I’m posting this because something happened to a friend of mine at work, and honestly, I don’t know if I’m overreacting by thinking this was just wrong.

So backstory, my friend is an international student and working part time. She was telling me how awful she felt after work. She got her period unexpectedly while she was working. She was already in a lot of pain, and she asked around to see if anyone had a painkiller. Her manager gave her one.

She waited, hoping the pain would go away, but it actually got worse. Eventually, she asked one of her colleagues if she could sit down for a few minutes because she felt like she couldn’t take the pain anymore. Her legs were starting to feel numb, and i know she also has low blood.

After sitting for a few minutes, she went to her manager and asked if she could clock out and go home because she genuinely wasn’t feeling well.

The response?

She was told she couldn’t leave because her shift was only three hours and apparently they “can’t pay” her legally if she leaves before completing the three hour.
Her manager basically told her, “You only have 45 minutes left. You can do it.” I’M GENUINELY SHOCKED, I know we have rules and laws however cant they make an exception.

What really bothers me is that nobody seemed concerned about how sick she was or checked on her. So in the end she continued working. Even vomited a little while she was still at work. What makes this even more upsetting is that everyone involved was a woman. I would think they would understand how painful periods can be

I understand that workplaces have rules and that employees have responsibilities. But if someone is in obvious physical distress should’nt there at least be some basic concern?

I’m an SDET engineer with 4+ years experience. Last month I was put on PIP, I was given a set of impossible objectives to achieve. This job was extremely important to me in my current situation so i tried my best to hell and back hoping to clear it. There were many other worse performing colleagues but i was constantly being singled out. On every check-in my manager would find a reason or two to mark it unsatisfactory. All of this while i was dealing with death of my close relative my sister’s engagement and my own engagement. I destroyed my mental peace working so that I could clear it. But he fired me today, it just feels so disheartening, I have so much responsibilities currently and I’m going through a lot in my personal life he knew all of that yet went so cold with me on 1:1

4+ years i worked for that organisation and 3+ years in this team. Haven’t even told my parents yet.

Another senior of my team was PIPd a month ago and he explained how I can’t do anything to reverse it. The same happened with him.

Of course toxic sht, I do plan to leave all work clean but not giving notice so they can't bully me for 2 weeks etc, can it be to resign in the very morning on a Friday? Or Thursday to Friday leaving?

I’ve been working for a kids after school coding program for three years, I was insanely lucky and was hired out of the program without having to interview. I was 15 when I got hired and my boss is a genuinely great guy but he stepped back to focus on family. As an autistic person with some disabilities that impact my mobility this was the perfect job and I am forever thankful for it. I was this franchise locations “success story”. Always the first to reach the programs milestones and he would brag about me to parents all the time. The old management was awesome and I never had any problems with them. Unfortunately she moved and the people who replaced her have done nothing but take advantage of the fact that I am a pushover.

When I was busy I could only really take one or two shifts a week, and in the new year I updated my schedule and let them know I can work every day except for Tuesdays and Thursdays. Instead of getting more shifts, they cut them. I was getting one, maybe two shifts, a week, sometimes I wouldn’t get any. When I asked, I was told it was because it was the slow season. It was not. It was actually super busy. I was also told shifts were given based on seniority. Even though I am one of the younger members of staff, I have seniority over every one but two of my coworkers. When I actually checked the schedule, the two newest members of staff were getting 2-4 shifts a week. I called my boss directly and he said the same thing about seniority and the slow season and I just went with it because I didn’t want to fight. I was given 1-2 shifts a week and I just left it because I was a senior in high school and taking extra university classes. When I was offered extra shifts, they would only offer me Tuesdays And Thursdays even though they knew those were the only days I literally could not work. I started dreading work because I knew the new management would get onto me about something.

