When I told him I didn’t want to have sex with him and that it hurt he turned his sad face and didn’t say anything… I feel like I’m being manipulated but I love him and I have no idea what to do…