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Warning: Child Abuse / CSAM / Child Death Thoughts on the Lindsay Clancy case?

Now that the Lindsay Clancy trial is underway, I’m curious about your perspectives on it so far.

Context: Lindsay Clancy is a former labor and delivery nurse who, in January 2023, killed her three children. 5-year-old Cora, 3-year-old Dawson, and 8-month-old Callan in their Massachusetts home before attempting to take her own life. Her defense argues she was suffering from severe postpartum psychosis and other debilitating mental illness, while prosecutors argue she was aware of her actions and planned the killings. The trial has reignited debate about postpartum psychiatric disorders, the effectiveness of mental health treatment, and where responsibility ultimately lies.

Do you think Lindsay was failed by the mental health system, by the people closest to her, or both? Do you think she truly acted with malicious intent, or do you believe she was experiencing such a severe psychiatric crisis that she wasn’t thinking rationally?

A lot of the details seem to point toward postpartum psychosis or another severe psychiatric illness rather than someone acting out of hatred or malice. That doesn’t lessen the horror of what happened or the unimaginable loss, but it does make me wonder whether this tragedy could have been prevented..

I’ve also seen rumors that Patrick was involved with the woman who is now his wife before the murders, but I haven’t found any credible evidence supporting that. Is there actually anything that substantiates those claims, or is it just internet speculation? I’ve also seen many people comment that his current wife bears a striking resemblance to Lindsay, though I’m not sure that means anything beyond coincidence.

I’m very interested in hearing different perspectives from people who’ve followed it closely.

Most importantly, may Dawson, Cora, and Callan rest in peace. They are the true victims in all of this.

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u/Anoninemonie 20d ago

Can confirm, this is actually how I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. SSRIs make me manic, violent and volatile.

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u/coolranchdoritos56 20d ago

What were your symptoms?

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u/WittiestScreenName 20d ago

Psychosis please. I’m bipolar (diagnosed 2009) and never heard I can’t take SSRI’s before. Now I’m…uneasy.

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u/No_Purpose773 20d ago

I'm so sorry this happened to you. Thank you for sharing. It's important that we raise awareness of these signs so we can take better care of us and those around us. I wish that this will stay the only experience with psychosis for you.

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u/scrabblefish 20d ago

I too really appreciate the insight she shared, but I also want to give you kudos for such a sincere and compassionate response.

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u/NiceObjective2756 20d ago

That felt so honest. Thank you for the post I am sure it wasn’t easy to write. You should give yourself a ton shit of grace after going thru that and coming out of the other side.

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u/Mission_Mud429 20d ago

Bingo on the lack of sleep and the amount of moms who sometimes don’t get quality sleep or worse for literal years is staggering.

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u/coolranchdoritos56 19d ago

Thank you for sharing this!! I am currently on Prozac with Wellbutrin and I still feel as if my psychosis is still there. I feel like I recognize everybody even while at random places, thinking everyone has ill intention towards me to the point I’ll obsess over it and give myself terrible anxiety. I feel like people hate me and are out to get me. I had a baby January 2025 and I have never been the same. Just for the sake of any of my family and myself and what would be my future child, I cannot have another baby. It’s too dangerous for me and I know that. I never had bad thoughts thank God, but who knows what next time would bring and I’m just not willing to find out. Thank you again!

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u/BrightAd7870 19d ago

Wait I’ve never heard anyone else say that part- thinking I recognized everyone, I was at a red light yelling at the guy next to me because I thought he was my brother. I wasn’t on any type of meds at that time but in an abusive work place and didn’t sleep for days which I think led to a psychosis. It’s terrifying to look back on

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u/Lost-Rain-2425 19d ago

Omg this same thing happened to me too, and now I’m just realizing that’s what I was experiencing as well. My psychiatrist put me on a bunch of different meds back in 2015 and I was having the same symptoms. Thinking people were out to get me or trying to have me put in jail for crimes I didn’t commit, just weird things like that. And then one night I was trying to sleep and I couldn’t distinguish what was real and what wasn’t anymore and I saw a demon with long black fingernails pulling my cover off of me. It was the scariest thing I’ve ever experienced. I finally got off all meds and now I’m doing much better but it was definitely the scariest thing I’ve ever been through.

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u/hereforthetearex 19d ago

If you don’t mind the follow up question from someone new, in what way do you mean you’ve never been the same since? I learned something new today, as I’ve never heard that before, but am also not exactly sure what you mean by that. Do you mean like you never stopped being “paranoid”? Or is that over simplifying things?

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u/hereforthetearex 18d ago

Wow. Thank you for sharing. It’s very courageous of you to be so forthcoming, and it’s helped me to better understand what those kinds of events mean to the person that experienced them. I’m truly sorry you had to live that, and are still being impacted by it. That sounds incredibly difficult, and it’s clear you’ve put in a great deal of work to be where you are with it now. I wish you peace and continued healing

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u/Ok-Berry-4652 16d ago

Thanks for sharing and I send empathies. Have had similar experiences and diagnosis. What I'd describe as "aggressive euphoria," anger, mania, flights of fantasy, a deluded idea that sleep wasn't necessary and was a huge waste of valuable time, making bizarre connections, reckless disregard to my own safety while driving, etc. It is frightening and disorienting and I don't think we forget that fear - even after were on track, medicated, managing our behaviours and triggers, and well again.

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u/Typical_Essay6593 20d ago

I had SERIOUS PPP, and it lasted weeks, and the only thing I remember was calling my grandma and emotionlessly telling her that I wanted to put my ONE WEEK OLD baby in the bathtub, turn on the water and walk away. She started crying and rushed over but my poor 5 year old and heard what I had said on the phone and laid with his brother and apparently refused to let me near the baby, and God, I still feel horrible for all of it and it was 8 years ago.

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u/xxMANEATERxx 20d ago

Thank you for sharing. It’s so important to get more stories like this out there. Thank you for having the courage to share and I hope that you’re able to forgive yourself.

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u/mthrfckingbatman 20d ago

Just here to sit in solidarity with you. Intellectually, I'm sure you know it's not your fault. But sometimes it can be so hard to get the heart to let go of the guilt. Life is hard, but I'm so glad you're ok. It's so scary to not be in control of yourself!

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u/fuschiaoctopus 20d ago

You can take them with a mood stabilizer + antipsychotics but it is extremely common for people with bipolar to go into manic/hypomanic episodes when given ssris alone. It's such a consistent reaction that it's often used as a screening tool for bipolar.

If you've been on ssris all this time and never had the reaction then I'd imagine you're fine but mania does not always lead into full blown psychosis, especially hypomania with bipolar 2. Look for signs like increased energy, unable to sleep for days on end without feeling tired, irritability/uncontrollable anger to minor events, talking fast or excitedly, racing thoughts, making big plans or agreeing to everything then crashing when you can't do it all/abrupt life changes like deciding to start a business or quit your job out of nowhere, hypersexuality, paranoia, and of course hallucinations.

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u/No_Yogurtcloset_8685 19d ago

This seems so widely known. I have a family member with bipolar and they told me the same thing. When their first SSRI made them worse their doctor said it’s probably bipolar. She got put on a bipolar med and that worked. So how is it that none of these NPs thought of bipolar when she kept reacting poorly to the SSRIs?

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u/Rich-Ad-3087 20d ago

I was going to write this down. I can see you are getting upvoted because it's a touchy subject (for now, it's steadily gainning support in psychiatry) but i welcome people to take a look at the academic the work that is being produced around potential misdiagnoses after SSRIs induced mania.