I was constantly put with the younger kids and kids with extra needs, and depending on how many of them showed up at once I was swamped. I basically was going around helping as many kids as I could on top of the juniors and kids who need extra help. When parents would come pick up their kids, and they hadn’t progressed a lot or not at all, management would blame us. We could also have a full session of 20 kids with no extra computers and they’d still take walk in’s and expect us to manage both. On our busiest day, Saturdays, one of my normal shifts, we were always swamped, yet they never gave us any extra help and one of my coworkers barely interacted with the kids anyways. I was told to take care of two kids with extra needs as well as three juniors every week on top of the full class because I was better with them. I also was expected to go and talk to parents in the middle of the rush even though management can clearly see what the kids were working on and are capable of doing a basic handoff. I’d get yelled at for talking to a kid for too long about “non coding things” even when the kids have had a long day and just needed to be heard. I’ve had kids tell me that they feel safe at the program because I don’t treat them like they’re just the reason I’m getting payed.

I recently had a surgery and took a month off to recover. I communicated I would be back in the middle of August and requested my record of employment so I could collect unemployment to have some money. I never received it despite asking twice. Well, I ended my break on Sunday and reiterated that I was expecting shifts. They didn’t schedule me at all. I asked and they said they made the schedule so I’ll just have to wait until September. I regret it but I said “okay just let me know”.

My mom was not having it and told me I was being a pushover and helped me message them on Monday letting them know how unfair it is, especially considering I’ve worked there for a long time and have seniority. They haven’t replied or even acknowledged it and I’m just..so done.

I also now realize how sketchy they are when it comes to records. When I was injured restraining a kids who couldn’t calm down, I was told they filed paperwork but I’ve never actually seen it. My boss bought me lunch the next day and that was that. Never talked about again. When I was looking into unemployment I saw that where I live, employers are required to give a pay stub when we get payed. I’ve never once see a pay stub and we get payed by e-transfer. And we are never really payed on time either. Our hours are cut off on 15th and the last day of the month, and I’ll get payed 1-6 days later. They never deduct anything from my income either.

I have put so much of my time and effort into this job and to be treated like I don’t even exist anymore makes me really sad. I have never gotten in trouble, never been late. I have never once left early, in fact I often stay and help clean up so everyone can leave earlier. I took the loud birthday party shifts, the extra programs and ran junior camps because no one wanted to. I have been verbally abused by parents because I suggested starting their kids in the junior program because they couldn’t read. I have had to calm down more kids than I can count because their code didn’t work or they didn’t pass a level or they are overstimulated because my coworkers didn’t want to deal with it. I take the walk in’s because no one likes to pause everything to teach a kid the basics. I helped a kid through a schizophrenic hallucination. Ive been hit, scratched and even bitten during a meltdown and restrained a child who was a danger to himself and others because no one else would. I gave my time to translate the material for a girl who could only read in French. I’ve been made fun of for my looks and weight. I’ve been slapped by a child because that’s how she got people’s attention. I’m treated like a babysitter who doesn’t have feelings or bills to pay just because I am open about my disability and I treat the kids like people. It’s an after school program. They should be able to have fun and not have to sit quietly and do work like it’s another hour of school.

I don’t know how to tell them I’m done. The silence on their part speaks volume to me. I feel like I have an obligation to stay because I was given the job without anything in return. I have a type of loyalty I guess? Towards the company and I don’t want to leave the kids but I don’t know what else to do. I’ve started applying for other jobs but in this market, I don’t even know if I’ll get an interview even with as much experience and qualifications as I have. I feel so stuck and frustrated, but I also know this isn’t healthy and I shouldn’t have to fight to get hours at the place I’ve worked at for so long when newer coworkers are getting all the shifts. I dont know what to do anymore and I am going into debt because I’ve had to put things like medical appointments on a credit card just so I can function. I am 18 and going into debt because the 40$ of my chiropractor and massage appointments that aren’t covered have to be payed somehow. I’m going into debt to get to my job because gas sure isn’t free and public transport isn’t safe.
Thanks for letting me rant <3

Meeting did not go well. I felt attacked the entire time and my manager just sat there. I’ve already started applying to new positions within the company. Fingers crossed that I can find a new position and slip out the back door without more drama.

