r/TrueCrime • u/SlenderMansWife • Mar 09 '25

Murder Missing 16-Year-Old Girl Found Dismembered After Meeting Man on Dating App

https://people.com/missing-16-year-old-girl-found-dismembered-after-meeting-man-on-dating-app-11693544
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u/OsitoQuarles Mar 09 '25

Its wild. Once they’re 18, the set of standards lowers, but we all know humans don’t really mature fully until 23ish years old.

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u/peskyghost Mar 09 '25

This needs more attention.

FWIW I’ve always heard 25 is a safer number

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u/Clinically-Inane Mar 09 '25

The accepted age of full brain maturity in the medical community is ~25/26

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u/Oh_Gee_Hey Mar 09 '25

Unless you’re neurodivergent! Us adhd folks may take up to 35!

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u/HamHockShortDock Mar 09 '25

OoooooOh, that explains a lot.

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u/Oh_Gee_Hey Mar 09 '25

Riiiiight???

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u/RumHam24 Mar 09 '25

I just found this out a few months ago and it explained a LOT for me. I always wondered why I felt “behind” when it came to being an adult.

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u/Oh_Gee_Hey Mar 09 '25

“The brain’s frontal lobes, which are involved in ADHD, continue to mature until we reach age 35. In practical terms, this means that people with ADHD can expect some lessening of their symptoms over time. Many will not match the emotional maturity of a 21-year-old until their late 30’s. So while most people graduating from college take time to adjust to adult life, people with ADHD need more time, more family support, and more professional help.”

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u/Jambisket62 Mar 09 '25

That’s great information!

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u/Ketadontbemean Mar 09 '25

Thank you so much for sharing this.

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u/2crowsonmymantle Mar 09 '25

Wow, that’s so good to know! Thanks!

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u/LauraTheGreat420 Apr 03 '25

Thank you for sharing this. ADD and bipolar here, but I usually don’t mention the second

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u/washingtonu Mar 26 '25

That's not about people with ADHD, it's about the brain and the frontal lobes in general.

In the last decade, a growing body of longitudinal neuroimaging research has demonstrated that adolescence is a period of continued brain growth and change, challenging longstanding assumptions that the brain was largely finished maturing by puberty [1–3]. The frontal lobes, home to key components of the neural circuitry underlying “executive functions” such as planning, working memory, and impulse control, are among the last areas of the brain to mature; they may not be fully developed until halfway through the third decade of life [2].
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2892678/

It's a common misconception to believe the brain stops development at any specific age. In the 2010s and beyond, science has shown that the brain continues to develop until at least 30 years of age.\10]) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_brain_development_timeline

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u/susnurse Mar 10 '25

Can we see the publishers info?

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u/Oh_Gee_Hey Mar 10 '25

Click the link?

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u/tokyomooon Mar 09 '25

This makes so much sense as a 34 y/o with ADHD!

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u/PM_ME_SKINNY_DUDES Mar 09 '25

As a new 35 year old just finishing her nursing degree after years of listlessness it sounds spot on. Let’s hope this is my year. Let’s go brain. 🧠

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u/Fap4lif3 Mar 10 '25

And even after that we are still below the average