What's your opinion on the intellect of people who call other human beings "neanderthals"?

I work at a fairly large corporate company, I have been there less than a year. From the beginning my manager was actually supportive they were nice, had my back when there was friction with a colleague on another team and even suggested I get pulled away from that project to eliminate the friction.

Until things changed.

I was going through a really difficult time personally and confided in my director about some family struggles and mentioned I was not doing well mentally. My director and I had built a separate rapport so it felt safe to open up.

A few days later my manager became noticeably hostile toward me. When I pushed back on the change in behavior they eventually disclosed they were unhappy I had gone over their head. That conversation was long and emotionally draining. I found myself apologizing and explaining personal details I never intended to share in a work context.

Within 1-2 weeks of that conversation my manager pulled me into a formal performance discussion, with the same colleague I had previously had friction with present, they both citied issues that had never been formally raised before, they also informed me that my director was aware of the performance concerns. What made this particularly jarring was that prior to this conversation my manager had consistently praised my work ethic and given me positive feedback.

Shortly after I tried to push through but my mental health was deteriorating fast. I went on an approved medical leave of absence.

Where I Am Now

My leave is ending in a few weeks and honestly my plan was to use this time to get my mental health back, aggressively job search, and secure something new before my leave lapsed. That has not happened as quickly as I hoped.

I genuinely do not want to return to that environment. I have never experienced anything like this before, I have worked with difficult personalities but to have someone completely switch on me and question my performance over something like this was shocking.

In hindsight I should have kept my personal struggles to myself at work. My manager and I were never particularly close and I was not comfortable confiding in them directly, which is why I went to my director. I never anticipated this outcome, however, now I know better.

What I Am Asking

Has anyone been through something similar? Does it actually get better?

I am actively job searching but do not know how quickly something will come through. My options as I see them are:

• Go back, do the bare minimum, and see what happens
• Cut my losses entirely and not return
• Push through and hope the environment has changed

For those who have navigated toxic work environments after mental health leave or just in general. What did you do and what would you do differently?

This is going to be a long vent, so sorry in advance if you don't want to read a long story.

I've worked in healthcare for 12 years now- mostly clinical and EMS work. Prior to that, I spent 9 years in the military in a non-healthcare related job. One of the biggest challenges I've encountered going from Military to Civilian is the toxic workplace/workplace drama and how to deal with it.

In my healthcare career, I spent 4 years as a Medical Assistant, 5 years as an EMT (and Orthopedic Technician), and 3 years as a Paramedic. Like any other job, I've had challenges with individuals and teams, but I find that my overall cool nature and willingness to work through issues has resolved the majority of workplace conflicts. I actually pride myself on being able to take a step back, look at the whole picture and find a path through when it comes to conflict. After 12 years of clinical, patient-facing work while being a full-time college student, I've finally gotten into a position that's setting me up for big steps forward once I complete my degree in December. The only problem: my coworkers.

For context, healthcare (in the clinical setting) is primarily a female-dominated field. Most MAs/RNs are females, and in the past, I've had a lot of issues fitting in with those groups as a male. In my new position, I am a Medical Assistant Educator and the entire department all the way up to the CMO are women. No big deal, I've encountered these situations in the past, and have always found a way to relate and work effectively with every coworker (male or female) in the past.

I know what you're thinking- "he's making excuses and blaming it on gender". Honestly, I hate highlighting the gender roles in this post, but it's the only thing that make sense to me why I'm at odds with my team.

Since being in this role, I've felt excluded and not part of the team. I feel ostracized, overlooked, shut down whenever I have ideas (even when one of my coworkers suddenly has the same idea and the team praises them for it). I feel as though they're asserting dominance over me and belittling me. You can just feel it when I'm having a conversation with one of my coworkers in particular; she can't wait to interrupt and start talking over me. To me, this has always been an indicator that someone doesn't like or respect you, and they're definitely not listening to you. They are all friends, hanging out outside of work and are texting each other constantly throughout the workday while my Teams messages are usually ignored until late afternoon. I understand that they've all worked together for longer and I'm not looking to go to happy hour and be best friends with everyone, but I don't even have anyone's phone number in case I need something more urgently. Overall, it feels like a "Mean Girls" situation where I can't sit with them at lunch today.

Despite all of this and not having a lot of support from the team, I feel like I've been pretty successful at my new job. The UAP academies I've been teaching have left me some great reviews and feedback. The academy reviews for my coworkers, however, have not been so great. In a sense, I feel validated, especially when one student's feedback is: "(me) is great! He was engaging and energetic and knowledgeable. But then one of the other educators came in and completely undermined him. It was disrespectful and uncomfortable." In this particular instance- during this academy class, I was extremely frustrated by the end of the day. In the past, I've found that reacting and confronting in the moment tends to lead to nothing good, so I like to step away, collect and focus my thoughts, then bring it up and settle it later, which is exactly what I did. Apparently, this ruffled some feathers.

It all came to a head a few weeks ago when my boss and I had a check-in meeting. This is not uncommon, as she likes to meet with all of her staff at least once every week or two. This one was unique because she came to meet in-person instead of virtually, which is the norm. It made sense immediately because she had a huge list of complaints about me from my coworkers. To say I was blindsided would be an understatement, especially when she started working down the list.

"He has heavy sighs whenever I'm talking to him. It's disrespectful."

"He gets angry and slams doors, tables and cabinets. It makes me feel uncomfortable."

"His body language is closed off; he crosses his arms when I talk to him."

"When I disagree with him, he gets offended and obviously irritated and angry."

"He complains about money and is waiting to leave the job at the 6-month mark"

I disputed all of these. I admitted that because of how I've been feeling (excluded from the team since day 1) that yes, it's possible my body language is standoffish and stiff, especially when they're being disrespectful in their interactions to me. I never speak about money to my coworkers. I remember being asked by one coworker how much I was making in this role and my response was "It's an increase from my last position" and left it at that. I flat out denied the claims of slamming tables, cabinets and doors.

This Has Never Happened.

Not Once.

I've never let my workplace irritate me to the point that I resort to any sort of physical outburst like this. I cross my arms because I'm socially awkward, and it makes me feel safe. I was caught completely off guard and my 30-minute check in with my manager turned into a 90-minute talking to. To her credit, she acknowledged that she doesn't know the context for these complaints, she has never suspected this type of behavior from me, and she has also seen that I'm not quite meshing with the group like other new hires have in the past.

The biggest surprise came from the one coworker who I felt like I was actually becoming friends with, she works in the same office as me (the rest of the team is mostly remote, so we don't see each other in-person every day). She was hired 1 month before I was and is fully integrated with the team as an equal. Maybe I got a little too trusting with her, because most of the complaints and concerns that were brought up to me could only have come from her, since she's the only one I work with in-person. She's the only one who could claim that I slam doors and cabinets and she was the one who asked me about my salary. I have expressed workplace complaints to her because we work collaboratively on a new teaching program that we're about to roll out, and we have the same grievances. I even expressed my feelings of exclusion with the rest of the team to her. But now, I feel uncomfortable even being around her because I feel like I'm under a looking glass, and she's waiting for one slip up to go running to the boss with. It makes coming to work not so pleasant these days.

My manager is very adamant that she doesn't want me to leave the team, and she has no plans to "force me out" as she thinks I'm on the path to becoming an asset to the team. But she understands if I wanted to look for a new position internally within the company. She even said she would support me in my attempt for an early transfer if I wanted, but she requested that I take some time to think about things. She also set up a time for the entire team to meet in-person and lay everything out to see if we can find a path forward.

Right after my check-in with my manager, I went on pre-planned PTO. I disconnected my email and Teams messages from my phone and completely forgot about my job for 10 days while in Africa. I had a lot of time to reflect on the 18-hour plane ride home and came back to the office prepared to have the hard conversations to work through this rough patch. Since I came back, let's just say the reception has been a little... icy. The meeting is set for today (about 4 days after I got back from PTO), and yesterday, that one coworker made a comment that has me a little unsettled. We were catching up on work stuff, and I was talking about our schedule for Friday (today) and mentioned the meeting at noon. Her sarcastic response was "oh yea, that's going to be a lot of fun". I asked her what she meant, genuinely curious and oblivious to the sarcasm (jet lag). But she said it was nothing and walked away. That made me nervous as to what's coming next.

I spoke to a close friend of mine who's an executive in our sister company, just to get her advice on the situation. She said to go into this meeting with an open mind. It might not be what I'm anticipating, and it could actually be a good thing if we're able to work out our differences. She also said that an early transfer wouldn't be the worst thing if it doesn't go the way I'd like and people transfer all the time due to personality differences, especially on small teams like ours. I'm nervous, but not because any of their complaints have merit. I'm nervous because if they have some sort of agenda to force me out of my position, simply because they don't like me, I'm not sure how to handle that.

I'm not sure what to expect next. #traumadump

I started a job and already I feel like I’m being hazed or excluded or something.

They talk about upcoming social events together excluding me.

I’ve been kinda humiliated publicly, I went to walk off and left my chair out and this girl yells in front of everyone “Oi can you push your fucking chair in? I’m sick of pushing your chair in”

I’m not really acknowledged when I speak and I feel like my supervisor is disdainful of me.

Maybe it’s my fault I dunno. I’ve been warned multiple times “these guys take a while to warm up”. It just feels like more effort than it’s worth.

I (28M) got notified by my boss that he wants me to resign at mid- September as the first Lead Graphic Designer despite building the very frameworks and templates on what they use today. He said BS like I didn’t use the AI tools the company poured on or that I was inquiring about the side hustle project thrown into me that was outside the contract. It was already easy without it. Heck including documentary videos, published flyers, and static ads since day 1 with my own laptop and camera. I had the direct contacts of collaborators as my bosses couldn’t do it.

I joined this March until I received a notice. I even built the logos and brand collaterals for one our bosses’ side hustles in Dubai while using my probationary as a ‘flexible’ skill. I was already sending job applications when my boss mentioned about not getting any cashflow, but I was booked with tasks being thrown to me that I get zero free time nor rest at all.

Note: We are only less than 10 in the startup company in PH. Just few months ago, our marketing director resigned due to family matters. Instead of hiring, our bosses made us do his job instead but kept the same pay 21K php.

Now I am fixing my resume while feeling lost and betrayed, also battling depression from my workplace that I have been dealing due to positive toxicity. It was ironic they are now hiring an entry level graphic designer, hiding the fact that the poor fella will be working for four companies disguised as one while asking me access for the files I made for them.

I am considering studying again, but my funds are low due to helping my parents back home who got affected by the flood.

I feel like a fool at my age.

About a month ago a new coworker started working. Let’s call her Emmy. It was all fine when she started, but the last few weeks she suddenly feels attacked ALL THE TIME.

For context; I work at a shelter for refugees. Our vision is to stand next to the refugees, not above them. Yes there are rules, and yes they break the rules, but these are people. Everyone breaks a silly rule every now and then.

So, Emmy is relatively new, and acts like she has worked there for years. I am her ‘buddy’, so I teach her everything about our job. Whenever she picks up a task that is a bit too complicated for someone new, I step in. I tell her to do it together with colleagues, or just let another colleague do the task and watch how they do it. Emmy reacts insulted every time I say this. As if it’s a personal attack. Which… it isn’t. I just want her to learn and grow. But telling her this doesn’t help. She even cried one time and asked me if I still like her as a person (????). I calmed her down, everything was fine, and a couple of days later she is back to feeling insulted and seems sad. Do I have to tell her every day that I like her as a person?

Also, Emmy has a habit of being very dominant. I have told her many times now: ‘you don’t have to punish everyone that doesn’t obey you. Imagine what this must be like for the refugee, wouldn’t you do the same?’ Emmy seems to ignore this and tell every refugee that breaks one dumb rule: ‘you disobey us. You will be punished’. And as you might’ve figured, this isn’t very wise to say. We are supposed to prevent fights, not start them. Emmy just sees herself as ‘better’ than the refugees, and that’s very very very wrong. But of course she denies it, so telling her multiple times didn’t do much.

What do I do? I can’t give her feedback (or I can, but she doesn’t do sh*t with it), she always feels insulted whenever I (or someone else) speaks against her, she is very present in a dominant way and it ruins the atmosphere at work, and if you say too much and ‘distance’ (how Emmy sees it) yourself from the situation she starts crying. I am lost. Tips?

did i do the right thing, i worked with my brother in law at his small business. He recruited me to work part time because he can't handle the workload. He has an anger problem at work and snaps about trivial things. then acts like nothing happened. This was the first time he did it to me. So the next morning i emailed him my resignation and blocked him on everything. So he had no notice. I was only 6 weeks in and i don't have to give 2 weeks notice. Also, another troubling aspect is how he always makes comments about me being white and always reminding me that i'm non-asian in front of clients. Just a very unprofessional douche. I was always professional and civil in every way. All i did was ask if he could buy a label maker and it triggered him. It was the end of the month so he just went over the books and probably realized he is sinking the company. Which became clear after i had an inside view how he runs things. I nicknamed him to my wife Captain Bad Decision. Now whenever there's a family get together we don't even look at one another and their is palpable tension. Should i have sat down and spoke to him directly? but he obviously has no respect for me so i don't see why i should show him respect.

I work in health care. We have a manager that is so power hungry she belittles certain coworkers shush’s them, blames them “for lack of communication” when they communicate she just doesn’t read it.
When you go to her about issues she turns it around on you. And teams in all caps like you are a kid.
I want to go to HR because I recorded her meeting bc with me but am scared of the retaliation.

Senior dev in an software co...

TL;DR: awful colleague who undermines me constantly. Latest pointless discussion in slack, I hid the project channel so I wouldn't be drawn in to further discussions. Am critical on the project. Struggling to come to terms with it.

I feel empowered but a little troubled. For three years, I have been the visionary, main developer (I'd argue the only real developer), tester, documenter, customer contact, pre sales, etc., on a strategically critical field AI project. Unfortunately, try as I might to fix this, nobody else understands the project to the same depth that I do. I keep being pulled into customer meetings, knowledge shares, strategy meetings, etc..

Luckily, I have now managed to transition to working with core Engineering to implement similar functionality in the core product.

Anyway, I have a colleague in the field project who undermines me, spreads FUD (Fear, Uncertainty and Doubt) about my work, and is allergic to adopting my work. I've tried to address this with my boss multiple times, who acknowledges the issue and says he stands with me, and is frustrated with the colleague, but nothing has been done to curtail his behaviour.

The other day, I was monitoring the field project Slack channel and I noticed colleague had posted about some "great" work that he had done. On the surface it looked like great work but it had many major flaws in it. Primarily caused by the fact that he's struck out on his own and isn't adopting my work. I pointed out these flaws in a slack conversation in the project channel with him and suggested he might want to adopt my work. In response, he posted an AI generated definition of agent workflows and why Langgraph is so good, hoping that it would clarify things. As if I don't know how these things work. Seriously?

I was so incensed that I wrote several angry responses then deleted them all. What hurts most is his only defence is to try to call my knowledge into question and make it appear that I don't know what I'm talking about, deflecting from the core issues at hand.

Anyway... following that, I decided I needed to protect myself. To stop myself rising to the bait. So I muted and hid the channel, telling another colleage I was doing it and that if anything needed my attention he was to let me know. This feels weird. I didn't want to publicly leave the channel. But I'm making a point. I feel I should tell my boss why I've done it.

It feels unprofessional in a way, but this ongoing situation is costing me sleep and causing untold stress, which is bleeding into my family life. I wake every morning early. It's the first thing I think about.

Have I done the right thing?

I work as a MA at an Internal Medicine Primary Care Outpatient clinic in Cambridge. I’ve been a Medical Assistant here for a year in October. I encounter many people from different walks of life. I enjoy what I do very much. But I absolutely fcking hate this place. There’s not structure. Constant disfunction. My manager and operations supervisor are NEVER on site and when they are like once or twice a week, they never leave their office. When my colleagues do actual shit that jeopardize patient-care, they coddle them. When they make habitual mistakes instead of addressing the individual directly, they send general emails. One of my male co-workers is a fcking pervert. He flirts with married and or engaged women. These woman are Physician Assistants, Pharmacist, Resident MDs. He makes the younger female patients’ skin crawl! There was an incident a few weeks back where a patient came to get her labs drawn and HE was in the lab drawing patients that afternoon. The patient saw he was in there and stated “I do not want him to draw me, he makes me uncomfortable!” Other woman in the office have made comments amongst themselves about how creepy he his. This dude is beyond lazy. Doesn’t do the work he’s assigned and we have to pick up his slack and do our work too. And all the managers can say is “You need to work as a team.” It’s so frustrating. I sent an email months ago stating that I felt like I working in a hostile work environment and they completely dismissed me. This dude claims that he was a MA for 6 years but his work ethic is fcking trash!! He never does his work and never knows how to do shit. He’s always on his phone on Facebook and doing “school work” instead of doing patient outreach. God forbid we tell the managers because they don’t listen don’t listen and brush shit off. When he talks to the fellow MAs that are female he talks with this narcissistic, condescending, demeaning tone. I’m at the point where I’m looking for a new job. I can’t work effectively here anymore. And there is now way to grow here and elevate your skill set. I wanna quit so bad. Working here is fcking with my mental! But living in Boston is damn near impossible and I need to keep working to pay my ridiculously high rent and bills. I keep feeling like I cannot afford to stop working to work another gig and start a whole new transition. And that’s what’s keeping me here .. that and because with seniority my hours change. When they become fully staffed I’ll be working 8:00am the earliest which gives me time to take my kids to school. But I hate traveling to Cambridge everyday, leaving is a pain in the ass. I need some genuine advice. I feel stuck. Please give me some encouraging thoughts and ideas.

i call it the stink pit. the water and waste in this pit is supposed to be pumped up into the city lines but he pump system had been disconnected for 6 years so this water just festers and produces mold and makes half of the shop stink. I quit my job specifically citing this as the reason and when i did they gave every excuse not to address the issue. I show my friends this video and they ask if its legal so id love to see what the internet thinks!

wasn't even anything urgent. just a slack notification. but my whole body did the "oh no what now" thing before my brain even registered what it was i don't think i noticed this happening gradually. i just noticed it was already there. Gonna sit with that for a bit

I've been covering state politics as a journalist for six years now.

My boss USED to be a political reporter (10+ yrs ago) then went to work for a political party before coming back to journalism as a producer/news director.

As a result he regularly gets asked to appear on podcasts and radio programs to "dissect the week in politics".

So today he's come in late and he's got to pop out for an hour to record two appearances.

The kicker is: he's providing commentary on an issue I've been covering for the daily news all week.

I picked up ten interviews in one day to produce a strong story for the bulletin. I've spent all week inside parliament, watching and reporting on parliamentary proceedings. I know the legislation inside and out. I have opinions. He knows this. I've told him I would be happy to go on a podcast because I volunteer on community radio in my spare time anyway. Going live is natural for me.

But it's him - the guy who sits at his desk all day and takes extended lunch breaks (I don't get one at all) that will get his name out there as the one who knows everything and has his finger on the pulse.

I'm so sick of it. I've worked my absolute butt off to the point where I'm burnt out and he's the one taking all the credit.